Lisa Waker - Counsellor & Mindset Coach

Lisa Waker - Counsellor & Mindset Coach My name is Lisa Waker, I am a counsellor who is passionate about helping and supporting others. I he I

𝔸𝕣𝕖 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 𝕀π•₯π•£π•¦π•˜π•˜π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•₯𝕠 𝕝𝕠𝕀𝕖 π•¨π•–π•šπ•˜π•™π•₯ π•šπ•Ÿ π•žπ•šπ••-π•π•šπ•—π•–?? π•‹π•™π•šπ•€ 𝕔𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 𝕓𝕖 𝕨𝕙π•ͺ .... You’re not imagining it β€” midlife can feel like a...
29/10/2025

𝔸𝕣𝕖 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦 𝕀π•₯π•£π•¦π•˜π•˜π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜ π•₯𝕠 𝕝𝕠𝕀𝕖 π•¨π•–π•šπ•˜π•™π•₯ π•šπ•Ÿ π•žπ•šπ••-π•π•šπ•—π•–?? π•‹π•™π•šπ•€ 𝕔𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 𝕓𝕖 𝕨𝕙π•ͺ ....

You’re not imagining it β€” midlife can feel like a perfect storm:
stress is higher, sleep is harder, and your body isn’t responding the way it used to. πŸ’₯

Here’s why πŸ‘‡

πŸ’­ 1. Stress hormones change your body chemistry
When cortisol (the stress hormone) stays high, your body holds onto fat β€” especially around your middle.
It also increases cravings for quick energy: sugar, carbs, caffeine, wine.
This isn’t a lack of willpower β€” it’s your biology trying to cope.

😴 2. Poor sleep throws off hunger & fullness signals
Less sleep = more ghrelin (hunger hormone) + less leptin (satiety hormone).
That means you feel hungrier, crave more, and struggle to feel full.

πŸ”₯ 3. The cycle feeds itself
Stress keeps you up.
Lack of sleep raises stress.
Both push your body toward fat storage and exhaustion.

πŸ’š 4. The solution isn’t just diet β€” it’s nervous system care.
Try this instead of another β€œfix-it” plan:

πŸŒ™ Prioritize wind-down time β€” dim lights, no screens 30 mins before bed.

πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ Practice daily stress resets β€” breathing, journaling, walks, yoga.

πŸ’ͺ Move for energy, not punishment.

πŸ₯¦ Nourish yourself β€” balanced meals stabilize blood sugar and mood.

✨ Your body isn’t betraying you β€” it’s protecting you.
Lower your stress, honour your rest, and your metabolism will follow. ❀️

xx Lisa xx

ℝ𝕖𝕗𝕝𝕖𝕔π•₯ & ℝ𝕖𝕀𝕖π•₯ πŸ™πŸ’•It feels like forever since I posted BUT for good reason! There are major changes happening which I'm ...
25/10/2025

ℝ𝕖𝕗𝕝𝕖𝕔π•₯ & ℝ𝕖𝕀𝕖π•₯ πŸ™πŸ’•

It feels like forever since I posted BUT for good reason! There are major changes happening which I'm super excited about but it's been a very busy 6 weeks!! Our house is officially on the market πŸ™Œ

Today was all about focusing on self care and listening to my body πŸ™Œβœ¨οΈ although it started last night with the most blissful evening at HQ with a soundbath while suspended in a silk cocoon, I can't even describe how relaxed I was πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ

It's also my grandads birthday today, a reminder of how much he is missed BUT he was everywhere today and I felt deeply connected to him 🌈 walking in the rain remembering beautiful memories of him πŸ’–

It's important to make time to sit in your stuff especially the uncomfortable, we can't bypass it because it will show up in other ways 😌

Sending you strength if you are struggling ✨️ remember to look for the rainbows 🌈 xx

23/09/2025

𝕀𝕀 π•ͺ𝕠𝕦𝕣 π•—π•£π•šπ•–π•Ÿπ•• 𝕠𝕣 π•—π•’π•žπ•šπ•π•ͺ π•žπ•–π•žπ•“π•–π•£ π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕒 π•₯π• π•©π•šπ•” 𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕒π•₯π•šπ• π•Ÿπ•€π•™π•šπ•‘? πŸ€”πŸ˜”

Here's how you maybe able to help? Leave the judgement, they don't need it and if anything it could potentially make them shut down and distance themselves.

Instead be there, as hard as it may be, you could be the only shining light that they see ✨

Check in, ask them how they are doing and listen.

Life is hard enough, kindness and compassion will help.

If you would like to know how I support those that are or have been in toxic relationships then take a look at my bio for more information πŸ’»

xx Lisa xx

π”Ύπ•£π•šπ•–π•— - π•Žπ•™π•’π•₯ 𝕠π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕀 π•žπ•’π•ͺ π•Ÿπ• π•₯ 𝕀𝕖𝕖 πŸ˜”No one tells you how heavy grief can feel, when the world expects you to move on!They d...
17/09/2025

π”Ύπ•£π•šπ•–π•— - π•Žπ•™π•’π•₯ 𝕠π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕀 π•žπ•’π•ͺ π•Ÿπ• π•₯ 𝕀𝕖𝕖 πŸ˜”

No one tells you how heavy grief can feel, when the world expects you to move on!

They don't realise that the laughter that they may have heard from you one day can be followed by a day of guilt the next because it looks like you've forgotten them!

Suddenly hit by a memory that means you struggle to catch your breath, the reality hits that you aren't going to see them again 😒

Grief isn't always loud sobs of crying, it's the silence that hits, it's the empty chair, it's the unused coffee cup, it's the weight of carrying the love that you can no longer share, it's keeping it all together so that others don't feel uncomfortable.

It's the exhaustion of pretending everything is OK!

The anger that no one warned you about.

What part of your own grief story have you had to keep hidden?

If you are impacted by grief I am sending you so much love and strength.

xx Lisa xx

ℂ𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 π•šπ•₯ 𝕓𝕖 𝕀𝕠 π•€π•šπ•žπ•‘π•π•–? πŸ€”This is a question that I would NEVER have considered asking a client 5 years ago!"Could your me...
05/08/2025

ℂ𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 π•šπ•₯ 𝕓𝕖 𝕀𝕠 π•€π•šπ•žπ•‘π•π•–? πŸ€”

This is a question that I would NEVER have considered asking a client 5 years ago!

"Could your mental health be impacted by your hormones?"

What I know now, not just because of my own lived experience but also by the many women that I have worked with, is that hormones have a major impact on how we feel mentally and physically.

It is now one of the leading questions that I ask all women regardless of age! I have worked with teens who have suddenly had an onset of anxiety, which would appear to have come from nowhere, BUT on reflection coincides with their menstrual cycle! This is not just about us middle aged ladies but also about educating our daughters to πŸ₯°

My advice is to keep a track of your cycle, notice any changes, especially mood, and remember you're never too young to be impacted by hormones 😘

I hope this helps? Share with your fellow sisters πŸ’Œ

xx Lisa xx

ℂ𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 π•šπ•₯ 𝕓𝕖 𝕀𝕠 π•€π•šπ•žπ•‘π•π•–?? πŸ€”This is a question that I would NEVER have considered asking a client 5 years ago! "Could your ...
05/08/2025

ℂ𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 π•šπ•₯ 𝕓𝕖 𝕀𝕠 π•€π•šπ•žπ•‘π•π•–?? πŸ€”

This is a question that I would NEVER have considered asking a client 5 years ago!

"Could your mental health be impacted by your hormones?"

What I know now, not just because of my own lived experience but also by the many women that I have worked with, is that hormones have a major impact on how we feel mentally and physically.

It is now one of the leading questions that I ask all women regardless of age! I have worked with teens who have suddenly had an onset of anxiety, which would appear to have come from nowhere, BUT on reflection coincides with their menstrual cycle! This is not just about us middle aged ladies but also about educating our daughters to πŸ₯°

My advice is to keep a track of your cycle, notice any changes, especially mood and remember you're never too young to be impacted by hormones 😘

I hope this helps? Share with your fellow sister's ❀️

Xx Lisa xx

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