The Wild Fem

The Wild Fem 🔥 SA Trauma Survivor & Spiritual Rebel.

Dark & Dirty Feminine Alchemy to turn your shame & trauma INTO JUICY AS F**K SENSUAL RADIANCE!

🐈 Yoni massage therapist
🍯 Retreat leader
🎙 5☆ Podcast Host
🏺 Mentor for women

Based in Cornwall UK + Tenerife

12/02/2026

That last line from Monica 🤣🎙

Just dropped on the podcast today ..

Perhaps the most judged part of a womens body ...

& how to FINALLY hold reverence for the feminine heart to open wide intimately with others,
& ourselves.

guides us to the ritual that changes EVERYTHING in our nervous system,
& in the bedroom.. 🤯

If you're ready to ...

🌹 Accept your br__sts exactly as they are

🌹 Stop having the longest healing to-do list & come home to the simplest way to soften your body

🌹 Guide your partner to include your heart in intimacy & bring reverence to your br___sts

🌹 Open your heart, trust love & release the armour ...

THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU!

🎧 Comment PODCAST to tune in now


I used to accept what I was given in the bedroom. Mediocre RushedNumbDissapointing...Not expressing my needs.Not knowing...
10/02/2026

I used to accept what I was given in the bedroom.

Mediocre
Rushed
Numb
Dissapointing...

Not expressing my needs.
Not knowing my body.
Not knowing that slow would actually serve me!

It started with me.
Accidentally joining a yoni massage course that completely changed my life.

Not only did I release the trauma my 🐈 was holding from SA ..

But I actually slowed down
Touch was safe, sacred, conscious for the FIRST TIME.

& it wasnt until I became my OWN lover.
When I raised the standard of how I was intimate with MYSELF ..

Then I could ask for it without freezing.

Then I could direct him with confidence.

Then I could feel safe because my body trusted ME to speak for her.

To say no.
To ask for more.
To slow down & protect her.

No longer sacrificing your body for their enjoyment is a rebellion against the patriarchy 💥

& IT STARTS WITH YOUR OWN HANDS.

This Valentines day, I'm holding a FREE event for you to awaken the lover within,

You will ⤵️

⚔️ stop feeling like the option. The last priority. & put yourself back into the centre of your life.

⚔️ Experience the holy-f**kkkk intimacy that you're STARVING for .. (Because you know how to be the focus & receivvvee)

⚔️ Stop ignoring yourself & chasing them for more ~ & become THE source of your love, validation & self worth

⚔️ finally love from wholeness not need ~ & feel more connected to yourself than ever

ADORED - Online - Sunday, Feb 15th -

💌 Comment ADORED to join


06/02/2026

I HAD NO IDEA THIS WAS COMING ... 🤯

A HUGE shift happened within me a couple of weeks ago

I THOUGHT I was embodied ...
I had only just touched the surface 💥🔥

WET & WORTHY WOMAN IS FOR YOU IF ⤵️

⚡️ S** has always been about men/your partner .. & you’re ready to stop sacrificing your pleasure & - put your body first

⚡️ You stay quiet. Muted & diluted. Shrinking your power to keep others comfortable - & you’re DONE

⚡️ You’ve had dissapointing/traumatic intimate relationships
- & you know it’s time to take your power back

⚡️ In love & intimacy you want MORE. But you cant ask for it. Your needs feel “too much”

⚡️ You find yourself taking off the dress & the lipstick because you don’t want to deal with the unwanted attention - but f**k it! You’re ready to activate your shameless radiance

WE GATHER MARCH 26 - 30TH
Tenerife, Spain

SAVE £500 + right now on the final spots ...

Application only my love,
& if you're curious but SUPER NERVOUS,

Im here to have a no-strings-attatched call with you to answer all your questions ❤️ (just DM me)

https://thewildfem.com/retreat

05/02/2026

🎙 Just dropped 💥 Ep 113: SHAMELESSLY TOO MUCH 🫦

➡️ Comment PODCAST to listen to the whole episode

THIS ONE IS FOR YOU IF ...

🌶 You cause drama in your relationship because you kept all your needs silent to try & be "an easy woman"

🌶 You want more. But you cant ask for it. You want to be "low maintenance" but feel like you get breadcrumbs

🌶 You keep attracting medicore love + friendships

🌶 You've kept your power, emotions, wildness & feral freaky self in a CAGE - & played small to keep others comfortable

🌶 You KNOW you're a deep, powerful woman ... but you're missing the safety to embody her fully

➡️ Listen everywhere on WET & WORTHY WOMAN
.....

Everyone asks how I met my husband.Im English. He's Italian. We lived thousands of miles apart. So here's how it unfolde...
03/02/2026

Everyone asks how I met my husband.

Im English. He's Italian.
We lived thousands of miles apart.

So here's how it unfolded ..

It started with the deepest heartbreak I've ever felt ...

A long excrutiating un-coupling ...
my heart was shattered.

I screamed the lyrics of drivers license by Olivia Rodrigo on repeat

(very Bridget Jones 1, very theraputic!) 💝

Once I overcame the never-ending grief.
& I felt like a human again ..

I got a ticket to my favourite place, Tenerife,
The island of the heart chakra after all.✈️

2 weeks of sun, seafood & vino to celebrate surviving

I got in touch with a man I knew here.
Thinking a holiday fling could be fun...

But he stood me up!!! 🤯
day .. after day ... after day.

BREADCRUMBS.

& I decided (after a breif moment of victimhood & rejection wounds) that I would accept NOTHING LESS than the Goddess standard

from myself,
in business,
& with men.

I ignored his texts & attempts to rope me back in
& went ALL IN ON MYSELF!

Attended ceremonies.
Poured into my mission here at THE WILD FEM,
Danced on the beach at sunset
Went for solo seaside dinners
Moved to a yummy airbnb apartment

ME ROMANCING ME - (let that land) 👑

THAT is when my man entered my field.

2 years later,
we are married & living together on the paradise f***king island!!! 🌴💍

When I became my own lover...
When I decided I am enough alone
I am whole without a man

& WHEN I ACTUALLY EMBODIED THAT!!
Then, I could enter love from wholeness.

& be witnessed by a man who fell in love with ALL of me 🌶

💌 I'm hosting a FREE Valentines event for you to activate your INNER lover,

so that you can truly embody this too
➡️ Comment ADORED to join us on Feb 15th


You long to feel ADORED. but you dont trust they will choose you or make time ...So you slip into chasing.Reminding them...
02/02/2026

You long to feel ADORED.

but you dont trust they will choose you or make time ...

So you slip into chasing.

Reminding them about the date,
the anniversary,

dropping hints
complaining

feeling like an option an option
rather than the priority 💝...

& begging for crumbs
or shutting down & feeling unmet ⚔️

you want to let go.

you crave surrender,
security,
safety,

but its like a demon takes over you ...
you grip to control again.

the truth is ...
IT WAS NEVER ABOUT THEM

Its about you not ignoring yourself anymore 🤯🤯🤯

I'm holding a FREE event to activate your inner lover.

so that you can meet the whole,
centred version of you 🔥

& become your own source of validation & self-worth 🌹

because when the source is them (or money) ..
IT WILL NEVER FEEL ENOUGH.

& you will keep chasing out of lack ...
not loving from wholeness

ADORED 🌹

Come home to yourself. & your womanhood. as the source of love & validation. 👑

LIVE ON ZOOM
SUNDAY FEB 15TH - 5PM (UK TIME)

https://thewildfem.com/adored

27/01/2026

The old me just expired.
I've broken up with her behaviours.

The complaining he's too busy
The whining for attention,
The putting him on a pedestall above herself.

I've broken up with the victim,

The princess who cries on the floor when he doesnt "pick me"

I worked too dam hard to untangle my self expression,
My intimacy,
My power, my body, my voice from the patriarchy...

& it was right there,
Infecting my f***king marriage 🖤

I said for the whole of 2025 that I wanted to be secure,
Whole within,
Self-sourcing my worth & safety ..

Whilst obsessively identifying with anxious attatchment
& abandonment wounds.

IT'S UNHELPFUL ⚔️

We cant blame our trauma forever ...
For keeping us small,
& holding us back

For the patterns that are there to be OBLITORATED the moment we just DECIDE!!

So are you devoted to the old you?
The small you?

Or are you stepping into SAVAGE devotion of the woman you say you want to become?

Doors open this week to my brand new Telegram community

& a FREE experience all about centering back into yourself ...

Becoming your own source of self-love
(So that you dont keep chasing him for validation)

Get ready to activate savage self-devotion ..
& feel adored & choosen ..

BECAUSE YOU CHOSE YOUR DAM SELF.
..

26/01/2026

8 years ago,
A man followed me back from a beach party
& ignored my no.

But little did he know...
He picked the right woman.

I turned that night ~ my worst nightmare ~
Into a global movement to help women feel safe in their body 🔥

There was a moment when I realised something changed ...

That the trauma no longer had power over me.

I could no longer fake it.
I told my (now ex) partner that I needed more.

My voice came back in the bedroom!
I spoke up to PROTECT my body.

She wasnt up for grabs anymore.

I started to instruct my lovers to ask permission before touching or entering my body ...

& that RADICAL act of speaking up for her (🐈) ..
Created the trust she needed to heal.

Finally my body felt safe again,
Not because I "healed" but because she could trust me ... 🥹

I became her safety ⚔️

My SA Trauma alchemy method is now recommended by therapists & tested by 700+ women...

Like I said ..
He picked the right woman 💥
.

You've been chasing. More of his time, his attention, his presence ...& the hit of yummy feelings that come with it. His...
22/01/2026

You've been chasing.
More of his time, his attention, his presence ...

& the hit of yummy feelings that come with it.

His love becomes oxygen for you.
& slowly, slowly ...

You stopped spending time with yourself.
Prioritising yourself.

Always chasing HIS time *(& feeling anxious as f when he isn't available) ...

Whilst never being available for yourself!!

Babe!
You've done so so much of the inner-work,
You worked so hard to be this conscious epic woman ...

But love has you spiralling a little right?

Its time to recentre 👑
Become the source of love & worth in your life again

& no longer to look to him to fill the void of time & love that actually needs to come from YOU 🤯

THIS is the episode you've been waiting for ...
To remember YOU get to be the priority again 🔥

(& become irrisistible in the process)

Comment PODCAST to tune into the SHAMELESS SERIES now 🎙💥

(P.s. its a deeply vulnerable one because Im on this journey with you & these barbies come from my own messy triggers)


When I agreed to move 3,000km to be with my man ..  & make the next commitment in our relationship 💍➡️ MY NEEDS X100 I h...
21/01/2026

When I agreed to move 3,000km to be with my man .. & make the next commitment in our relationship 💍

➡️ MY NEEDS X100

I had sooooo many fears
I wanted connection to feel safe

But I repressed it.

Tried to be cool
Tried to hold it together

Instead of texting ... "i miss you, can we talk later"

I silently waited
& waited
& waited
For him to read my mind & make me feel choosen.

All my safety & self-worth was sourced in HIS actions.

& the needy part of me stayed in her cage before she "ruined everything"

I could of saved SOOOOO much drama in my relationship if I just OWNED IT

Expressed my needs ~ not shamed them.
Spoke up - instead of shoved down

& asked with love ~ instead of complained from lack
(Still working on that one!!)

"hey, I need you"
Is always better than "You didnt text me all day" 🤪

Your fear of being too much ⤵️

Is actually making the demands,
Complaints
& drama in your relationship... a bit too much.

Tomorrow's podcast episode is FOR YOU deeply loving women who feel needy & squash it dow

Who want more but stay silent
Who want to be chased.. but end up chasing

I got you babe.
Episode drops Jan 22nd 💥

🎙 Comment PODCAST to be the first to tune in
.

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Do you ever feel like you’re the one chasing in your relationship?Waiting for him to make time,initiate the date,give yo...
16/01/2026

Do you ever feel like you’re the one chasing in your relationship?
Waiting for him to make time,
initiate the date,
give you presence instead of distraction?

Do you crave feeling wanted, desired, magnetic?
To finally release control and soften into trust —
to unlock your feminine energy without forcing it?

Here’s the truth:
It’s not his time you should be chasing, babe.
It’s yours.

When did you last date yourself?
Make love to yourself?
Feel more excited for your own company than for anyone else’s?

The safety, surrender and devotion you’re craving in partnership begins inside your own body.
It starts the moment you choose you.

WET & WORTHY WOMAN is the dark feminine initiation into the hot, deep, sxxy love affair you’ve been waiting for…
and it starts with a ta***ic relationship with yourself 🔥

So you can stop living in “not enough”
and start living whole, satisfied, turned-on and irresistible in your feminine body, voice and power 💥

I’m Charlotte.
S**ual-trauma survivor and former people-pleaser.

I’ve guided 700+ women into feeling safe, secure and unapologetically sxxy in the most taboo aspects of their feminine 🫦

And inside this 5-day retreat, I’m sharing the most potent rituals, embodiment practices and nervous-system rewiring tools I’ve learned from 8+ years of reclaiming my own sxxuality and sovereignty 🔥

March 26–30
Tenerife, Spain

💦 4 spots left
Apply to claim yours ⤵️
https://thewildfem.com/retreat

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