31/10/2025
“Being a HCA/CSW must be so easy…
all you do is wipe bums.”
No. Actually — we do so much more.
We start before sunrise,
putting on uniforms that have seen tears, sweat, and laughter.
We walk into wards/ homes that never sleep.
We see faces filled with fear, pain, and hope.
We wash faces, we hold hands,
we listen to stories from people who just need to be heard. We sit for hours with patients just so they don't feel alone.
We clean, yeah —
but we’re also giving dignity back
to someone who’s lost their strength,
their independence,
their control, through no fault of their own.
We feed, we lift, we laugh.
We make people smile on their hardest days.
And sometimes —
we cry in the laundry room, before pulling ourselves together and keep going.
We hold hands as people take their last breath.
We whisper “it’s okay”
even when our hearts are breaking. Whether you have known them for 5 minutes or 5 months it doesn't get easier.
We aren’t “just” anything.
We are the heartbeat of care.
The quiet strength behind every nurse, every doctor, every patient.
We work 12 hr shifts, back to back. We comfort patients and families and we give all we have, every single day. Even when our own worlds are falling apart, you would never know the things we are struggling with behind closed doors because THEY come first.
Someone said to me only last week...."your always happy and cheerful" And that's what I will continue to be as that's what the patient needs. It's not about me in those 12 hours. It's about them. And as hard as things may be for me at that time, they look to you for comfort, strength and positivity. And that's what matters.
So no —
we don’t just wipe bums.
We give comfort.
We bring dignity.
We make a difference —
every single day.
❤️
Here's me pictured below (owner of AP's Home Care) with the best apprentice companion who brings so much joy and happiness to those who not only live with dementia but sometimes enjoy the company and laughter it brings from an 8 year old ❤️
He's trained so well and is very much brought up on what "care" is all about ❤️