13/12/2025
I had 2 clients not turn up for their appointments this week… and honestly? I’m happy about it. Why?
Yep. Old me would have been irritated.
I’d have thought “How can you forget? This messes up my day.”
But December is chaos, isn’t it?
More to remember.
More plates spinning.
More expectations.
More pressure.
And if you’re peri-menopausal or menopausal, those extra demands can feel like the final straw — the thing that tips your nervous system, your digestion, your sleep… everything.
What I’ve learned (the hard way, and through coaching training) is this:
👉 It’s not always the event that impacts your health.
👉 It’s how your body and mind respond to it.
So when someone doesn’t show up now, I pause and reframe.
Instead of frustration, I ask myself:
“I’ve been given the gift of time… what do I want to do with it?”
Today, that gift meant finishing a one-page podcast pitch sheet I’ve been meaning to do for weeks — topics, questions, reflux conversations I know need to be heard.
Because of that unexpected space, it’s now done before I even planned to use it.
And honestly? That feels amazing!
So many of the women and men I work with are stuck in constant reaction mode — rushing, apologising, holding it all together — while their reflux, digestion, and hormones quietly scream for a nervous system that feels safer.
What’s one thing you’ll do differently this week if you start to feel yourself getting annoyed?
Pause. Breathe. Reframe. Walk away.
Whatever comes to mind — share it below