06/04/2026
“What is the most self-loving thing I can do today that will nourish me & bring me joy?”
Such a simple question… yet for many people living with persistent pain, it can feel quite unfamiliar.
When you’ve been in pain for a long time, your focus often becomes about fixing, pushing through, or trying to “get rid” of symptoms.
But healing rarely begins with force… It begins with gentleness.
Modern pain science shows that chronic pain is more about how the nervous system is responding, often staying in a state of protection, even after tissues have healed.
And this is where self-love becomes part of recovery.
Because asking yourself this question shifts you from:
-surviving → to supporting;
-fear → to safety;
-tension → to nourishment.
Sometimes, the most healing thing you can do isn’t yet another treatment…
it’s choosing something that makes your body feel safe, calm, and cared for.
✨ A mindful walk
✨ A deep breath
✨ Saying no to the unwanted
✨ Giving yourself permission to rest
Small moments like these help regulate the nervous system — and over time, with plenty of practise, this can gently change how pain is experienced.
If you’re ready to explore this approach more deeply, I’ve created something to guide you 🤍
👉 4 Steps to Alleviate Persisting Pain – Simple, actionable steps you can start today:
https://catherinepollitt.com/four-steps1