Unleash Your Fire

08/12/2025

04/12/2025

“ But don’t the hot coals hurt?” ….is the question I have been asked the most in the last couple of weeks since training as a firewalking instructor.

So …. here is the truth…
No. The coals aren’t the painful part.
The painful part is everything you’ve been carrying long before you even get near the fire.

The fear of getting it wrong.
The doubt that whispers, “Who do you think you are?”
The pressure to hold everything together.
The version of you that keeps shrinking so everyone else stays comfortable.

Those things hurt far far far more than walking across a few glowing embers.

Firewalking isn’t about pretending the fire isn’t real.
It’s very very real
It’s not a prank
It’s not a gimmick
It’s very real …. And yes, it’s hot.

But when you step up to those coals ….with focus, breath and presence….something shifts inside you.

You stop running from yourself and start meeting yourself.

And in that moment…
Fear softens.
Courage rises.
You hear your own voice again.

The fire doesn’t burn you.
It wakes you up.

And the surprising part?
It’s not the fire that hurts.
It’s staying still that hurts. The power is when you keep moving forward.

This isn’t about fire. It’s about you. Let’s walk.

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YES YES … they are my feet and legs 🔥

15/11/2025

Awesome day in August at the
Women In Business Big Show 2025.

My interview with Your Video Team is now live on YouTube:

Reignite Passion and Confidence: How Pleasure Fuels Success with Lorraine from Or****ic Life🔥 In this open and empowering chat from our Media Alley studio a...

03/11/2025

💫🌹 Feeling Proud, Grateful, and a Little Bit Emotional! 🌹💫

I’m so excited to share that I’ve been honoured with a Lifetime Achievement Award by Expert Profile Magazine! 🏆✨

Honestly, when I found out, I had to take a deep breath and let it sink in. It’s one of those wow moments that makes you stop and reflect on just how far life can take you when you choose to get out your own way and be authentic and true to yourself. 💖

There was a time when I could never have imagined something like this. For over twenty years, I lived what felt like two different lives. By day, I was a teacher and school leader, doing my best to guide and support others. By night, I was exploring the hidden worlds of s*xuality, swinging, and kink - while carrying deep feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. 💔

I spent years trying to keep it all together, smiling on the outside while quietly struggling on the inside. I knew there had to be more to life than hiding who I truly was.

Then, in 2016, everything changed. I finally found the courage to leave my teaching career and follow a new path... one of truth, healing, and self-discovery. 🌈✨

It wasn’t easy, but it was the most life-changing decision I’ve ever made. I trained in mindfulness, ta**ra, energy healing, and somatic bodywork, slowly reconnecting with myself and learning how to transform pain into power and fear into freedom. 🌸🔥

From that journey, Or****ic Life was born ... a space that celebrates authenticity, healing, and the beauty of being unapologetically you. It’s where I help others embrace their truth, release shame, and reconnect with their s*xual energy and joy. 🌺💃

And this year has been something truly special! At the start of the year, I published my book Unleashed and Liberated: My Life, Your Story, In the summer I got married and had the best wedding ever, and now to receive this Lifetime Achievement Award - WOW WOW WOW 💫📖💖

A huge thank you to Rany Athwall, Editor & Founder of Ranath Media, for his heartfelt words and for always leading with kindness and purpose:
“Each of you represents the very heart and soul of what Ranath Media stands for: authenticity, purpose, and a genuine desire to make a difference. Together, we’ve built more than a network of experts; we’ve created a family united by shared values and a deep sense of connection.” 🤝✨

And thank you to Expert Profile Magazine for this incredible recognition and for supporting me in sharing my mission to help others live with freedom, authenticity, and joy. 🌹

You can read the Souvenir Edition of the Lifetime Achievement Awards Celebration here:
👉 https://ranathmedia.aflip.in/3d3201056f.html

It’s been quite a journey - full of lessons, laughter, healing, and love. Here’s to what’s next and all the exciting new chapters to follow .... 🌟💃❤️‍🔥

Its been an amazing journey and there is soooo much more to come ......🙏

03/11/2025

A quick update for all those joining (or thinking about joining) my ✨ Introduction to Ta**ra Workshop for Couples ✨

🗓️ The date has now changed from Sunday 23rd November to Sunday 30th November.

I’m attending a course in Yorkshire the week before, and I want to make sure I have enough time to fully rest and recharge. I always want to show up for you present, energised, and at 100%! 🌹

Everything else remains the same:
🏡 Same venue
🕰️ Same time
💞 Same beautiful journey of connection, intimacy and discovery

Emails have been sent to those already booked. If the new date doesn’t work, I’ll happily arrange a full refund.

Thank you so much for your understanding, patience and love. I can’t wait to share this deeply nourishing experience with you on Saturday 30th November! 💫💞

Link to find out more about the workshop is in the comments

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31/10/2025

Ultimate Pleasure Challenge Day 20

Laugh, Play, Experiment 😆🎲

Want better s*x? Playfulness is a secret weapon.

Why it works:
Humour and play reduce stress, boost oxytocin, and make experimentation feel safe. Fun = increased arousal and connection. 🧠💥

Try this activity (singles & couples!):
Singles: Add playful challenges to solo play, silly props, or playful fantasies. 📝💫
Couples: Try dice games, “spin the fantasy,” or playful role-switching. Laugh together—don’t take it too seriously! 💞

Pro tip: Laughter heightens intimacy, lowers inhibition, and makes exploration easier. 🌟

💡 Why it matters: Playful s*x increases pleasure, creativity, and bonding. Fun + touch = unstoppable mojo! 💖

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30/10/2025

Ultimate Pleasure Challenge Day 19

Temperature Play ❄️🔥

Want to make touch feel electrically charged? Temperature play might be your next favorite trick!

Why it works: Warm and cool sensations activate nerve endings differently, heightening arousal and creating a novel sensory experience. 🧠💥

Try this activity (singles & couples!):

Singles: Experiment with ice cubes, warm oils, or hot/cold massage stones on safe body areas. Notice which temperatures trigger the most pleasure. 📝💫

Couples: Explore temperature on non-genital zones (neck, chest, inner thighs). Combine touch, pressure, and temperature for unique sensations. 💞

Pro tip: Start gently…temperature extremes can be intense. Always check in with your body or partner. 🌟

💡 Why it matters: Temperature play awakens new nerve responses, making touch more exciting and enhancing s*xual creativity. Science + sensation = peak pleasure! 💖

29/10/2025

Ultimate Pleasure Challenge Day 18

Kinks Are Normal 🌈🔥

Curious about trying something different in the bedroom? Kinks aren’t weird…they’re a natural way to explore pleasure and creativity.

Why it works:Kinks engage your brain’s reward system, releasing dopamine and increasing arousal. Experimenting safely can expand s*xual experiences and strengthen intimacy. 🧠💓

Try this activity (singles & couples!):

Singles: Make a list of fantasies or mild kinks you’re curious about. Reflect on which excite you most. 📝💫

Couples: Use a “Yes/No/Maybe” chart to explore interests together. Try small, safe experiments (light bo***ge, roleplay, sensation play) and discuss comfort levels. 💞

Pro tip: Communication is key—set boundaries before experimenting to ensure fun and safety. 🌟

💡 Why it matters: Exploring kinks safely can boost pleasure, intimacy, and trust. Curiosity + consent = unforgettable s*xual experiences! 💖

28/10/2025

Ultimate Pleasure Challenge Day 17

Erotic Literature & Audio 📚🎧

Turn your imagination into high-voltage arousal!

Why it works: Erotic stories stimulate your brain’s pleasure centers without physical touch. Reading or listening enhances fantasy, arousal, and s*xual creativity. 🧠💥

Try this activity (singles & couples!):
Singles: Read or listen to erotic content privately. Note what themes or scenarios trigger strong arousal. 📝💫

Couples: Share passages that excite you, or listen together. Discuss which fantasies feel realistic and which are purely imaginative. 💞

Pro tip: Choose content that excites you, not that stresses or overwhelms you. 🌟

💡 Why it matters: Erotic media is a safe, stimulating way to explore fantasies, communicate desires, and spark s*xual creativity. 💖

27/10/2025

Ultimate Pleasure Challenge Day 16

Try Sensory Deprivation 🕶️🎶

Want to make touch feel ten times more intense? Try sensory deprivation!
Why it works:Limiting one sense (like sight or hearing) heightens others. Touch becomes more vivid, teasing more nerves, and arousal increases. Your brain starts focusing purely on pleasure signals. 🧠💥

Try this activity (singles & couples!):

Singles: Use a blindfold and headphones while exploring self-touch or toys. Notice how sensations feel sharper or new areas respond.

Couples: One partner wears a blindfold; the other explores touch, temperature, and textures. Receiver communicates feedback only with moans or short words like “more/less.” 💞

Pro tip: Start with short sessions - your senses will adjust quickly for incredible intensity. 🌟

💡 Why it matters: Sensory deprivation increases awareness of your body and partner, unlocking deeper, more satisfying pleasure. Science + suspense = unforgettable intimacy! 💖