25/02/2026
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ค๐ฌ โฆ
There comes a point in your life where you genuinely justโฆ couldnโt give a f**k anymore ๐คฃ
Not in a bitter way. Not in a โburn it all downโ way. Just in a
โI am no longer abandoning myself to make everyone else happy firstโ kinda way.
I got so used to over-explaining, over-accommodating, overthinking, over-excusing and over-functioning.
Now I am learning, Iโve had a whole epiphany and the lightbulb has come onโฆ
If it feels off, I step back. If itโs inconsistent, I detach.
If I have to shrink to keep it, I donโt want it.
Itโs not coldness.
Itโs simply my nervous system exhaustion turning into standards. When you havenโt felt safe in many ways, time and time again, of course there will come a time when you say enough is enough. Why am I accepting crumbs? Why am I over-delivering? Why am I accepting s**tty behaviour?
I will not argue to be understood anymore.
I will not chase energy thatโs lukewarm.
And I definitely will not perform softness where it isnโt respected.
Motherhood changes you. Heartbreak changes you.
Healing changes you.
At some point you realise peace is sexier than chaos.
So if I seem quieter, less available, less reactiveโฆ
Itโs not that I donโt care.
Itโs just that I finally care about myself more.
And honestly?
That stage is undefeated. Underrated and been a long time coming. ๐๐๐ปโจ
Make of it what you will, but I know myself, I know my heart, I know I am the whole table and donโt need to sleep on myself, I donโt need to worry about narratives that simply arenโt true, and have only been curated to demonise me for someone elseโs lack. Ya gal, is good. I just forgot how good I was for a hot minute.
**kwithyou **ks selfworth