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๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค๐ฌ โ€ฆThere comes a point in your life where you genuinely justโ€ฆ couldnโ€™t give a f**k ...
25/02/2026

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค๐ฌ โ€ฆ

There comes a point in your life where you genuinely justโ€ฆ couldnโ€™t give a f**k anymore ๐Ÿคฃ

Not in a bitter way. Not in a โ€œburn it all downโ€ way. Just in a
โ€œI am no longer abandoning myself to make everyone else happy firstโ€ kinda way.

I got so used to over-explaining, over-accommodating, overthinking, over-excusing and over-functioning.

Now I am learning, Iโ€™ve had a whole epiphany and the lightbulb has come onโ€ฆ

If it feels off, I step back. If itโ€™s inconsistent, I detach.
If I have to shrink to keep it, I donโ€™t want it.

Itโ€™s not coldness.
Itโ€™s simply my nervous system exhaustion turning into standards. When you havenโ€™t felt safe in many ways, time and time again, of course there will come a time when you say enough is enough. Why am I accepting crumbs? Why am I over-delivering? Why am I accepting s**tty behaviour?

I will not argue to be understood anymore.
I will not chase energy thatโ€™s lukewarm.
And I definitely will not perform softness where it isnโ€™t respected.

Motherhood changes you. Heartbreak changes you.
Healing changes you.
At some point you realise peace is sexier than chaos.

So if I seem quieter, less available, less reactiveโ€ฆ
Itโ€™s not that I donโ€™t care.

Itโ€™s just that I finally care about myself more.

And honestly?
That stage is undefeated. Underrated and been a long time coming. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿปโœจ

Make of it what you will, but I know myself, I know my heart, I know I am the whole table and donโ€™t need to sleep on myself, I donโ€™t need to worry about narratives that simply arenโ€™t true, and have only been curated to demonise me for someone elseโ€™s lack. Ya gal, is good. I just forgot how good I was for a hot minute.

**kwithyou **ks selfworth

This journey didnโ€™t make me softer. It revealed the softness Iโ€™d been protecting.The nurturing. The instinct to hold, so...
15/02/2026

This journey didnโ€™t make me softer.
It revealed the softness Iโ€™d been protecting.

The nurturing.
The instinct to hold, soothe, and love without conditions.
The way my heart stretches instead of closes.

And somewhere in thatโ€ฆ I realised I deserved that kind of care too. Not just to give it.
To receive it too.

Being a lover girl isnโ€™t just about romance.
Itโ€™s how you show up for your children. Your people. Your healing. Probably most importantly โ€ฆyourself.

Softness is a strength Iโ€™m finally letting exist in every part of my life.
And in doing so thereโ€™s that irony again, to live in softness comes with firmer boundaries, cutting some losses and creating space in the comfort youโ€™re used to.

๐€๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐š ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฅ โ™ฅ๏ธโœจ๐Ÿ’–Not in the fantasy way. Not in the naive, lose-yourself way. But in the honest, self...
14/02/2026

๐€๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐š ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฅ โ™ฅ๏ธโœจ๐Ÿ’–
Not in the fantasy way. Not in the naive, lose-yourself way.
But in the honest, self-aware, healed-enough-to-admit-it kinda way.

I love deeply. I care loudly and probably even too much (for the wrong people),
I attach meaning, memory, and intention to people, moments, and connections.

And for a long timeโ€ฆ I played it down.

Because loving deeply after being hurt feels dangerous.
Because trauma teaches you that softness gets used against you. Because it felt safer to be guarded, detached, unbothered, โ€œhard to read.โ€

So I built barriers. Called it independence. Called it growth. Called it strength. And some of it was.

But some of it was also protection, self-preservation.
A quiet fear of being seen in my most open form again.

The truth is, being a lover girl isnโ€™t weakness. Itโ€™s emotional depth. Itโ€™s courage. Itโ€™s choosing connection even when you know what loss feels like.

I donโ€™t want to hide her anymore. ๐Ÿฅน

The part of me that loves hard, hopes big, and feels everything isnโ€™t the problem. I just need the safety too.
Discernment. Boundaries. Not disappearance.

So this is me accepting me. Not apologising for me.
Not shrinking me. Not armouring myself up to survive spaces I have outgrown.

Iโ€™m a lover girl.
Just one who finally knows how to protect her heart without abandoning it. Who knows where she is valued and where she isnโ€™t, the one who will go all in and all out but only for those who reciprocate and one who wonโ€™t tolerate less than healthy obsession and admiration. โœŒ๏ธ

โ€ฆ celebrating the lover girl within this Valentineโ€™s Day ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿ’‹

The final stretch of the Year of the Snake isnโ€™t about pushing harder.Itโ€™s about shedding whatโ€™s tight.Keeping whatโ€™s tr...
10/02/2026

The final stretch of the Year of the Snake isnโ€™t about pushing harder.

Itโ€™s about shedding whatโ€™s tight.
Keeping whatโ€™s true.
And finishing from a place of intention instead of well, settling for just anything and plodding along without care for yourself.

This year has asked for quiet growth, inner shifts, and honest reflection.

The last push is simply about honouring that โ€ฆ not abandoning it for noise, pressure, or performance.

Finish steady.
Finish aligned.
Finish in a way your future self will thank you for.

Did your sign feel like it spoke straight to you?

๐ˆโ€™๐ฏ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌโ€ฆSome people live in a โ€˜my way or no wayโ€™ tone, and may not even notice it.Every choice, ever...
04/02/2026

๐ˆโ€™๐ฏ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌโ€ฆ

Some people live in a โ€˜my way or no wayโ€™ tone, and may not even notice it.
Every choice, every opinion, every belief is measured against their certainty.

Often, itโ€™s not about the belief itself. Itโ€™s about control.
The need to feel safe, certain, and โ€œright.โ€ Fear disguised as conviction.

And what that does to youโ€ฆ It shrinks you. Makes you second-guess yourself. Pressures you to people-please just to keep the peace. When you are expected to be agreeable, you are being asked to minimise your character for their ease.

As adults, we can hold our beliefs and still let others hold theirs. We can live with curiosity, respect, and space for difference. Thatโ€™s where life feels rich. Thatโ€™s where connection stays alive. The irony for me, connection is what so many crave and itโ€™s being disgruntled because of ego.

Sometimes, rigidity makes people walk away from good things; practices, ideas, moments that once nourished them simply because it doesnโ€™t fit a narrow story. That feels unfortunate. But difference doesnโ€™t need to be a loss. Growth doesnโ€™t need to come at the expense of your human and compassion.
This has SO been lost in todayโ€™s world.

The line Iโ€™m learning to honour: I can respect someoneโ€™s faith โ€” truly respect it โ€” until it asks me to shrink, silence, or abandon my own integrity. Until it harms the freedom of others. Thatโ€™s not difference. Thatโ€™s misalignment.

Protect your freedom. Honour your space. Step back when you need to.
Choosing alignment over approval doesnโ€™t feel like rejection it feels like continuing to stay true to you.

Life is richer when you hold your ground gently, when you let others hold theirs, and when you remember that difference and all the colour, all the perspective, all the ways we see the world differently, is the depth and texture of everything that makes life worth living.

๐ˆโ€™๐ฏ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌโ€ฆSome people live in a โ€˜my way or no wayโ€™ tone, and may not even notice it.Every choice, ever...
04/02/2026

๐ˆโ€™๐ฏ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌโ€ฆ

Some people live in a โ€˜my way or no wayโ€™ tone, and may not even notice it.
Every choice, every opinion, every belief is measured against their certainty.

Often, itโ€™s not about the belief itself. Itโ€™s about control.
The need to feel safe, certain, and โ€œright.โ€ Fear disguised as conviction.

And what that does to youโ€ฆ It shrinks you. Makes you second-guess yourself. Pressures you to people-please just to keep the peace. When you are expected to be agreeable, you are being asked to minimise your character for their ease.

As adults, we can hold our beliefs and still let others hold theirs. We can live with curiosity, respect, and space for difference. Thatโ€™s where life feels rich. Thatโ€™s where connection stays alive. The irony for me, connection is what so many crave and itโ€™s being disgruntled because of ego.

Sometimes, rigidity makes people walk away from good things; practices, ideas, moments that once nourished them simply because it doesnโ€™t fit a narrow story. That feels unfortunate. But difference doesnโ€™t need to be a loss. Growth doesnโ€™t need to come at the expense of your human and compassion.
This has SO been lost in todayโ€™s world.

The line Iโ€™m learning to honour: I can respect someoneโ€™s faith โ€” truly respect it โ€” until it asks me to shrink, silence, or abandon my own integrity. Until it harms the freedom of others. Thatโ€™s not difference. Thatโ€™s misalignment.

Protect your freedom. Honour your space. Step back when you need to.
Choosing alignment over approval doesnโ€™t feel like rejection it feels like continuing to stay true to you.

Life is richer when you hold your ground gently, when you let others hold theirs, and when you remember that difference and all the colour, all the perspective, all the ways we see the world differently, is the depth and texture of everything that makes life worth living.

alignment

As we shed the last of the Snake year, lately, especially this last week,  Iโ€™ve been reflecting on how belief systems sp...
30/01/2026

As we shed the last of the Snake year, lately, especially this last week, Iโ€™ve been reflecting on how belief systems spiritual, or otherwise can quietly turn into identity and hierarchy.

Iโ€™ve never really fit inside a โ€œtribeโ€, and truthfully didnโ€™t want to as itโ€™s never made logical sense to me anyways, (once an outsider always an outsider ๐Ÿ˜‚) and Iโ€™m realising itโ€™s because my work has never been about belonging.

For me, and something Iโ€™ve always pledged during my sessions, โ€œhealingโ€ is yours, it doesnโ€™t have to look like anything youโ€™ve witnessed before.

For me, growth has meant unlearning people-pleasing, finding safety after cycles of abandonment, trusting my own perceptions, and understanding the depth of my emotions not bypassing them. Itโ€™s meant recognising what I need to feel safe and regulated, and choosing honesty even when it makes me inconvenient. And this is it, everyoneโ€™s story is different, lessons are different. Timing is different. We all need grace, not rules.

Iโ€™m often someone with a wide scope, people come to me for guidance, reflection, or perspective. But the moment my honesty doesnโ€™t align, I become โ€œthe problem.โ€
Iโ€™m realising that what never fit wasnโ€™t community โ€” it was conditional belonging.
Welcomed for my care, but only if I stay silent or play ball as the submissive/overlooked/said outsider.

This is my own journey. Totally unique, completely personalised. It canโ€™t be boxed into trends, stereotypes, or whatโ€™s โ€œinโ€ right now and the next trending belief. There is no shortcut, no formula, no external approval just the work of growing, feeling, and learning how to live in my body and my life with more peace, presence, and quiet, with full accountability of myself.

Iโ€™m stepping away from distraction, noise, and performative healing. I want depth. I want honesty. I want to show up fully for myself not for anyone else.

Iโ€™m not the latest trend. I am imperfect. Iโ€™m human. But Iโ€™m dedicated. Iโ€™m learning to let that dedication stand quietly, fully, and unapologetically for me.

Not all truth is meant to be comfortable. And thatโ€™s okay.
๐Ÿ–ค

๐’๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.๐๐จ๐ญ ๐›๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ข๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐›๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐š๐œ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐š...
29/01/2026

๐’๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.
๐๐จ๐ญ ๐›๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ข๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐›๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐š๐œ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐›๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ. โ˜ฏ๏ธ (PT.1)
โธป

Sometimes what looks like โ€œdelusionโ€ is really a dysregulated nervous system wrapped in a protective story. Not everything someone believes requires your participation and you donโ€™t need to fix it, argue with it, or carry it for them.

Iโ€™ve been learning this the hard way, unlearning people-pleasing, noticing how often I stepped into other peopleโ€™s narratives just to keep the peace, confusing empathy with self-abandonment. Letting dominant figures overbear and lead a one way connection.

My brother once said:
โ€œYou are the soft, sweet Pisces coat โ€” concealing the violently accurate Scorpio and the brutally honest Capricorn.โ€
๐—”๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—น๐˜†โ€ฆ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.

Softness doesnโ€™t cancel discernment.
Kindness doesnโ€™t mean blindness.
Empathy doesnโ€™t require self-betrayal.

I am the friend who is loyal to your greatest self.
The one who holds you accountable, gives honest feedback, calls you forward when you betray yourself, and meets you at your potential.
Not everyone is ready for that kind of love, some who may not be as emotionally deep, can confuse boundaries with betrayal, honesty with attack.

Staying grounded doesnโ€™t make you cold. It makes you regulated.
Boundaries arenโ€™t judgement.
Compassion doesnโ€™t mean participation.

I am learning that I donโ€™t need to argue with delusion.
I am learning to hydrate and disengage where necessary for me.
Protecting my nervous system is no longer optional, itโ€™s just self-respect.

๐’ซ๐“‡๐‘œ๐“‰๐‘’๐’ธ๐“‰ ๐“Ž๐‘œ๐“Š๐“‡ ๐“…๐‘’๐’ถ๐’ธ๐‘’ ๐“๐’พ๐“€๐‘’ ๐’พ๐“‰ ๐“…๐’ถ๐“Ž๐“ˆ ๐“Ž๐‘œ๐“Š๐“‡ ๐’ท๐’พ๐“๐“๐“ˆ. ๐Ÿค

Life has a way of nudging the same lessons in small ways.Not to punish you, not to confuse you,but to show where old hab...
27/01/2026

Life has a way of nudging the same lessons in small ways.
Not to punish you, not to confuse you,
but to show where old habits still live.

The good news? Awareness is growth.
Boundaries are self-respect.
And choosing space is always okay. ๐Ÿค

๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฆ๐š๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ญ. ๐ŸชฌAs we move through the final stretch of t...
17/01/2026

๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฆ๐š๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ญ. ๐Ÿชฌ

As we move through the final stretch of the Year of the Snake, many are experiencing last-minute shedding.
Old identities. Old coping mechanisms. Old attachments that once felt like safety.

The Snake doesnโ€™t rush. It releases its skin when it no longer fits, even if it feels raw for a moment.

This isnโ€™t a setback. Itโ€™s integration.

But this phase also asks something of us: ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†.

Not self-blame. Not punishment. But simple radical honesty. Speak until the throat chakra shakes vibe.

Accountability for all your s**t, your lows, your woes, your self abandoning, pattern repeating, distractions, choosing comfort and making mistakes. Itโ€™s through accountability that you choose presence and alignment.

Whatโ€™s surfacing now isnโ€™t here to punish you, itโ€™s here to be completed.

๐—ง๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ

To be felt without deflection.
To be released consciously with your best efforts.

If youโ€™re tired, emotional, reflective, or feeling โ€œin betweenโ€, thatโ€™s okay, so let that be okay.
Just donโ€™t bypass the lesson to rush the relief.

You are not behind.
You are closing a chapter with awareness.

This is the last push, not because you need to strive,
but because your soul is asking you to travel lighter, clearer, and more responsible into whatโ€™s next.

Rest where you can. Be honest where it matters. Take ownership without shame.

Youโ€™re not unraveling.
Youโ€™re shedding what is no longer needed and choosing yourself in the process ๐Ÿโœจ

#2026

๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐š๐ ๐จ. โฎ๏ธ2016.Just me & Theo taking on the world.A 23-year-old with a 2-year-old, figuring it out day by day. Hon...
14/01/2026

๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐š๐ ๐จ. โฎ๏ธ
2016.

Just me & Theo taking on the world.
A 23-year-old with a 2-year-old, figuring it out day by day. Honestlyโ€ฆ I could argue that part hasnโ€™t changed ๐Ÿ˜†, I could in one hand say, I am repeating just that, but I would be doing myself a disservice because, I have become ten times the woman. I feel this is my story with Roman, to do it kind of the same, but with the confidence I deserve this time around.

Back then, I was surviving but just pained. Trying to hold it all together while learning motherhood, identity, love, and loss all at once. I was pretty vacant. I was in a relationship that slowly chipped away at me โ€” but in hindsight, it became one of my greatest teachers.

It forced me to look inward. To question why I accepted less than I deserved. To rebuild my sense of self-worth from the inside out.
It was one of my greatest catalysts to learn that love, safety, validation, and belonging; all of these fundamentals could never be found outside of myself. It starts inward, always.

That season cracked me open. It was just before
I awakened and got to find my path. Mica here was clueless, often taking Theo with me to work, working in a pub 4/5 days a week and him with me atleast 2 of those shifts ๐Ÿ˜ณ.

I am who and what I am now thanks to all that was endured then. Iโ€™m more assured now.
More confident. More mindful. More aware.
More rooted in who I am and what I will no longer tolerate and accept for me and my family.

Still a mum figuring it out. Still learning. Still growing. But no longer lost. I have found peace in my heart recently, and itโ€™s thanks to the last decade that itโ€™s been found.

If youโ€™re in your โ€œbeforeโ€ era โ€” trust this:
Nothing is wasted. Not the heartbreak.
Not the confusion. Not the long nights wondering how youโ€™ll get through.

One day, youโ€™ll look back and realise it was all shaping you.

โœจ๐Ÿ–ค

PS - that last picture is the same playgroup Iโ€™m now taking Roman to ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ‘Œ itโ€™s such Deja vu with them ๐Ÿฉต

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