Richard Spedding - Humanist wedding, vow renewal & funeral celebrant

Richard Spedding - Humanist wedding, vow renewal & funeral celebrant Humanists UK accredited funeral and wedding celebrant covering the Lancashire, mainly Fylde, area and beyond.

14/11/2025

After a couple of busy Fridays - time to recharge.

Mary Higgins was a remarkable person whose passion for hospitality and community really shone through her work - especia...
10/11/2025

Mary Higgins was a remarkable person whose passion for hospitality and community really shone through her work - especially during the busy tourist industry in Blackpool in the 1970’s.

Running a guesthouse, The Aintree, and a café , Beth’s Pantry on Lytham Road in Blackpool, requires not just hard work but also a genuine love for connecting with people.

She had a lovely history in the industry, especially her early achievements, like becoming the youngest licensee for Bass Charrington, when she ran the Bridge Inn in Church near Burnley.

Her talent for music and her ability to create a welcoming atmosphere must have made her venues special places for guests - guests will never forget Mary sat tinkling the ivories blasting out the likes of ‘Knees up Mother Brown’!

It's clear she had a big impact on those around her, especially her family, who cherished her spirit and resilience.

Her adventures in Amsterdam reflect her zest for life, showing that she embraced every opportunity that came her way there, fully immersing herself in the culture.

What a legacy she has left behind!

09/11/2025

I just found this on TikTok and it speaks for itself!

I’ve always got on well with registrars but it’s important couples know the difference.

🌟 Remembering Rodger Connolley 🌟At 62, Rodger was not just a fantastic smile; he was a beacon of joy for everyone who kn...
09/11/2025

🌟 Remembering Rodger Connolley 🌟

At 62, Rodger was not just a fantastic smile; he was a beacon of joy for everyone who knew him.

The turnout at his funeral last Friday with NC Funeral Directors - Northern Cremations truly reflected how well-loved and respected he was.

In chatting with his brother Rob and sister-in-law Dawn, it was clear that Rodger's warmth and humour were legendary.

Growing up with his parents Fran and Steve, along with sister Helen and brother Rob, set the tone for a life filled with love and laughter.

Rodger shared a deep passion for golf and had a career in engineering, but what truly defined him was his family.

One of my favorite stories was of him dressing up as Santa and knocking on his niece and nephew's door on Christmas morning, claiming he had delivered the wrong presents and needed them back!

His friends, too, held a special place in his heart. His mate Stuart’s shared memories of their times together skiing and another Stuart sent me a tale of the time they ‘borrowed’ a boat from a showroom after a night out and then deposited it in someone’s garden!

Sister Helen and brother Rob read out a wonderful poem penned by family friend Simon which perfectly summed up the impact their brother had on their lives.

The world could definitely use more people like Rodger. He will be dearly missed but fondly remembered. ❤️

Yesterday, the outpouring of love at Lytham Crematorium for the funeral of 56 year old Giselle Monro was truly heartwarm...
08/11/2025

Yesterday, the outpouring of love at Lytham Crematorium for the funeral of 56 year old Giselle Monro was truly heartwarming at her funeral with Marsdens Funeral Home

Growing up in Warton with her parents Viv and Stan, and siblings Lance, Stanford, Donna, and Kelly, Giselle touched so many lives.

At just ‘sweet sixteen,’ she met her childhood sweetheart Allan, marrying him in 1992 and becoming a devoted mother to her ‘mummy's boy’ Aston, named after his dad’s football team.

Giselle’s passion for working in hospitality shone through her years at the Coach House in Lytham, where she earned the nickname ‘Chocolate Charlie’ for her love of chocolate.

Most notably, she brightened mornings at The Villa in Wrea Green with her famous breakfast shifts, serving up hearty fry-ups.

Her nieces Jess, Liv, and Jodie shared beautiful memories of their fun auntie, reminding us all of the joy she brought to those around her.

I concluded my tribute by sharing these wise words from her husband Allan:

“If someone close to you is struggling, please don’t ignore it. Be there, listen and love them through it. Your care can make a difference.”

Let’s all remember to spread that love and support those who are struggling with their mental health. 💖

There are many nationally recognised charities and organisations who are there to help. Samaritans, Mind, Andys Man Club, PAPYRUS Prevention of Young Su***de etc.

Locally, I cannot recommend the Blackpool Empowerment charity enough.

07/11/2025

Sometimes it can a challenge to get the balance right when speaking about someone’s life and personality.

Thankfully, I seem to have got it ‘just right’ for this funeral:

“I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the beautiful way you led Mum’s service today.

You managed to capture her story and spirit with such care and honesty — it was a true reflection of her life, without ever feeling heavy or uncomfortable.

Our relationship with Mum wasn’t always easy, and I was worried about how to express that in a way that still felt respectful.

You somehow found the perfect balance — acknowledging the truth while bringing compassion and dignity to every word. It felt genuine and healing, and I’m so grateful for that.

You’ve now been there for us through Mum’s service and both my uncles’ funerals, and each time you’ve brought such kindness, understanding, and humanity.

Thank you for helping us through such difficult moments with grace and empathy.”

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05/11/2025

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💔 Just look at Cheryl ‘Cheery’ Young’s infectious smile. It’s heartbreaking to remember that such a vibrant life was tra...
04/11/2025

💔 Just look at Cheryl ‘Cheery’ Young’s infectious smile.

It’s heartbreaking to remember that such a vibrant life was tragically cut short at just 54.

Originating from Penicuik, Cheryl was cherished by her parents, Jackie and Jim, and her siblings, June, Jim, and Tracy.

Together, they formed a talented Highland Dancing troupe, even opening for the legendary Runrig in Paris.

Cheryl later made her home in Blackpool and Fleetwood, where she was a remarkable mother to Cameron and Glen.

Yesterday, Glen spoke so passionately at her funeral, held at a packed Carleton Crematorium with J P Dell Funeral Directors

Her career at Skylarks Nursery Fleetwood showed just how well thought of she was by the children, their parents, and her colleagues, especially Laura, with whom she shared a friendly rivalry in their annual Easter Bonnet competition.

There will never be anyone quite like Cheery. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. 🌹✨

I’m sure you can tell that receiving positive reviews keeps me highly motivated to do the best I can for families and co...
04/11/2025

I’m sure you can tell that receiving positive reviews keeps me highly motivated to do the best I can for families and couples. Was lovely to receive this one today (which made my trip to Chesterfield most worthwhile):

"My wife and I have had the pleasure of working with Richard before, 20th anniversary vow renewal, and again for our 25th.

Richard met my mum at our 25th and they got along really well. It was an easy decision, and very fitting that Richard speak for our family at mum's funeral.

His meticulous approach to gathering the right content from us, continual comms to ensure we work together to check that everything is as we want it to be, alongside his genuinely warm and friendly nature gave us absolute confidence he was the only person we wanted to see us through our final goodbyes.

I can't recommend Richard enough, Two vow renewals and a funeral, all perfect - three for three, brilliant"

03/11/2025

Goodness me - what a nice guy!

Today, we, with Moons Funeral Service, gathered to celebrate the remarkable life of Yusef Mohamed, who packed so much in...
03/11/2025

Today, we, with Moons Funeral Service, gathered to celebrate the remarkable life of Yusef Mohamed, who packed so much into his 63 years.

From his challenging beginnings in Birmingham, Yusef transformed his life, becoming a key member of the Big Bang Talent team, managing the needs of countless celebrities alongside his close colleague, Steve.

Yusef was a devoted husband to Charlie, a loving brother to Tosh, and a proud father to Joe, Leona, Ella, and Jasmine, as well as a doting grandfather to six.

The crematorium was filled to the brim today, a testament to the love and respect he earned from family, friends, colleagues, and snooker pals from Cleveleys Working Mens Club.

Yusef’s journey is a powerful reminder that with determination, you can overcome challenges and achieve your dreams. He will be deeply missed but forever remembered. ❤️

I was asked this question when meeting a family the other day, and this was my answer.I'm more than happy to include poe...
02/11/2025

I was asked this question when meeting a family the other day, and this was my answer.

I'm more than happy to include poems during a funeral, but they aren’t a requirement.

I have a good selection of them on various topics, but I only share them if families express interest. Favourite song lyrics are also an option.

It’s all about what feels right for each unique ceremony with no ‘hard and fast’ rules.

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