09/12/2025
Today a young person who I've been treating for OCD and helping with managing their overwhelming emotions asked me for a pause in treatment.
They have been getting on really well, making clear improvements, navigating difficult situations, communicating their needs, dealing with their OCD bully.
However, there is a demand that this time of year brings. We all understand it, don't we? Whether we are a parent, child, young person or elder, we can relate to having a gazzilion things on our to do list and numerous social events. There are lots of expectations for this time of year. Some of them we want to meet, some of them we're not so bothered about.
The fact that this young person was able to communicate to me their needs, to say, "right now I need..." is such a big deal, a big step, progress! I simply have to celebrate this.
Anyone who has had treatment with me knows I am not a 'pushy' therapist. I will not take advantage of, or coerce anyone. I will not make you feel guilty for not attending an appointment, or try to lock you into a certain number of sessions. It's all on your terms.
I can inform you of what research shows is best for outcomes and NICE guidelines, but I know that you are more than a number in a random clinical control trial. You are a person and as my client, you have a choice, a voice, control, even if you are only 14 years old!
This is something I was unable to offer when I was working within adult IAPT/ talking therapies or CAMHS. In fact, having flexibility is one of the reasons I pride myself on and this is something I NEVER ever want to change.