01/04/2025
I AM NOT A 'HIPPIE DOULA'...
There’s a common stereotype of doulas as soft-spoken, flower-crowned, essential-oil-waving, hippie earth mothers. And while I respect those who embody that energy, that’s not me. As they say "there's a doula for everyone" & I wanted to share what kind of doula support I offer.
✨ Birth isn’t always magical. It can be beautiful, but also raw, intense, unpredictable, & deeply personal. I hold space for all of it - the joy, the struggle, the calm, & the chaos.
✨ I won’t just say “trust the process.” Your thoughts, concerns, & instincts matter. Birth isn’t about fitting into a mold - it’s about you feeling safe, supported, & empowered in your choices.
✨ I don’t push toxic positivity. Yes, mindset matters, but so do informed decisions & emotional support. It’s ok to say, 'This is hard. I’m scared. I need help'. I’ll be there, without judgement.
✨ My support is real. It’s not just affirmations & belly rubs (though I’ll gladly offer those too!). It’s deep emotional support, real advocacy, & evidence-based guidance - whether you’re navigating unknowns, making birth choices, birthing 'outside of guidelines', or just needing a safe space.
✨ I am here to support partners & your wider family as well. Birth is a team effort & we all need a cheerleader to keep us going when things get tough.
✨ I meet you where you are. Whether you're planning a home birth, labour ward, with an epidural, by cesarean, or anything in between - there’s no “right” way, only your way.
If you want a doula who truly sees you - without forcing rainbows & butterflies where they don’t belong - I’m here.
Is this the kind of doula you would like supporting you? Let me know in the comments...