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05/12/2025

Have your say on the government’s white paper on SEND

The Department for Education has released further dates in its series of ‘SEND engagement’ events - launching a new “SEND reform national conversation” just weeks before the White Paper on SEND reform is expected early next year.

Most of the in-person sessions are already fully booked, and the newly added online events each focus on one of the Government’s recently announced “five principles” for reform. An online form is also available for submitting views.

While it is important that the Government is open to hearing the views of parents and carers, with the White Paper now imminent it is difficult to see how engagement at this stage could meaningfully influence proposals that are likely already well developed.

In our recent letter to the Education Secretary, we also highlighted that while the Government’s “five principles” are important, they are already reflected in existing SEND law and statutory guidance. What is missing are the principles of legal entitlement and enforceable accountability, which are both essential to making the system work for children, young people and their families.

🔗Register for the engagement events, or submit your views online, via the links we've posted in the comments.

09/11/2025

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14/09/2025

A fantastic opportunity.

If you experience or disorder or any other , check out a new series of calming and mindful online drawing workshops I’m offering between now and December for BFRB UK & Ireland, designed to help you take important time for yourself to refocus, relax and recharge. I have lived experience of skin picking disorder and use drawing to refocus the condition. Each session is stand along including family friendly Saturday sessions for younger children. I will guide different approaches to drawing, taking inspiration from the work of different artists. These sessions are designed with BFRBs in mind, and will help reduce anxiety by channelling attention through simple yet captivating drawing activities. Bring simple art materials that can be adapted to whatever you have at home. There will be freedom to experiment with your own drawings and have fun. No previous drawing experience is necessary, and family members are very welcome to join

Book here

https://www.tickettailor.com/events/lizatkinartist/1845315

11/09/2025

A dedicated autism mental health service im Humber NHS Trust

We are proud to announce the launch of the Autism Mental Health Support Service (AMHSS) - a dedicated team working with autistic individuals to help improve mental health, reduce the need for hospital admissions and support timely, well-planned discharges.

The team includes occupational therapists, speech and language therapists, psychologists and nurses. All of which have received specialist training in autism.

The innovative approach of centring care around the individual and consistently meeting the needs of autistic service users ensures that every touch point of Trust mental health services will be autism-aware.

More: https://www.humber.nhs.uk/news/new-autism-mental-health-support-service-launched-in-hull-and-east-riding/

19/08/2025

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08/08/2025

Highly recommend using Christelke’s services if you should need - a passionate advocate and a SEND patent with so much experience and knowledge!

Don’t you just hate it when you buy something and then you have to fix it? I spent a good part of yesterday doing just that: fixing seams, reinforcing trouser elastic that’s already come loose, securing a band that flips over. It’s annoying and time consuming 😡 and necessary if I want to wear it and keep my butt covered!

It made me think about how often parents have to fix the work of others, particularly when it comes to EHCP’s. I don’t think I’ve ever seen an EHCP that didn’t need some corrections at least. And in many cases just had to be rewritten! I also don’t know any profession where routinely sending out such poor quality work is not a cause for dismissal. And yet, when it comes to children’s specialist support, this is the norm.

Things that annoy me:
- getting a child’s name wrong
- “mum says”. It is unprofessional and lazy. Use better words and people’s names for goodness sake!
- outdated information. Seeing stuff relating to a 5 year old in a 16 year old’s EHCP sends my blood pressure through the roof! Hello Annual Reviews!? 🙄

The worst part: parents often don’t have the skills or time to do this. Many find it confusing and overwhelming. Or worry about getting it wrong. Or simply don’t want to - which is perfectly reasonable as case officers are actually paid to get this right, not parents!

But we do it because if we don’t, it won’t get fixed. And like my trousers, it will cause drama when you least expect it and put you in a tricky position. So we just get on with it. We just pile on more responsibility on top of the million things we already do. Because our children matter.

What winds you up about EHCP’s? Or things that you need to fix to support your child because other people don’t?

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Hi! If you are new here: I’m Christelle and I help parents learn some skills to be formidable parent advocates for their child with additional needs. I also make useful stuff that will help you with the SENDmin (“SEND Admin” = SENDmin - yes I made that up but it works 😆)

06/08/2025

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A social group in East Kent for adults who are Autistic and/or have ADHD. Our aim is to provide an inclusive, welcoming space where we can be ourselves - and embrace our neurodiversity. Upon joining, you’ll be invited to our WhatsApp group. We accept self-diagnosed/awaiting formal diagnosis. Membe...

12/07/2025

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28/06/2025