Ruth Mcloughlin for Your Independent Ceremonies

Ruth Mcloughlin for Your Independent Ceremonies Providing a funeral service that truly celebrates the life of your loved one.

When we lose someone we love and begin the difficult task of planning a funeral service, we want that ceremony to be as special and unique as they were. We want to picture them through the words spoken, feel them through the music which has been chosen and to be able to take comfort as we move forward knowing that the funeral gave that person’s life meaning and worth. I understand that you only get one chance to say goodbye and that you want to make this occasion perfect. Planning a funeral service is a daunting task, especially as it is usually done in a relatively short period of time and whilst each person involved is dealing with their own grief, but generally there is one thing that family & friends have in common - they all want a personal, fitting and unique service for their loved one and my aim is to help create this for you. As a former nurse and teacher, I have over 20 years experience of working with families during sad and difficult times and understand that families and friends will want to give their loved one the very best send off but are planning for this at the very worst of times, when grief and tiredness can often get in the way. One of the beautiful and unique benefits about choosing a celebrant to lead a funeral service is that they will spent as much time as needed with you prior to the service, usually within the comfort of your own home, building a relationship with your family, listening to your wishes, hearing your stories, your memories and the significance of your grief, to gain a true sense of the person who has died. I will work alongside you and with great care compose a truly uplifting service which is totally unique to any other. This service will reflect the true character & nature of the person who has died, sensitively respecting and acknowledging any challenges they may have faced along life’s pathway, but most importantly celebrating the life which has been lived. I will compose a meaningful and personal tribute to be read at the funeral and will provide you with a copy of it.

21/12/2022

Christmas without your mother…

Means you are now she.
You are the one who creates ‘Christmas’.
You are the one who honours the traditions
ensures that the joy is passed down
as she would have liked.

But that is hard when you are hurting,
when you are just a little girl,
deep down,
who misses her mama.

So, be kind to that little girl
but go forth
and do what your mother taught you to do…
love.
Because one thing is for sure,
she taught you well.

Donna Ashworth

‘Loss’; https://amzn.eu/d/fwIp4VX

Art by Shawna Erback Shawna Erback

25/08/2016

Here's a poem chosen by the family for a funeral this afternoon.
A Silent Tear - Unknown
Just close your eyes and you will see
All the memories that you have of me
Just sit and relax and you will find
I'm really still there inside your mind
Don't cry for me now I'm gone
For I am in the land of song
There is no pain, there is no fear
So dry away that silent tear
Don't think of me in the dark and cold
For here I am, no longer old
I'm in that place that's filled with love
Known to you all, as "up above"

25/08/2016
04/12/2014

This year so far, I have been privileged to compose and deliver services for 50 families. The services are very personal and focus on the the life of the person and everyone comments on how beautiful they are. A most rewarding thing to do and lovely to be able to help people at the worst of times.

17/06/2013

Just received this lovely feedback :) :
Thanks for that Ruth, many of the people there told me both how impressed they were with the way you conducted the service and how accurate the picture you painted of my Ma.
Thanks again,
Lachlan.

06/06/2013

I am very proud to say that I was privileged to officiate at two funeral services this week at Wigan Crematorium. The staff there were marvellous and the families were pleased. Hopefully we did both ladies proud! great to be able ot do nice things for people at their worst times

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