Behind The Sm;le

Behind The Sm;le CIO CEO18156 Charity No;1184343 To others he was known for his big smile and caring nature. On Saturday the 25th August 2018 he ended his life.

A charity in memory of our son, to support those with mental ill - health, those bereaved by suicide and campaign for equal rights and better mental health care for all. Our son, William Zacharia Pritchard, known to everyone as Zac, struggled with his mental health for many years whilst trying to cope with the stresses of everyday life, he did not feel able to be open about it due to fear of stigma / exclusion, only those close to him knew what he was really going through. We looked for support for him in our area of Worcester and there wasn't any. We then found out there was no support in our area for those affected by suicide bereavement. When someone dies by suicide, those who are left behind are left with the shock and devastation of losing their loved one. Death by suicide can be different to that of a death where you have the chance to say goodbye, as you are not given that opportunity, you are also left with lots of unanswered questions. If the death is at home you will have the house sectioned off and not allowed to be there until the investigations are completed. There are police statements to be made, if other authorities are involved such as the mental health teams there is internal investigations to be heard. There is also the inquest to be heard, which maybe weeks, months after the death and can be another traumatic experience. Being through this unfortunate experience we want to support others and carry them through the awful shocking and traumatic journey, as there is very little support around. To create a meaningful legacy from Zac’s untimely passing we set up this charity to provide information and practical support for people with mental health issues, linking in with the LGBTQ+ community, where possible and for those affected by suicide. Zac felt strongly about diversity and equal rights for all, he identified as gay himself and in line with his values we will aim to support all who reach out to us, especially those with mental ill-health. Our starting point has been setting up peer support groups, for those with poor mental health. We also aim to campaign for better mental health services for all. About Zac;

Zac was 29-year-old, he graduated in 2017 from the university of Worcester where he was a student trustee and a student union diversity officer, among other things. He was passionate about politics and an active Labour supporter; he spoke at various conferences including a TUC conference on LGBTQ+ rights. Zac was not always comfortable with being gay but he embraced it and was part of the LGBTQ+ network, he attended many rallies including Pride and other union marches,
During his time at university he volunteered for various organisations including the homeless and spent most of the last few years working in the care sector in nursing / care homes.Zac always wanted to help others in work and in life, so helping others and helping to overcome the stigma associated with mental health issues and supporting those in a similar situation, will honour his memory. We found a lot of people, like Zac, hide behind the stigma of mental health and put on a smile to the outside world, whilst battling inside, so until you get to know the real person you don't always know whats going on Behind the Smile............ hence the charity name;

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Remembering those on Holocaust Remembrance day: light a candle in remembrance of those lost.
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Remembering those on Holocaust Remembrance day: light a candle in remembrance of those lost.

What a wonderful feeling.  We were so pleased when our regular Wednesday group came to our change of venue and everyone ...
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What a wonderful feeling. We were so pleased when our regular Wednesday group came to our change of venue and everyone loved the light large room, and comfortable setting, they commented how they were very pleased with the venue.

We have our ART group this week...... come along... all details in the poster
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We have our ART group this week...... come along... all details in the poster

He attempted to end his life, but later found positives in life, which got him to realise he didn't need to be in that h...
10/01/2026

He attempted to end his life, but later found positives in life, which got him to realise he didn't need to be in that headspace anymore. He went on to archive things he hadn't even dreamt of.

There is often something else to live for, more things you didn't know was possible when your in that dark place.

Try to think one day at a time, if that becomes too much try one hour or even one minute and gradually increase to 5 minutes and so on.

Sometimes it's too much to look too far into the future, even looking as far as tomorrow can be difficult if you are not in the headspace for it. Distracte yourself for a few minutes at a time, eg games on your phone, fiddle toys, etc.

Our thoughts are with the family of this young lad, I actually live nearby where he was found and remember the night ver...
08/01/2026

Our thoughts are with the family of this young lad, I actually live nearby where he was found and remember the night very well.

We don't know the circumstances but if you need support we are here.

He was found just days after Christmas đź’”

08/01/2026

If you made it to 2026, we're glad you’re here.
If you lost someone before they could, we're holding space for you.
You are not alone. Keep going—one breath, one moment, one step at a time; 🤍

08/01/2026

For those who are grieving this season… please know this gently and without condition:

You don’t have to choose just one feeling.
You’re allowed to smile at a memory that warms your heart,
and cry five minutes later when the quiet reminds you they’re not here.
You’re allowed to laugh at something small,
and still feel the ache settle back into your chest afterward.

Grief is not a straight line.
It is a mixture of love, loss, memory, and longing—
all living together in the same moment.
Some days you feel strong.
Some days you feel tired.
Some days you feel both at once.
None of that is wrong.

You can remember them with softness.
You can miss them with your whole heart.
You can hold joy and sadness in the same breath
without betraying your healing.
Missing them doesn’t mean you’re stuck.
It means you loved deeply.
And love never disappears—it simply changes form.

This season may feel quieter.
Holidays may feel different.
Certain places, songs, or moments may suddenly feel heavier than expected.
That doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It means your heart is still learning how to carry what mattered.

So be kind to yourself.
Sit with the feelings when they come.
Rest when the weight feels too much.
Let the tears fall if they need to.
Let the smile stay if it appears unexpectedly.

There is no deadline for grief.
No rulebook.
No correct order.

Just your heart, doing its best to remember, to love, and to keep going—
one gentle moment at a time. 🤍🌿🕊️

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