27/01/2022
Admin please approve, my head is full, and readers please don't judge me. So I've dated this guy for 7 years now and you have always had problem with fidelity... Along the line in about our 4th year into the relationship, I got pregnant and we decided to keep it to see how it goes cos I always miscarried and we sorted remedy. Along the pregnancy period my boyfriend lost his business due to government change which affected his finances hence things became quite difficult bit we managed to push through.
Now our daughter is 3 and we live together in my Father's house but the problem is this guy goes out and come back deep in the night or 10pm when he's home early, and he still talks to this lady he has dated for years so it's like a competition between us. The lady is outside the country and he keeps telling me his relationship with the lady is strategic due to our current financial condition.
I've tried talking to him but he won't change. So i also started talking to a couple of guys that I met on fb to see which I could date because I was tired with my fiance's constant behavior... He found out yesterday by going through my phone while I was asleep and even diverted my whatsapp to his phone, this guy rarely fend for us, school just resumed and fees, books, feeding are starting but he seems not bothered tho he's working with a private company and the salary is not encouraging but hardly gives me money for upkeep, and these guys I talk to are the ones helping me take care of this kid tho I've not met them in real life.
One even gave me a token to start up a business which I did but i ended up using most of it as hospital bills for my daughter. I woke up to see him with my phone in hand I didn't complain because I knew i was doing anything bad with any of the guys, I confronted him when I realized he tempered with my password before realizing my WhatsApp was transferred and all he said was he had nothing to say to me and when I pushed further, he threatened to beat me in my Father's house.
I love this guy so much that even if I try to forget about him it doesn't work and my family loves him too even if I say anything to my dad it'll be objected. I don't work and life is so hard for us, my mom is not supportive as in to look after my daughter so I can get a job unless I do a business on my own but I have no capital, reasons to why I started talking to other guys.
I want your fans to advice me I'm so confused, ever since the phone issue he's been cold and reserved and blames me for his misfortunes but the truth is I love him so much and my daughter is so attached to him, I don't know what to do please. Kindly notify me when you post.
NB: he was a sweet person before losing his business.