17/08/2020
Hi ladies..... Today's spotlight is on you, hurray!!!
is "how to notice a serious guy for a serious relationship"
One would ask does it really matter?...... Yes it does,
why?......truth is no one would like to be in a relationship with someone who is in for just mere pleasure and satisfaction and to play with their hearts and mind unless it's a mutual understanding game here, therefore I'd advise every lady out there whose ready for a serious relationship to be on a look out for the following before saying to a guy.
1. : Any guy who wants to be serious with you in a relationship would first start a relationship with you from friendship. In the period of friendship, that's where he observes and study's you to know your strength and weakness amongst others, he also try's to get acquainted and compatible with you to know if it's healthy enough to be with you, also he creates a good chemistry and trust between you two to believe and love what he's going for and finally to love you for who you are and the good he sees in you to make a final decision (ask for a date).
2. : Any guy who wants to be serious with you in a relationship would during friendship ask for a date before proposing to you. the essence of a date is to meet up with you from time to time in person for a period of time. it could be days, weeks, months or years depending on how soon he gets convinced about you the lady. In this period the guy needs to know more about you and be sure that you are his specs (intelligence, maturity, looks and confidence level), he engage's you more in personal conversations (emotional, sensitively important and key feeds). He also try's to win your heart during this period with his qualities and more but before you say Yes to him be sure and convinced properly that he is the idle man for you physically, mentally and spiritually also be sure you are ready for the task ahead bcos courtship is not a play ground things can't be taken for granted. After saying yes to him, he officially becomes your fiance then you must be serious with him (courtship).
Thank you!
