14/10/2025
DADDY LUMBER; THE MAN, HIS MUSIC, AND HIS MARRIAGE
Since the news of the death of Daddy Lumba greeted our ears there have been various disturbing developments. It appears each sunrise deepens the brouhaha. Reading from the topic you could tell l imagined an exhaustive write up, but I'm not going to do that out of sensitivity towards his family, friends, and fans.
I remember the emotionally disturbing moments my mother had to go through while mourning her husband (my father). No wife, no close relation should go through such pain while mourning the dead. Consequently, I wish this issue ends soon and the process thereafter becomes smooth.
However, I'm glad this issue has gone to court and has gained such popularity. I hope the outcome serves the right precedent, defends the sanctity of marriage as an institution, and safeguard society.
For the sake of my followers who want to hear my take I'd say a mouthful.
1. On the issue of legality of wife status and consequently widowhood, a lot of wholesome education has been given already. Per the provision of the Law, Auntie Akosua Serwaa has a case. I won't say more than that because the case is in court.
2. On the side of the public, those who sincerely seek sound judgement ought to separate The MAN from his MUSIC, and MARRIAGE. Any perspective either than this will lead to extreme conclusion of or him. The rewarding perspective is to him. That way we can celebrate him and yet make room to see his flaws.
3. Jotter (take lessons) don't judge.
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