Compound of joy by Ronald

18/02/2026

15 REASONS WHY A WOMAN WITH A HIGH BODY COUNT IS A DANGEROUS CHOICE FOR MARRIAGE

BRUTAL INTRO

Listen up, son.

This isn’t about political correctness.
It’s about reality.

A woman’s past matters.
You’re not here to marry headaches, emotional baggage, and future liabilities.
You’re building a legacy — and you need to be ruthless about who qualifies to stand beside you.

Read carefully.

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1️⃣ SHE WILL ALWAYS COMPARE YOU TO OTHER MEN 👥
No matter how good you are, she’ll stack you up against ghosts from her past.
The more men she’s been with, the worse the comparisons become.

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2️⃣ SHE’S CONFUSED AND DOESN’T KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS 🧠
Every partner leaves a mark.
Too many marks?
She becomes emotionally scattered, directionless, and unstable for long-term commitment.

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3️⃣ SHE CAN’T BE S*XUALLY SATISFIED 🔥
Variety breeds appetite.
Appetite breeds dissatisfaction.
You’ll never be enough — and frustration opens the door to infidelity.

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4️⃣ LIKELY TO HAVE HAD MULTIPLE ABORTIONS ⚠️
Emotional baggage isn’t just stories — it’s trauma.
Silent guilt or emotional numbness becomes a landmine in marriage.

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5️⃣ SHE’S PROBABLY STILL IN TOUCH WITH HER EXES 📱
For “closure.”
For validation.
For options.

Invisible competitors keep your relationship in a permanent warzone.

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6️⃣ SHE CAN’T PAIR BOND PROPERLY 🧩
The ability to deeply attach wears down with each partner.
By the time she gets to you, that bond is often gone.

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7️⃣ SHE CARRIES BROKENNESS AND BAGGAGE 🧳
Multiple failed relationships stack emotional debris.
And guess who’s expected to clean it up?
You.

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8️⃣ SHE’S CONDITIONED TO BOUNCE 🏃‍♀️
When things get hard, she runs.
Stability feels foreign.
Chaos feels normal.

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9️⃣ SHE THINKS YOU’RE REPLACEABLE 🔄
A woman spoiled by options doesn’t value loyalty.
She believes there’s always someone “better” around the corner.

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🔟 SHE’S ENTITLED AND UNGRATEFUL 😤
Too much validation from random men creates entitlement.
Your genuine effort won’t impress her — she’s seen too much.

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1️⃣1️⃣ SHE HAS NO SHAME IN STARTING OVER 🧨
Leaving a good man to chase fleeting thrills is second nature.
Reset buttons mean nothing to her.

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1️⃣2️⃣ SHE CAN’T SUBMIT TO ORDER OR STRUCTURE 🧱
Too many past partners create rebellious habits.
Order feels restrictive.
Discipline feels offensive.

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1️⃣3️⃣ SHE SEES MARRIAGE AS A PRIZE, NOT A RESPONSIBILITY 🎭
She wants the wedding, the photos, the title —
not the daily work.

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1️⃣4️⃣ HIGH RISK OF S*XUAL DEVIANCY OR ADDICTION 🚨
Excessive experiences warp desire.
She’ll either crave what you can’t give
or get bored far too fast.

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1️⃣5️⃣ SHE’S LIKELY TO DIVORCE YOU ⚖️
Facts don’t lie.
Higher body count strongly correlates with higher divorce risk.

This isn’t shaming.
It’s survival intelligence.

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FINAL WARNING

Marriage isn’t charity work.
It’s a legacy move.

You’re not here to rescue someone from their past.
You’re here to build a dynasty.

Vet ruthlessly.
Ignore society’s lies.

A woman’s past is a blueprint for your future with her.
Read it carefully — or pay for it later.

Yes, the same applies to men.
Character counts on both sides.

But as a man, you carry leadership, provision, and legacy.
Choose who qualifies wisely.
Comedian Counselor Roo

17/02/2026

Signs she’s wife material.

The signs aren’t found in how the way she loves you when everything is going right. They’re real signs are found in how she stands by your side when life gets hard.

She doesn’t push you to waste money trying to impress her. In fact, she’ll tell you to invest it .... in your future, in your goals, in something that builds security for both of you. She’s not focused on what you can buy her today. She’s thinking about what you two can build tomorrow.

She stays with you. And im not talking about when the lights are bright and the bank account is full, but when things feel unsure. Any woman can celebrate you when you’re winning. Any woman can enjoy the benefits when you have it all together. But the woman who stands beside you when you’re doubting yourself, when the money is almost nonexistent, when plans fall through ... that woman is extremely rare in this generation.

She longs peace. Not games or mind tricks or daily arguments. She doesn’t nag you, and she doesn’t tolerate being played with either. She values calm conversations, mutual respect, and a relationship that feels safe.

She takes your losses personally. Your setbacks hurt her because your dreams matter to her. When you fall short of your goals, she feels it with you ... not to shame you, but to support you.

And maybe most importantly, you can be vulnerable in front of her. You can cry. You can admit what you're scared of. And she will never look at you as less of a man.

That’s not just a girlfriend.

That’s wife material.

17/02/2026

This man followed his wife to the labour room.

Strong man. Big man. Alpha male.

As labour started, the male gynecologist said:

“Madam, we need to check how many CM.”

Next thing?

The man started crying like someone that lost phone with data inside.

And said Doctor please,

Why is it your finger? Is there no machine?
Is it by force to count CM with hand?

Oga, calm down.

That same hand is not enjoying anything.

It is medical work, not rømance.

Childbirth is not jealousy competition.

When you married her, you married hospital procedures too.

If you can’t handle doctors doing their job,
stay outside and be praying.

Congratulations to all men that survived labour room drama.

You people deserve award.
Comedian Counselor Roo

17/02/2026

DEBUNKING MYTHS ABOUT SÉX...✍🏾

1. WHEN THE MAN STRUGGLES TO ERECT, HE IS CHEATING
Sometimes a man will struggle to erect or sustain an er****on because he is stressed, tired, overthinking or he feels you disrespect him as his wife. Don't be so quick to accuse him of cheating

2. ONCE A CHEAT, ALWAYS A CHEAT
Yes, infidelity hurts; some continue with the lifestyle but others transform to stop and be a better spouse. People can change. Marriages can thrive after infidelity if the two choose to fight for it and heal it

3. IF A WOMAN DOESN'T SQ**RT, SHE IS NOT S*XUALLY SATISFIED
Not every woman will sq**rt in their lifetime; some even don't long to sq**rt because they find it messy. Don't feel under pressure, intimacy is much deeper, not a chase after sq**rts

4. A WOMAN WHO HAS GIVEN BIRTH IS TOO WIDE DOWN THERE
The va**na is very elastic, it can expand and contract. A woman can go back to tightness after giving birth, let us not make motherhood seem like a pleasure killer

5. YOUR HUSBAND HATES YOUR STRETCHMARKS
Many women feel insecure about their stretchmarks because of their own insecurities or the judgement from other women. Most men don't even complain about stretchmarks, all they want is some good loving inside the wife. Lady, you are beautiful as you are. Relax

6. SIZE IS EVERYTHING
The size of the p***s is not everything, skill is. Regardless of the God-given size or shape of your p***s; what your wife wants is that you be creative and skillfull with it as you confidently give her that good feeling

7. EVERY S*XUAL EPISODE A COUPLE HAS MUST BE THE SAME
Last night's love making might have been so intense, today it might be calm and flat. Not every time it will be similar. Stop trying to recreate a memory, enjoy each episode and make it unique. Don't panic or think your marriage is under threat when the s*x this week doesn't match last week's fireworks

8. EVERY PERSON HAS THE SAME S*XUAL SPOTS
Don't copy paste what you hear about others. Not every woman has sensitive ni***es, not every man loves their balls played with. Some ladies find their inner thighs ticklish, some men love their ni***es pinched. Find out how your spouse wants it. Discover

9. EVERY WOMAN CLIMAXES JUST ONCE
Some women can only climax once and some can climax over and over. Find out what kind of a woman she is

10. THOSE WHO MARRIED AS VIRGINS OR WITH LITTLE S*XUAL EXPERIENCE ARE BORING IN BED
You don't need training with many people to be great in bed; all you need is to emotionally connect and be willing to learn your spouse and to enjoy and give pleasure and your s*x life will be amazing

11. S*X IN AFFAIRS IS SWEETER THAN S*X IN MARRIAGE
Affairs are fun because they are new, passionate, they have a lot of investment in flirting and emotional bonding, and there is a build up of excitement. All those things you can bring into your marriage. You can have a steamy affair with your spouse

12. A COUPLE THAT HAS HAD AN AVERAGE S*X LIFE CAN NEVER IMPROVE
Any couple that feels their s*x life sucks can shake things up and bring fire into their love life. Are you willing to go on an adventure on each other's body?

13. EVERY MAN WAKES UP WITH A HARD ON
Not every man will wake up h***y, so don't think he is not attracted to you just because he doesn't want some each morning. You can start him up though

14. SPIRITUAL PEOPLE ARE PATHETIC IN BED
You can be spiritual and still be highly s*xual. S*x was created by God. God is a romantic God. In fact, the more you grow as a believer, the more romantic and expressive you should become, understanding the beauty and power of s*xual intimacy done as unto the Lord

15. IF YOU LIKE MAKING LOVE AT NIGHT, YOUR SPOUSE WILL AUTOMATICALLY WANT THE SAME
Your spouse might enjoy making love a different time than you. Some people are night people, others are morning ones; the goal is to compromise and accommodate each other's preferences in the marriage to tend to each other's needs

16. EVERY INFECTION IS BECAUSE OF INFIDELITY
Sometimes your infection as a woman is not brought about by your man giving you an STI, you could be having a UTI, or an infection brought about by your hygiene, toilet use, underwear not properly dried before wearing or internal body fluids. Don't be so quick to jump into conclusions

Are we together?
Comedian Counselor Roo

17/02/2026

Listen up, men.

A woman goes to her bachelorette party. She drinks. She crosses a line. She sleeps with another man. Then she walks down the aisle like nothing happened. Smiles. Says her vows. Promises loyalty.

Nine months later, a child is born that clearly isn’t her husband’s.

And the internet calls it a “beautiful story of unconditional love.”

No.

It is a story of consequences.

They will wrap it in soft words.
They will decorate it with emotions.
They will turn humiliation into heroism.

“Love conquers all.”
“Real men step up.”
“True commitment stands through anything.”

But let’s remove the sugar and look at the reality.

She cheated before the marriage even began.

Not after years of neglect.
Not during a difficult season.
Not after resentment built up.

Before the foundation was even laid.

That is not a slip.
That is not confusion.
That is not weakness.

That is a preview.

Because people don’t become someone new after marriage. They become more of who they already are.

Now imagine being that man.

Standing in that hospital room. Holding a child that carries physical proof of betrayal. Watching family celebrate. Hearing whispers. Seeing sympathy disguised as praise.

And the world claps for you because you “stayed.”

They call it maturity.
They call it strength.
They call it unconditional love.

But let’s be brutally honest.

Commitment does not mean tolerating disrespect.
Forgiveness does not mean erasing consequences.
Trust does not mean pretending biology doesn’t exist.

Staying is a choice. But don’t confuse a choice with a virtue.

Because many times, it isn’t strength.

It is fear.

Fear of starting over.
Fear of being alone.
Fear of public embarrassment.
Fear of admitting you chose the wrong person.

It is emotional dependency wearing a mask of nobility.

And the dangerous part is how society pushes this narrative.

They will shame men who walk away.
They will guilt men into accepting standards they would never expect from women.
They will redefine self-respect as insecurity.

But here is the truth no one wants to say.

A man is not obligated to sacrifice his dignity to prove his love.

Love without respect is not love.
Forgiveness without boundaries is self-destruction.
Commitment without trust is a prison.

Alcohol did not create the betrayal. It revealed the character.

A bachelorette party is not a trap.
Temptation is not an accident.
It is a test.

And character is proven when no one is watching.

The real lesson is not about staying or leaving.

The real lesson is about selection.

Choose wisely before you commit.

Because once vows are spoken, the consequences expand. Emotional. Financial. Psychological. Legal.

One poor decision in choosing a partner can shape decades of your life.

Do not let the internet manipulate your standards.

Do not let emotional propaganda replace logic.

Do not let fear convince you that self-respect is cruelty.

Love is powerful.

But self-respect is the foundation that makes love possible.

And if you ever have to choose between the two, remember this:

A person who truly loves you will never force you to abandon your dignity to prove it.

Rules are Rules
Comedian Counselor Roo

17/02/2026

RED FLAGS MEN MUST NEVER IGNORE OR THEY WILL PERISH IN THE NAME OF LOVE

Most men don’t lose in life because of enemies.
They lose because of the woman they refused to see clearly.

Love has buried more men than war.

Here are the warning signs you ignore at your own risk:

1. SHE ALWAYS PLAYS THE VICTIM
Nothing is ever her fault.
Her ex was toxic.
Her friends betrayed her.
Soon, you will also become the villain in her story.

2. SHE LACKS RESPECT FOR YOU
She mocks you in public.
She tests your boundaries.
She compares you to other men.
A woman who does not respect you today will humiliate you tomorrow.

3. SHE IS ADDICTED TO ATTENTION
Too many male “friends.”
Too much validation from strangers.
Too much need to be seen and desired.
A woman who feeds on attention will never be loyal to one source.

4. SHE ONLY APPEARS WHEN SHE NEEDS SOMETHING
Money.
Favors.
Connections.
But disappears when you need peace or support.
This is not love. This is exploitation.

5. SHE MANIPULATES WITH EMOTIONS
Crying when caught.
Guilt when confronted.
Threats when you set boundaries.
A man who falls for emotional blackmail becomes a slave in his own life.

6. SHE RUSHES COMMITMENT
Fast love.
Fast promises.
Fast future talk.
Slow destruction.
The faster the bond, the deeper the trap.

7. SHE CANNOT BE ALONE
If she jumps from man to man, you are not special.
You are simply next.

8. SHE DISRESPECTS YOUR PURPOSE
She distracts you from your goals.
Mocks your vision.
Competes with your ambition.
A woman who fears your growth will sabotage your future.

9. SHE TESTS YOUR MASCULINITY CONSTANTLY
Unnecessary drama.
Silent treatments.
Power struggles.
Peace is impossible with someone who always wants control.

10. SHE HAS NO ACCOUNTABILITY
No apologies.
No growth.
No reflection.
Without accountability, there is no future.

11. SHE LIES ABOUT SMALL THINGS
If she lies about little things, she will lie about big things.
Trust is built in details, not promises.

12. YOU FEEL CONSTANTLY DRAINED
Confusion.
Anxiety.
Emotional exhaustion.
Your body knows before your mind does.
Peace should not feel like a battle.

A wise man does not only look for love.
He looks for peace.
Because without peace, love becomes a weapon.
Comedian Counselor Roo

15/02/2026

WHEN A WOMAN HATES YOU ENOUGH... SHE'LL FANTASIZE ABOUT YOU F*CKING HER. YEAH.
READ THAT AGAIN.

It makes zero logical sense to you.
Because you're a man.
Men hate with distance.
Women hate with obsession.

A woman's hatred is never clean.
Never pure.
Never rational.
There's always a s3xual undertone lurking under the rage.

The guy she truly hates?
She dreams about him pinning her down.
Not the "good guy."
Not the simp.
The man she can't control.

Women don't fantasize about "nice."
They fantasize about the man who made their ego bleed.

That's why you never argue with an angry woman.
She's not fighting you.
She's fighting the fact she'd still let you hit.

That's why you never argue with an angry woman.
She's not fighting you.
She's fighting the fact she'd still let you hit.

Female hate is twisted.
It's emotional.
It's erotic.
It's dangerous.
And it's real.

No, you shouldn't try to "make sense of it."
You won't.
Female desire isn't logical, it's chemical warfare with lipstick.

If she hates you with passion, she's already imagined you in her bed.
That's the ugly truth they'll deny till their last breath.

Women will destroy you if you don't understand them. If you can't read them, you can't lead them, and if you can't lead them, you're at the mercy of their chaos.

Ignorance about female nature is a death sentence for men.

Learn female nature, or be used, discarded, and forgotten.
Comedian Counselor Roo

15/02/2026

THESE ARE FIVE INVESTMENTS THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER

Read this slowly.
This is not motivation.
This is mental positioning.

What you invest in daily
is what you become permanently.

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1. INVEST IN YOUR CIRCLE 👥

The people you hang around shape your mindset.

Hang around builders.
Thinkers.
Men who talk about progress, not people.

Avoid gossipers.
Complainers.
Men who blame the government, women, friends, or luck.

If your circle is weak,
your future will be weaker.

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2. INVEST IN YOUR MIND 🧠

Your income will never outgrow your thinking.

Read.
Study.
Learn skills.

A trained mind creates options.
An empty mind creates excuses.

The mind you ignore today
becomes the prison you live in tomorrow.

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3. INVEST IN YOUR BODY 🏋🏾‍♂️

Your body is your first business.

Energy is currency.
Discipline is power.
Strength is confidence.

A weak body makes a man emotional.
A strong body makes a man dangerous.

Protect your sleep.
Your food.
Your movement.

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4. INVEST IN YOUR SKILLS 💼

Hard work is useless without leverage.

Skills create leverage.
Skills create freedom.
Skills create bargaining power.

The man with rare skills
is never broke for long.

Your job pays bills.
Your skills build escape.

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5. INVEST IN YOUR CHARACTER 🗿

Money without character creates chaos.

Discipline.
Self-control.
Integrity.
Emotional mastery.

This is what keeps money.
This is what keeps women.
This is what keeps respect.

Character is what speaks
when you are silent.

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Everything else is secondary.

Circle.
Mind.
Body.
Skills.
Character.

Build these…
and your life has no option but to change.

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Comedian Counselor Roo

14/02/2026

14/02/2026

Being alone on Valentine’s Day.

Some days you’re completely fine with it. Other days, it’s harder than you expected.

It’s not that you’re desperate or unhappy with your life, it’s just that sometimes you pause and realize you still don’t have someone special to share it with right now.

You think back to the people who once seemed like they had real potential. The ones you prayed about. The ones you pictured a future with. And somehow, they turned out to be life lessons instead of your forever.

Then there are mornings when you wake up, grab your phone, and start to scroll. You come across engagement photos, pregnancy announcements, and people buying their dream homes.

People you grew up with stepping into milestones you once imagined for yourself.
Yet you genuinely celebrate with them and are very happy for each and every one of them.

But quietly, somewhere in your heart, you still wonder… when will it be my turn?

What most people don’t see is that timing matters. Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it won’t. It may simply not be your season to love someone right now.

Maybe this is your season to build or to even heal or maybe ... it's to become the kind of person who can sustain the very thing you’ve been praying for.

So do me a favor and keep growing and developing as a person, because you never know how close you are to your next chapter in this life and your season ..... might be closer than you think.
Comedian Counselor Roo

13/02/2026

THE SPIRITUAL COST OF YOUNG MEN SLEEPING WITH OLD WOMEN

Men, listen carefully.
A lot of young guys out here are trading their future for quick comfort with women old enough to be their mothers — even their grandmothers.
What looks like “opportunity” is actually spiritual debt.
And the price is your masculinity, your mind, and your destiny.

1. SHE’S NOT A BLESSING — SHE’S A SHORTCUT WITH A BILL
Older women know exactly what they’re doing.
They offer comfort, money, and attention — and in return, they take your strength, your discipline, and your drive.
Nothing is free. Ever.

2. HER ENERGY IS TOO HEAVY FOR YOU TO CARRY
She has lived decades longer than you.
Pain, heartbreak, trauma, insecurities, curses, spiritual baggage — all packed inside her.
Every time you sleep with her, you inherit weight your young spirit was never built to handle.

3. YOU ABSORB YEARS OF HER CHAOS
You think you’re just having s*x…
But you’re absorbing her regrets, her anger, her bitterness, her loneliness.
That’s why young men who go down this path start acting weird, lost, and confused.
It’s not you — it’s the spiritual residue she dumped on you.

4. YOU AGE SPIRITUALLY WHILE SHE FEELS YOUNGER
She becomes energized.
You become drained.
She gets her youth extended… and you lose yours.
That’s the exchange.

5. YOUR DRIVE AND PURPOSE BEGIN TO DIE
Your goals stop mattering.
Your hunger disappears.
You start settling.
Because she has numbed your ambition with comfort you didn’t earn and attention you didn’t deserve.

6. YOU BECOME HER EMOTIONAL DUMPING GROUND
She confesses old wounds.
Old heartbreaks.
Old resentments.
And you — a young man — carry emotions from a past that isn’t even yours.

7. YOU START LOOKING LOST AND FOOLISH
People can see it.
Your eyes get dull.
Your confidence drops.
Your aura weakens.
You look like a boy tied to a life that doesn’t belong to you.

8. SHE GAINS CONTROL — YOU LOSE YOUR IDENTITY
Once she gets your mind, your spirit, and your ambition wrapped around her comfort,
you stop leading… and start being led.
You think you’re winning — but you’re actually being domesticated.

9. YOU BECOME DEPENDENT ON HER VALIDATION
You stop choosing women your age.
You stop choosing growth.
You stop choosing challenge.
Because she made you addicted to the easy life.

10. YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS SUFFER
You carry her chaos into your next chapter.
You become confused, insecure, ungrounded — because you gave your youth to a woman who had already lived hers.

11. YOU BREAK YOUR OWN DESTINY FOR TEMPORARY COMFORT
Your twenties are supposed to build your empire.
Sleeping with older women destroys that focus.
You’re exchanging your future for a moment of escape.

12. THE SPIRITUAL DEBT LASTS LONGER THAN THE AFFAIR
Her touch fades.
Her money finishes.
Her attention moves on.
But the damage stays.
Your spirit will need years to cleanse what she left behind.

FINAL WARNING
Men, never trade your destiny for comfort.
Never exchange your youth for validation.
Never let loneliness push you into the arms of a woman carrying decades of emotional storms.
Older women are not a shortcut — they are a spiritual trap.
Protect your energy, or you’ll wake up one day drained, directionless, and wondering where your fire went.
Choose growth over comfort.
Choose your future over her loneliness.
Choose discipline over destruction.
Comedian Counselor Roo

13/02/2026

WHICH ONE ARE YOU REALLY PICKING? 🤔

Be honest.

Most people will scream “free groceries” because survival matters.
Some will pick “free gas” because bills are choking them.
A few will pick the woman… because desire is loud.

But the real ones?
They’ll pick the dog.

Why?

Because money comes and goes.
Fuel prices change.
Groceries inflate.
Attraction fades.

But loyalty?
That’s rare.

A dog that lives as long as you means unconditional love, every single day, no switching up, no betrayal, no mood swings. Just presence.

This post isn’t about options.
It’s about what you value most right now in your life.

Security?
Desire?
Provision?
Loyalty?

Your answer exposes your priorities.

Choose wisely.