02/11/2025
I don't know where you live, but I am lucky to be in Asia, and thanks to traditional values, still many men understand their duty and educate the younger generation.
I quote from a Korean man's speech:
"I often get young men approach me and ask:
'Why do only men serve in the military? Why do only men do dangerous jobs? Why are men expected to pay for dates or support the family?'
The answer is very simple: because it was MEN who made those rules, not women.
For generations, men believed women weren't capable of serving in the military, that only men could handle dangerous work.
It's men who defend women as fragile and weak, and that belief became a self-fulfilling limitation.
Men paying for dates, men supporting families. These customs exist because men systematically placed women in a weaker economic position for centuries.
In other words, it was male-created sexism that led to the so-called reversed sexism men complain about today.
Women have always had the ability, but that ability was restricted and discriminated against.
For a long time, women were denied equal access to education and work, so naturally, their social contributions and social benefits were limited.
How did society try to fix that imbalance?
By requiring men to take on more work and more obligations. That's what we call the "cost of discrimination"
The price men pay for the sexism men created. But many men don't realise this, they say:
'But women make money too, why do men have to pay more?'
They only see their individual burdens, not the systemic imbalance.
On average, men still have more access to resources, wealth and power, and therefore more responsibilities.
Women continue to face structural disadvantage in economic, social, and political arenas. Inequalities created by the very system men build. You may not have built the system, but you still BENEFIT from it every single day as a MAN.
Most men don't question the system, they don't criticise the structure, they BLAME WOMEN instead, because they can't see a social structure, but they can see women."
Ladies, I will let this sink in... it's a reminder that this world has been built by man, for man. NEVER drop your standards for a 50-50 guy.