14/10/2025
âYouâre still young!?!â
I hear this a lot when I mention being post-menopausal.
But hereâs the thing - none of us truly know when menopause will hit. For some, it sneaks up on us, and by the time we realize itâs happening, weâre already in the thick of it. Even with all the reading I did beforehand, when menopause finally arrived, I still found myself asking: What now? What path do I choose?
The average age for menopause is 51, but it can happen anywhere between 44 and 55 (or even earlier). What many people donât realize is that perimenopause, the transition leading up to menopause, can last anywhere from a few months to 10 years or more. In fact, some women start perimenopause in their 30s.
For many moms, itâs easy to dismiss and feel confused. Youâre already juggling the challenges of parenting, and then, on top of it all, perimenopausal symptoms start to creep in: brain fog, sleep issues, hair loss, joint pain, fatigue, mood swings. So, the real question becomes: âAm I just navigating the ups and downs of motherhood, or is this my estrogen dropping and perimenopause making its presence known?â
Itâs not just about hot flashes and night sweats. There are so many subtle signs to watch for.
If youâve been feeling this shift, youâre not alone. Itâs time to talk about it openly, share our experiences, and support each other through this natural (but often overwhelming) phase of life. đ
Iâll be sharing why I had such a hard time recognizing that I was approaching menopause - and how I wish I had been better prepared. Not just mentally, but with lifestyle changes that could have supported me through this season. I used to think I was living a healthy lifestyle, but looking back, I see there were ways I could have lived more intentionally to support this important transition.