15/08/2025
When we got married we didn’t want to have children.
We used to have various thoughts related to this topic, such as:
What’s the point, there are already so many humans in this world.
Or; why to have our own kid, when we could adopt & help someone to create better life.
Or; we want to keep our freedom and lifestyle, living the way WE want. We want to focus on our career, on building something we dream of.
However, with time all of this changed. Around half a year after getting married we started slowly discussing the idea of having children. And over time we both felt that we deeply and truly want to have a baby, a baby who is born out of our love and our connection. Because we know that what we have is truly priceless.
I remember already as a little girl, I decided that I will never build a family with someone I’m not having a truly loving relationship with. During my childhood, I used to see my parents fighting everyday.
Everyday we were facing screams, arguments, tears.
Everyday was filled with uncertainty of when another emotional bomb would explode, shattering any peace.
This was my foundation.
As I grew up and started having my own relationships, each of them became a lesson.
First, I was learning what love is definitely not.
Later, exploring what love could be.
Being with Rohil finally showed me what love truly is. The relationship we’ve built - on strong foundation of our own healing, life values, open communication, mutual respect, support, fun, lightness, freedom - has shown me its immense value. The immense value of us together. From here, building our family became a natural call of the heart.
We are so waiting for you, our little one.❤️
