27/04/2023
I just want to talk about normal newborn behaviour. Sadly there is a lot of pressure on newborns to be self sufficient very quickly.
However the reality is that in those first few months they are completely dependant on their parents/ primary care givers.
They are at home on your chest, in your arms.
They need to be close to you. They do sleep for short periods and wake often.
They need connection to regulate themselves.
It is a massive change to go from a dim, warm fluid environment where you never feel hunger to a bright harsh environment where your senses are on overdrive. Brightness, cold on your skin getting clothes changed,clothes on your skin, hunger, change in smells,unfamiliar noises these are all big things for our newborns.
As mothers and fathers we are hard wired to respond to our babies, it is a normal response and we should be supported to respond to our babies.
As a Doula I want to help support families as they find their own way with their newborn. We all parent in our own way and it's my aim to
Take care of you, so you can take care of baby.
If you are looking for support please get in contact via aoifegdoula@gmail.com or DM. I offer a free 30 minute phone consultation to see if my services are something that will suit your needs.