20/12/2025
"The way out is in"... Tomorrow, Sunday December 21st is the Winter Solstice here in Ireland, which marks the longest night of the year. A moment in time when darkness has fully arrived, and a pause before the turning towards the light begins. Here in Ireland, the Irish word for Solstice is “Grianstad”, meaning “sun stand still”, or “sun stop”.
The earth here in the northern hemisphere is now resting on the surface layers, and from that place of rest, there is a deep exhale. The Solstice reminds us that cycles are not linear. There are times for growth and visibility, and there are times for pulling energy inwards, letting go of what no longer serves us, and in that letting go renewal naturally starts to ripple beneath the surface.
At a human level, the Solstice invites us to befriend the dark rather than resist it. I sometimes love to meditate in the dark. I love being in total blackout darkness. I actually crave it. It can be so relieving, the silence of it and lack of stimulation feels like medicine to my being. The darkness and stillness also invites us to meet ourselves in a different way, to sit with what is unresolved, tender, or uncertain, without needing to fix or bypass it. But to lean into it. To tend to whatever needs tending in our hearts. To let yourself go there... to not be afraid of the dark.
In meditation, we practice this same gentle artform every time we sit. Meditation is a practice of surrender, being fully present with ourselves, meeting ourselves with compassion. It can feel so liberating to simply be present with what is, to allow and accept without resistance. When we stop fighting what is here, whatever our reality is, something in us softens. The nervous system settles. We can just let go into truth. When we do this we start to feel more deeply attuned with ourselves at a primal level. A deeper wisdom and intelligence then has space to emerge when we can just let go of trying to control it all.
Nature is the greatest teacher, and the Solstice offers us wisdom, reminding us that rest, standing still, and stillness itself are not a failure. Stillness is not stagnation. It is alive with potentiality. And even in the darkest moments, the turning toward the light is already underway.
Thích Nhất Hạnh who was a Vietnamese Thiền Buddhist monk, and master teacher illustrated this movement inwards so beautifully in this image. He capture is all in one sentence: 'The way out is in.'
If you are wanting to learn how to go within and to meditate properly, details are on my website: www.SusanQuirke.com
Any questions, I'm here. Happy Solstice to you and all yours.