13/02/2026
Have you ever experienced that people can show up with lots of advice when you are going through something in life? Decisions to be made? Transitions? Changes?
Ever taken advice, or given advice that you regret?
Wrong advice can change a person's direction in life. It can take a person's power from them.
You should do this.....
If I were you......
You'd be crazy to.......
You should.....
You shouldn't......
Advice is a very slippery slope and many people have made the wrong decisions for themselves, listening to advice of others, that is ultimately not the answer for them.
As peers, we don't advise. Through relationship, people find the answers within themselves.
We understand that we haven't the right to choose what's best for another. We are trained to see that each person is entitled to their own journey, their own path of learning and growth.
They are entitled to time to resolve the issue within themselves. So to give advice? Pause.....be a person that helps a person find their own answers.
To take advice......well, the answers are in you.
Perspective teaches people to look within and find the answers within themselves. Perspective promotes deep connection with self and trust of that connection.
Obviously we have medical, financial, educational experts, that's not what I mean.
But in allowing someone to learn, grow and respond to life.....can you just facilitate in them finding their own answers?