08/12/2025
Two things can be true at once-
You may want to be thinner, and at the same time accept that the body you have today is the body you have today.
It’s not changing in the next 24 hrs.
That’s what acceptance looks like.
You may want to give up dieting, and you may also want to be slimmer.
These two thoughts can coexist. You don’t need to choose one thought over the other.
It’s important to understand which foods will nourish us. And it’s also important to avoid hyper vigilance unless we have serious food allergies.
A message may be true or important, and the way it’s delivered can be harmful.
You can be enthusiastic about getting out walking because you know it’s great for your health, maybe you’re excited about losing a few lbs with this new habit?
AND….. encouraging someone else to engage in this behaviour because you’ve decided they need to lose a few lbs too….. that may be harmful to them. Even though you have the best of intentions.
There are strategies that can be used to approach these topics with neutrality - and if you have never worked in this space or had appropriate training, you’re likely to not get the full picture.
And even people who are fully trained get it wrong sometimes.
What are your thoughts?