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Humans have comparatively short gaps between pregnancies & our offspring also have long childhoods to grant ample time for babies' little brains to wire up. π€°ββββββββ
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Other primates don't pop out their young at quite such a pace! π¦β°π¦§ββββββββ
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Prolonged childhoods often mean mothers care for more than one child at a time for a long time. π§πΆπ¦ββββββββ
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But luckily, mothers are far from the whole story of parenting. π
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Alloparents are helpers other than the mother & father, such as grandparents, siblings, aunts & uncles, and unrelated caregivers, such as babysitters & teachers. ββββββββ
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As Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, anthropologist, primatologist & author of the book 'Mothers & Othersβ explains, we descend from a long line of social creatures, "innately predisposed to childminding".ββββββββ
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Cute wee babies with their big eyes, cherubic cheeks, sweet-smelling scalps, & piercing cries are "sensory traps" evolved to elicit care from other humans. ππΆββββββββ
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There are three core evolutionary upsides to alloparenting care:ββββββββ
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++ Helpers are providers & protectors for both the baby & new parents, with supported mothers having better mental health & happier, healthier children compared to those who don't have a strong social support system. βοΈββββββββ
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++ Helpers are teachers of maternal skills & pass on the knowledge obtained generation by generation by experienced mothers, sisters, aunties & grandmothers in the family. π©βπΌββββββββ
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++ Helpers are brain builders, with the gathering of empathetic adults driving the emergence of socially-savvy intelligent brains. π§ ββββββββ
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