13/02/2026
If you have decided that an epidural is an option you want to have, but would like to try without for a while then don’t let them offer it to you.
Why?
Because being offered an epidural by midwife/doctor can mess with your head. You may be doing ok but as soon as they offer it to you you can start thinking
What do they know that I don’t?
Do they think I won’t cope with the next bit?
Do they think it’s going to last a lot longer?
Do they think I need it?
You can end up in a spiral and agreeing to an epidural out of fear rather than need.
Instead rely on your own intuition and put in your birth plan that they must not offer you an epidural, you will decide and ask when you want it. It’s a simple change but a good one.
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