17/11/2025
"My twin boys were born 6 weeks early on 4th October 2024 - Tomás & Daithí, weighing 1.6kg and 1.9kg. They arrived quickly and were whisked away to the High Dependency Unit straight after birth so dad got a quick glance but I didn't get to see them until hours later. It was quite a blur. We only got to hold them for the first time a couple of days later. They needed some breathing help due to their lungs being underdeveloped so one moved to NICU first and then his brother followed too, not wanting to be separated. Over the following days, there were a flurry of complications involving breathing issues, suspected sepsis, one of the boys having a hole in his lung, as well as being very small. It was a whirlwind few early days, not the standard lovely, birthing experience majority of parents experience. However, knowing they had the most wonderful doctors and nurses taking care of them every step of the way made it that little bit easier to navigate for us as brand new parents.
The boys spent just under a week in NICU, then moved to the HDU for a couple of days and then finally a step closer to the door with the remainder of their time spent in SCBU getting bigger and stronger before they could come home. Getting to that stage was a great relief, knowing we were so close to getting home. They learned how to take bottles, came off their feeding tubes and piled on the weight each day. Having their grandparents being able to come to visit in the NICU was comforting and a nice touch that the hospital allows. Tomás and Daithí were discharged after spending 27 days in The Coombe, both of them coming home together which was even extra special!
Fast forward to almost a year later, we have two thriving boys full of energy, curiosity and fun, about to turn one year old. They are still under the care of the superb Professor White, getting 6 monthly check ups. They're great sleepers and love a good routine - something they definitely picked up in their early NICU days. The newborn phase was tough and being premature, it was longer than most people with a newborn have, but I look at it like we had 6 extra weeks of loving them. They've never let it hold them back, they're doing everything they should be!
My husband, Aidan, and I are beyond grateful for the outstanding care both we and the boys received in those whirlwind first few weeks. There was always a friendly smile, a chat or a few kind words from everyone - the midwives, the nurses, the doctors, the hospital assistants, the catering staff - everyone made a difference! Providing lunch to the NICU parents in the staff canteen was incredibly helpful too.
My advice to any parents navigating their NICU days, is know that your baby is in the absolute best place getting the greatest care possible from some of the most incredible people I've ever met. And even with all those extra weeks in the newborn trenches, the time flies by and you get through it, each new stage coming with new challenges. Take plenty of photos because one day soon you'll look back at them and it'll be hard to believe they were ever that tiny!"
Elaine - proud Mum of Tomás & Daithí