25/04/2026
💜How many of us say this to ourselves and worse, how many actually believe this is the case
💜I know it feels really personal at the time when they seem to be deliberately ignoring us or just not doing what they are asked to do....but
💜As a mammy of 3 for 23 years and as a professional working with families 30 years I can tell you that there us no such thing as a BOLD child or a MANIPULATIVE child despite how it feels
💜Then what's the problem....well here it is and you may not want to hear this ...... its us, we are being triggered because we have unresolved issues from our own childhood! That doesn't mean you run to therapy and hope your child stops ignoring you....it means we become AWARE of what's happening
💜If aware we can change our responses. We need to feel the feeling and physical reaction thats coming up for us in the moment, acknowledge it and breathe ...
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