05/02/2026
February & The Art of Gentle Beginnings
The calendar flips to February, and for many, it can feel like a month of silent judgment. January's roaring resolutions often fizzle out, leaving us feeling defeated just as the days remain short and the weather still bites.
But here’s a thought... What if we're fighting against nature’s rhythm?
Look outside. The trees are still bare, many animals are still nestled in hibernation, and the earth is in a deep state of rest. Yet, we push ourselves to launch into intense new habits, demanding peak performance when the world around us is whispering, "Pause."
It's no wonder many New Year's resolutions have already fallen by the wayside. We set ourselves up for failure by expecting our bodies and minds to be in "spring growth mode" when it's still very much winter.
Embrace the February Slow Down
This February, I invite you to be kind to yourself. Instead of pushing for huge overhauls, consider this a time for:
Rest & Recuperation: Prioritize sleep, cozy nights in, and activities that genuinely recharge you, not just tick a box.
Gentle Reflection: What truly nurtures your soul? What small, sustainable shifts might truly serve you, rather than drain you?
Preparation, Not Performance: Think of this as laying groundwork. Read that book, explore that interest, gather information. The real "doing" can wait.
Imagine this... As the weather softens, as the first buds appear, and the sun lingers longer, when nature begins to awaken. Perhaps that's the most intuitive, powerful time for us to truly begin cultivating new habits and making lasting changes.
Give yourself permission to move with the season. Your body and mind will thank you.