21/12/2025
🎄 Surviving the "Most Wonderful Time of the Year"
While the holidays can be full of joy, they can also be a pressure cooker for our mental health. Between family dynamics, financial stress, and the "perfection" we see on social media, it’s okay if you’re feeling more drained than jolly.
Your peace is worth protecting.
Here are my top 3 tips for navigating the festive season with your well-being intact:
1. Set "Internal" Boundaries
You don't just need boundaries with others, you need them with yourself. Decide ahead of time how much social energy you have to give. It is perfectly okay to say, "I can come for dinner, but I’ll be heading home by 8." You are allowed to leave the party early if your "battery" is low.
2. Lower the Bar on Perfection
The "Picture Perfect Christmas" is a myth. If the turkey is dry or the gift-wrapping looks messy, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. Practice self-compassion. Focus on connection over perfection, and remember that "good enough" is a wonderful place to be.
3. Schedule "Micro-Check-ins"
The holidays move fast. Twice a day, take 60 seconds to close your eyes and ask: "How is my breathing? What do I need right now?" Sometimes, the best gift you can give yourself is a five-minute walk alone or a few deep breaths in a quiet room.
Looking Ahead to January
The "holiday hangover" is real, and the start of a new year can bring up a lot of complicated emotions. Don't wait until you're feeling overwhelmed to seek support.
My January calendar is filling up fast. If you want to start 2026 prioritizing your mental health, send me an email today to secure your sessions.
emilyodpsychotherapist@gmail.com