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28/03/2026

27/03/2026

Many parents instinctively try to keep their babies constantly entertained with toys, songs, and screens. While this feels like love, over-stimulation can have hidden consequences.

Studies show that babies exposed to nonstop entertainment may struggle to play or explore quietly on their own. Because their nervous systems crave novelty and constant input, even moments of stillness can trigger frustration or anger. Parents often assume that more engagement is always beneficial, but too much stimulation trains the brain to seek chaos rather than calm. Encouraging quiet play, pauses, and unstructured time helps babies develop focus, self-soothing skills, and emotional regulation.

Protecting your baby’s calm teaches them how to enjoy silence and builds a balanced, resilient mind.

27/03/2026

27/03/2026

1 in 3 women & 1 in 7 men experience Domestic Abuse meaning many professionals will encounter someone experiencing this. Our level 1 public awareness course, will provide the foundational knowledge of the forms of domestic abuse, the power and control it holds and supports available for victims and survivors.
Our next date is running on April 21st, you can book via our website https://adaptservices.ie/

30/06/2025

When kids act out, push back, or fall apart, it’s not defiance. It’s a signal.
A signal that something feels too big, too hard, or too overwhelming.

Instead of jumping straight to consequences, try this:
💬 “That was a big reaction — are you okay?”
💬 “Looks like something’s feeling tricky right now.”

This doesn’t mean we excuse the behaviour.
It means we meet the need behind it — and guide them from there.
Because connection is what builds cooperation. 💛

📘 Find more tools like this in my book Guidance from The Therapist Parent — available at www.thetherapistparent.com or via the link in bio.

04/04/2025

When it comes to healing trauma, psychology isn’t unimportant, however, when we work with a body-up approach, we can reset the overactive triggers in our threat detection systems.

When the body is calm and we’ve quieted its protective reflexes, we can make more space to talk.

Traumatic events, as well as the stresses of our day-to-day lives, have a powerful physiological impact. Our bodies can get stuck in protective, survival gestures; we speed up to survive, we fight or we flee, we collapse, disappear or dissociate.

When these old parts of our nervous system are stuck in these survival gestures, we don’t think clearly, emote clearly, or remember clearly.

We all have an 'inner guard dog', and when our guard dog is activated it either barks all the time or cowers in the shed. It’s very hard to talk to this inner guard dog – it likes to run, jump, fight or shut down. Having a long conversation with your guard dog won’t do much good!

However, you can train your inner guard dog, stroke your guard dog, and nourish your guard dog, so that instead of barking or cowering in the shed, it can play with the kids and only bark in the middle of the night if it needs too.

When we’re in ‘guard dog’ mode, we get stuck in the quick, primitive reflexes that are underneath our cognitive abilities – we can’t think clearly.

When this happens, we need to help our physiology shift out of its stuck, protective reflexes first.

This is an amazing thing to offer to people in trauma.

Instead of talking about the trauma, the essential thing is helping our bodies to feel free in the present moment and find safety in the present moment.

It's why I love teaching TRE (Trauman and Tension Releasing Exercises). For many people, not having to talk about their trauma, being relatively anonymous in a group setting and doing something that’s purely about finding agency and strength in your body is key to working with trauma in a positive and generative way.

Find out more at trecollege.com