10/10/2019
Yesterday, I listened to explain that pressure for us to feel happy, think positively all the time etc. could be adding another layer of stress to our lives when the reality is that we spend a lot of time in some sort of low level anxiety. And that’s ok. The more we accept that the moments of true happiness are fleeting, the more we can be present to them and the less of a failure we’ll feel when our lives don’t look like a travel company ad on TV. That made a lot of sense to me. And I think it’s pretty liberating.
So for world mental health day, I’m sharing a few of the things that I’ve added more of to my days without trying to be attached to them as things that will ‘fix’ me or my stress levels. Bonus is, the fleeting happiness is happening more often too.
🌱Getting out in nature- hiking, sea swimming, surfing, walking in places with trees, being in or near water. Always a game-changer.
🌱Moving my body. Yoga, dancing, some kind of manual task. Sometimes meditation feels crazy hard when things are really whirring. Moving helps.
🌱Connection and talking to someone close. It never seems as bad when it’s out of my head. Laughing is even better.
🌱Doing something for someone/ in service of something else.
🌱Old episodes of Frasier and Friends