Kerry Wellbeing

20/04/2026

Not thriving… just surviving right now.

The past few months have been a lot. I have not posted here for a long time, but I have not disappeared. In fact, I'm learning that I have felt so overwhelmed with life, that Ive been quite stuck. Not staying connected to what's important to me.

Being unwell, Freya being unwell, me unwell again, starting a new part-time job, mothering, and now supporting my Mum through a sudden health issue.

As a solo Mum, the responsibility never switches off. Lately, I've been feeling more tired and depleted than I ever have.

But I keep reminding myself - this is a phase. It will pass.

Right now, I’m trying to find small moments for myself - even taking the time to do this post. Just ten minutes in the morning to sit, breathe, and feel the sun on my face. It helps.

I’m also learning that asking for help can make all the difference. It’s hard, but it’s necessary.

If you’re in a “just surviving” phase too, you’re not alone ❤️.

17/02/2026

Hello! It's about time for a little intro for anyone new here.

I'm Kerry White, Im a solo Mum to my 6 year old daughter Freya. We live in beautiful Co Wicklow, Ireland. Yes. its very soggy after weeks of rain (worse than usual!).

I took a non-conventional path to make my dream of motherhood a reality, and gave birth to Freya at 49. This was possible with the help of two donors, and Im forever grateful to them, and to modern science for my wonderful miracle ❤️

I now help women who are contemplating taking this unknown path to motherhood. Life often unfolds in a way that we never could have imagined, and that in often mean that dreams are crushed and abandoned.

So helping these women get the clarity that they need to move forward- towards motherhood or not - brings me meaning and purpose.

I speak very openly about my path to Freya in podcasts and media articles. Oh yes, I even gave a aTedx talk about it! Links in bio here.

I am lucky to have some great solo Mum friends and community.This is so important and helpful as we all benefit - especially our kids.

Please get in touch, I would love to hear from anyone this resonates with. ❤️

24/01/2026

Thank you to The Irish Times and for for such a relevant and positive feature today on motherhood after 40.

I was delighted to be interviewed for this feature - I was closer to 50 than 40 - when I made my dream of motherhood a reality.

I am so delighted that this article highlights the many positives about becoming a mother later in life.

Its about time we change our perspectives on motherhood and how we think it should be!

As someone who is now the oldest mama at the school gates, I do understand how we can find it so challenging to step outside the norm when it comes to making a family.

But, if we dont feel "geriatric" after the ripe old age of 35 when it comes to becoming a mama, and the longing of motherhood is still calling, we may well have options!

There are challenges of course, but personally, the joys by far outweigh them!

You can read the article in today's Irish Times Weekend Magazine.




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16/01/2026

This day 6 years ago ❤️

6 years of beautiful, crazy love!

Freya Joy, my pride and joy. My love.

Now can we press pause ..!

11/01/2026

This time 6 years ago..!

As Freya's 6th birthday approaches, Im getting a little nostalgic.

I had these pics taken in my Yoga studio by a friend. They were my only real preggy pics, and Im so grateful to have them.

I never felt better than during my pregnancy. I could never have imagined being pregnant at 49, but I am so glad I listened to that little voice inside that kept nudging me!

It was a truly special time, I was overjoyed to await the arrival of my baby girls. Nervous yes! But nothing could wipe the smile off my face!

Now she's excited to be turning 6 in a few days. Everyone said it will pass so fast, and its true. I just want to press pause.

Although life is busy with the usual mundane stuff, I make sure I tune into the pure magic and wonder of my daughter every day. ✨️

09/01/2026

08/01/2026

If motherhood is calling, but it hasn't happened due to your circumstances, knowing how to move forward can be very tough.

To go for it, despite your circumstances, or to let the dream go, and move on?

I have walked the path, and I know how hard it can be.

If you'd like some support on getting the clarity you need, then I would love to hear from you.

Get in touch for a FREE discovery call.

It may feel lonely, but you are certainly not alone. ❤️ Link in bio.

22/12/2025

These days...

These past weeks have been a daze of sickness, doctors, and A & E. Freya has missed many days of school - the most fun Christmas ones too. 🎄

I've also been unwell, needing rest.

We've watched way too much tele, and our home is at record-breaking messy levels.

As I write this, its my turn to be waiting in A & E (another story).

Our outings in nearby nature have helped. Some bright sunny days have been most welcome.

Solo motherhood is never the easy path, especially during these relentless days. But we manage them. With help where possible.

Thinking of those who are taking care of unwell little ones. Try and take care of you too, ask for help!

The brighter days are never far away. ✨️
For anyone thinking about taking a solo path to motherhood, a solid support network is so helpful. It may be just one or 2 people who have your back and will help you when you need it most. You can even start building a new support network through an SMBC (solo motherhood by choice) network - even if youre just thinking about it, this source of support may already help you feel more prepared.

If you'd like some support while trying to consider all aspects of becoming a Mum without a partner, I'd love to help you. Please get in touch for a FREE discovery call.

While it may feel lonely, remember you are not alone. ♥️

04/12/2025

🌙 Winter Solstice Yoga | Shiatsu Wellbeing Event.

Sunday 21st December in Greystones, Co Wicklow.

I'm delighted to announce a special Winter Solstice Yoga & Shiatsu Wellbeing session, on the day of the Solstice, where we will intentionally work with the energies of the darkest day of the year.

Through the grounding movement of Hatha Yoga, the healing touch of Shiatsu (acupressure), and restorative breathwork, we will aim to find greater balance, alignment, and inner light at this important threshold.

Join me, Kerry, for a connected morning to pause, breathe, release, and realign with your deepest wisdom with clarity.

If you'd like to offer this experience as a gift for someone who will benefit, gift voucher will be organised.

Venue is The Blue Zone in Greystones.

For more details and bookings, visit www.kerrywellbeing.com. or link in bio.

27/11/2025

I finally made it to Venice.
For years, I’d dreamed of visiting this beautiful, romantic city, and I always imagined I’d save it for “the one.” That trip never happened.

But a different trip happened.
I went to Venice with my daughter, a friend and her son. It was everything Id dreamt of and even more. Different than my dream trip to Venice, but more meaningful than I ever could have imagined.

Sometimes the “special person” for a dream trip isn’t a partner. Sometimes it’s a friend. Sometimes it’s your child. Sometimes it’s you.

Is there a place you dream of visiting one day ? And who do you imagine next to you when you finally get there?

When our dreams dont unfold as we hope, it is possible to re-write our dreams ✨️

If this resonates, and your dream of motherhood has not yet become a reality, you are not alone. Please get in touch for a FREE discovery call. Id love to hear from you. Link in bio.

❤️ Kerry x

30/09/2025

🌿 Restore and Revitalise with Yoga and Shiatsu 🌿

Join me for a rejuvenating morning that blends Yoga, Shiatsu (acupressure), and Breathwork, all designed to release deeply held tension in your body, especially the upper back, neck and shoulders.

Whether you're a complete beginner or an experienced practitioner, this session is for everyone.

✨ What to expect:

Gentle Yoga to open up and stretch the body, focusing on targeted meridians (energetic pathways)

Shiatsu acupressure techniques for headaches, backache and low mood.

Breathwork to centre your mind and encourage deep relaxation.

Release stress and learn practical tools you can use every day to feel more balanced and revitalised.

When? Sunday, 5th October, 1030am to 1pm.

Where? The Blue Zone, Greystones, Co Wicklow.

Spaces are limited – reserve your spot today!

Booking link and more info in bio. Or visit www.kerrywellbeing.com.

18/09/2025

The Irish Times today discuses the importance of workplaces supporting women considering solo motherhood.

Delighted to have the opportunity to help improve awareness amongst employers. There is a growing cohort of women considering solo motherhood later in life.

These are the women I mainly support as a Motherhood Clarity Coach. They are usually professional women, and feel so isolated, invalid and unseen in their experience. My hope is that employees will recognise these women, and offer empathic support. As they are starting to do for couples.

Lets keep the conversation going. You are not alone ❤️

If this resonates, please get in touch for a FREE discovery call. I would love to hear from you.