Micki Lavin-Pell: Loving Wisely

Micki Lavin-Pell: Loving Wisely Micki Lavin-Pell is dedicated to helping people create dynamic, successful relationships from the st

Micki Lavin-Pell offers Marriage Therapy and Relationship Coaching for people who want to create dynamic, healthy relationships. Micki helps people unleash their barriers so that they can create a relationship they can feel proud of. Create the relationship you want by learning what you need to know even before you find love!

It’s easy to mistake comfort for compatibility.Someone can be kind, familiar, and present - and still not be the partner...
28/12/2025

It’s easy to mistake comfort for compatibility.
Someone can be kind, familiar, and present - and still not be the partner who truly aligns with you.

“The one” isn’t just someone you enjoy spending time with.
It’s someone whose values match yours, whose pace feels right, and whose presence supports the life you want to build.

Convenience feels easy.
Connection feels grounding.
Pay attention to who you become around them, that often tells you more than the relationship label ever could. 🤍

Dating has a way of turning self-doubt up louder than usual. Suddenly you’re questioning your words, your timing, your w...
26/12/2025

Dating has a way of turning self-doubt up louder than usual.
Suddenly you’re questioning your words, your timing, your worth.

This isn’t because you lack confidence - it’s because dating puts you in a position of uncertainty, and uncertainty can activate old fears of not being chosen.

Your value doesn’t change based on someone’s response.
Healthy dating should support your sense of self. 🤍

Loving Wisely is a proud sponsor of this initiative to help Miluim couples reconnect since the war.
24/12/2025

Loving Wisely is a proud sponsor of this initiative to help Miluim couples reconnect since the war.

It’s common to panic or disconnect when someone shows real interest - especially if your history taught you that love is...
23/12/2025

It’s common to panic or disconnect when someone shows real interest - especially if your history taught you that love is unpredictable or unsafe.
Your reaction isn’t a flaw. It’s your nervous system trying to protect you.
As you build trust and emotional safety, closeness can start to feel less overwhelming - and more grounding. 🤍

It’s confusing when someone goes quiet without explanation.Sometimes it’s about fear, discomfort, or mixed intentions - ...
21/12/2025

It’s confusing when someone goes quiet without explanation.
Sometimes it’s about fear, discomfort, or mixed intentions - but often, it’s not about you.

People withdraw when they don’t know how to communicate honestly.
It hurts, because it leaves you with questions you can’t answer.

You deserve clarity, not guessing.
Silence is also an answer, just not the one you hoped for. 🤍

Getting close can feel safe for a moment - until it isn’t.Sometimes people pull away not because they’ve stopped caring,...
19/12/2025

Getting close can feel safe for a moment - until it isn’t.

Sometimes people pull away not because they’ve stopped caring, but because vulnerability feels overwhelming.
Closeness can activate old fears - of rejection, dependence, or losing control.
Their distance isn’t always about you; it’s often about what closeness brings up in them.
Healthy love means staying open long enough to talk about the discomfort, not run from it. 🤍

A breakup or divorce can leave you questioning your worth, your choices, and your future.But confidence doesn’t return a...
16/12/2025

A breakup or divorce can leave you questioning your worth, your choices, and your future.
But confidence doesn’t return all at once - it returns through soft, steady self-connection.

You’re not rebuilding from scratch.
You’re rebuilding from everything you’ve learned, survived, and carried. 🤍

Emotional openness grows in safety, not pressure.If someone isn’t sharing, it may not mean they don’t care - they might ...
14/12/2025

Emotional openness grows in safety, not pressure.
If someone isn’t sharing, it may not mean they don’t care - they might not feel ready yet.

Try to show curiosity rather than urgency.
Ask gentle questions.
Share your own feelings slowly and honestly.

When someone feels seen instead of judged, connection has room to unfold.
Openness is a choice, not something we pull out of someone, but something they offer when they feel safe. 🤍

There’s no perfect moment, only an honest one.What matters less is when you ask, and more is why you’re asking.If you’re...
12/12/2025

There’s no perfect moment, only an honest one.
What matters less is when you ask, and more is why you’re asking.
If you’re wondering about exclusivity, it’s likely because your emotions are already invested.
Bringing it up isn’t “too much” - it’s caring enough to want mutual clarity.
A healthy connection can hold that conversation.
If it can’t, that tells you something too. 🤍

Chemistry can open the door, but compatibility decides if it stays open.We often confuse excitement for alignment — when...
09/12/2025

Chemistry can open the door, but compatibility decides if it stays open.
We often confuse excitement for alignment — when in truth, both matter.

The spark gets you started.
Shared values keep you going. 🤍

Eighteen years ago, I met a couple who were in deep pain: longing to grow their family, facing uncertainty, and searchin...
07/12/2025

Eighteen years ago, I met a couple who were in deep pain: longing to grow their family, facing uncertainty, and searching for hope.
We worked together through the heartbreak, the fear, and the emotional weight that fertility struggles so often bring.

A few weeks ago, they reached out to tell me that their daughter - born just a year after we finished our work - had just graduated high school.

Therapy doesn’t always offer quick answers. But it does offer strength, clarity, and connection that can shape an entire future.
Sometimes you don’t get to see the outcome. And sometimes, years later, it comes back to remind you why this work matters so deeply. 🤍

If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, it’s not because you want pain - it’s because you’re drawn to wha...
02/12/2025

If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, it’s not because you want pain - it’s because you’re drawn to what feels familiar.

Healing means learning to recognize calm as exciting, and consistency as attractive.

You don’t have to earn love. The right connection will feel safe from the start. 🤍

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