15/10/2022
https://www.beginagainindia.com/post/four-unhelpful-assumptions-about-marriage
Marriage is hard work. In this article, I’m going to address some extremely unhelpful assumptions we may have about marriage. We discuss why these assumptions are unhelpful. As with any unrealistic goal, having such assumptions is a recipe for disappointment. Constant disappointment builds a pressure cooker-like situation in us - we maintain imaginary benchmarks for our relationships and when we fall short, the pressure keeps building. Currently, there is a lot of societal pressure for marriages to appear perfect, and sometimes issues seem to overwhelm us and we don’t know where to begin fixing our marriage. Successful marriages take effort. But the payoff is amazing!