Coach Valerian Sequeira

24/05/2025

09/01/2025

Hey! 👋
Pallabi and I are thrilled to invite you to Love Reboot 2025 on 19th January (Sun) at 7 PM IST.

For 8 years, through Love School (formerly TwoDropsOcean), we’ve been helping men and women to keep love alive.

And this year, we’re unveiling 10 new initiatives to spread even more love and healing. 💖

If you’re not a Love School member, you’re invited because someone who loves you believes this session could benefit you too. ❤

🎁 Attend the session to get deep insights into Relationship Science and a special gift from us.

📲 Join our WhatsApp group for the event link:
Link is in the comments.

Let’s reignite love and healing together! ❤



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31/10/2024

Standing here at the bustling New Delhi railway station, a gateway to countless journeys and stories, we reflect on our own path from Kolkata to this vibrant city.

As we prepare for our next adventure in Canada, we carry the spirit of home with us.

May this Diwali illuminate your lives with positivity and warmth.

Let’s celebrate the triumph of light over darkness together.

Happy Diwali!

09/10/2024

It is always a joy to meet our students but it is a double joy when the meetup is organized by your students.

On the 5th and 6th of October, the Mumbai Pune Leaders of Love School organized an amazing meetup at Karjat (70 km from Mumbai).

This meetup was truly transformational.

We laughed, we cried, we learnt, we prayed and when we parted ways, we felt that we are parting ways from our families.

Thank you so much to each one of you for being there. Thank you to core team which planned this amazing event and executed it. And thanks to the divine for your gift to our community.

May God continue to bless you and your love story.

16/09/2024

Relationship is all about self-discovery. 😇

15/09/2024

Love School in Collaboration with Kaziranga Tiger Reserve conducted a very unique art competition called "Art For Nature" to encourage the young talents living near the tiger reserve. Here are the glimpses.

06/09/2024

🎉🥳🎉 100 reviews
Biggest Gift I could receive on Teacher's Day.
Thank you so much for this.

May God continue to bless each one of you and your love stories.

27/07/2024

Our courtship period was filled with romance stage, but on the day of marriage, I had a strong intuition that our marriage would be very difficult.
Problems began with dominant in-laws. With each day I was deeply hurt, there was a big silence on conversation with my husband. He stone walled from the beginning & later ran away whenever I wanted to have a conversation.

After few months I started criticising, with time he went to defensive mode. We were 2 individuals living under the same roof, conflicts & ugly fight were very common. We never trusted, understood, connected, supported & mattered to each other. We were happy in our own worlds. There were very few days filled with love that never lasted long, because it was over powered by the previous & next hurt episodes. With time the only thing we did religiously was hurt each other in every possible way.

I had changed unconsciously from an happy, optimistic & vivacious person into an pessimistic person ranting about my husband & inlaws every single day. The only thing I derived happiness was by hurting my husband. I started looking forward to receive hurt to return it back (in 2 folds) & the loop continued.This went on for 6 long years, slowly I realised the person I hated the most & my biggest enemy was my husband.
Neither of us were happy in the marriage, we would want to run away from each other. This was not a way I wanted to lead my life, many a times I sat down my husband to make him realise how we could improvise our relationship, but nothing worked. With time I used to hate when the clock turned 5pm (he used to return from work), sundays and holidays.

6 yrs was long time, I was leading a miserable life, I gave a thought for almost 7-8 months & realised divorce was the only option to get rid of everything.
Then with the unmanageable challenges (emotional, mental and financial) I decided to leave the house & lived seperately for almost 1 yr.

During one of our conversations my husband agreed for the first time in 6 yrs that he was wrong. He didn't force me to move in with him but requested, I started noticing small changes in him.
I moved in with him again wanting to give him the last chance, but knew I would be disappointed yet another time. I never knew about AHH & things started changing. It had been 15 days we didn't fight, I thought we would end up fighting in a months time. But to my surprise we might have had small conflicts that ended in half an hour (unlike before which lasted for months & weeks) with talking over & sorting it out (which never happened in the past). But no fight/argument were emotionally draining like before. Thats when I knew it was the magic of AHH.
Being into AHH my husband totally changed he took initiative for conversation, he started becoming optimistic, acknowledging & for the first time in 6 yrs he used the words "sorry & thank you" genuinely, he started helping me in household chores & the list goes on & on. And with this even I started changing unknowingly. From WORST not to BETTER but he became my BEST half.

Within a month we started living happily. For the first time in 6 yrs I felt I am married & for good. My husband became my best friend & I could talk to him about anything & there was tremendous positivity in each of his words.
I just wanted him to be a good husband but he transformed into a BEST HUMAN & this was possible only because of Coach Val & AHH.

Now at present since 2 yrs we are connected at a deeper level, more than love I have immense respect for my husband. If he get hurt I get hurt, his pains are mine & vice versa. We trust each other blindly & seek each other's help for any suggestions.

He was no doubt into an HERO MINDSET, & I was into the VICTIM MINDSET, seeing him transform tremendously, I was curious about AHH. His transformation helped me become a better version of myself (Personally, Professionally & Socially) with the knowledge he passed on to me about relationship science.

Fortunately I had an opportunity to be a part of MEETING THE GODDESS WORKSHOP. Now with MTG, I see the dots connect & for sure I am in my best form at present. We are leading a calm, peaceful and happy life with all the learnings. Now I look forward for happiness & inturn return 2 folds to my husband.

There are no more conflicts & fight now, we at times have difference of opinion, which gets sorted over a discussion. At present we support, motivation & understanding each other.

After 6 yrs of power struggle, I had never imaged even in my dreams that our marriage would be such amazing. If not for AHH I don't know where we would have landed up.

Every time we think we feel that this came as a blessing from the universe through Coach Val.

Thanks Coach Val for helping us transforming our&many more marriages from a struggling cocoon into a beautiful & colourful butterfly.

This is a review from one of the wives of our Awesome Husbands. Reviews like these tell me that every married couple can have an amazing marriage provided that they are willing to learn Relationship Science.

22/07/2024

Few days ago I was on a podcast where I shared some powerful things on Relationship Science. The link to this podcast is in the comments. Check it out now.

16/06/2024

My dad...
Why did I love my mom more?
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Today is Father's Day, and I am sitting here to pen down my thoughts about my father.
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To be honest, I lost my dad when I was in class 5 and thus don't have many memories of him.
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All that I remember of him is that he was a strict man.
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My mom often spoke about him and told me he would get angry about trivial things.
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So, my thoughts about Dad were not very positive.
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In fact, I didn't like him much.
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How about you?
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How was your relationship with your dad as you were growing up?
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Did you see him as someone who was strict or someone you could connect with?
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And more importantly, how did he treat your mom as you were growing up?
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How was he as a husband?
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Many times we role-model our dad, or we say to ourselves that we will not be like our dad and take up the other extreme.
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I guess I took up the other extreme of my dad.
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But today I realize he was a wonderful man just like each of us is.
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If so, then why didn't I like him so much? Why did he hurt my mom?
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I guess he was just stuck in a power struggle and deep into a victim mindset.
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And no one could teach him relationship science or help him understand his personality type.
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As we celebrate Father's Day, I think of each one of you, the fathers in our Love School, (to know more check the comments) and I feel proud of you.
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You are special.
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You are a father who not only loves his kids but also makes them feel the love.
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Not only loves their wife but makes her feel it.
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You are a father who is creating a home filled with love and laughter.
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I am proud of you.
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Thank you for being who you are. Thank you for doing what you do.
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Whether you know it or not, you are making a difference in this world.
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May God continue to bless you.
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As we are celebrating Father's Day, what thoughts are running through your mind?
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Write in the comments.
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Happy Father's Day,
Val

10/05/2024

Is compatability in marriage a truth or a myth?
Let me know in the comments

09/05/2024

People say marriage is between two individuals and we indians feel that it is between two families.

But I believe that marriage is between two brains.

What do you think?