25/11/2025
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Overthinking doesn’t appear out of nowhere.
It shows up in the moments where your heart feels unsafe…
not because something is wrong with you,
but because something inside you remembers what it survived.
Most women who overthink are not “overreacting.”
They’re responding to old emotional wounds that were never understood,
never held, and never given a safe space to settle.
Your nervous system learned to scan for danger
because once upon a time, love felt unpredictable.
Silence felt like loss.
Distance felt like abandonment.
Uncertainty felt like a threat.
So today, when you get attached —
your mind doesn’t create stories…
your body creates protection.
This isn’t madness.
This is memory.
And healing doesn’t begin by “stopping overthinking.”
It begins by understanding what your heart is trying to protect
and giving yourself the emotional safety you never had.
If this feels painfully true for you,
your body is asking for gentleness… not judgement.
You can learn to soothe your nervous system,
stabilise your inner world,
and break the cycle of panic-attachment patterns
without losing your depth.
If you’re ready for that shift,
send me “PEACE.”
— Aartii Kummari | Inner Transformation Reflector | Quench Divine Path
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