02/12/2022
A 74-year-old English lecturer-turned-rickshaw driver in , :
One morning, on my way to work, I was stranded by an Uber auto driver in the middle of the highway. I must have had a worried expression on my face, which made an old man driving a rickshaw stop and ask me where I wanted to go.
Sceptical at first, I told him I needed to get to my office at the other end of town and that I was already late. He said, "Please come in, ma'am. You can pay what you want", in impeccable English.
Taken aback by such kind behaviour, I said ok and what followed was a very enriching 45 minutes.
Of course, as a researcher, I couldn't contain my curiosity & asked him how he spoke such good English. To which he replied that he was an English lecturer!
He predicted my next question & asked himself, "So you're going to ask me why I am driving an auto, right?"
I said, "Absolutely, please tell me."
He said that he is 74 years old now & that he has been driving a rickshaw for 14 years.
Previously, he used to work as an English lecturer at a college in Mumbai because he did not get any jobs in Karnataka. He got one in a reputed Powai college, where he worked for the next 20 years. At 60, he retired & returned to Karnataka.
"Teachers do not get paid well. And since it was a private institution, I don't have a pension. By driving a rickshaw, I get at least Rs 700-1500 a day, which is enough for me and my girlfriend", he laughed.
When I laughed too, he said, "She is my wife, but I call her my girlfriend because you must always treat them as equals. When you say wife, husbands think she is a slave who must serve. But my wife is in no way inferior to me she is superior to me sometimes.
She is 72 and takes care of the house while I work for 9-10 hours a day. We live in a 1 BHK in Kadugodi, where my son helps pay the rent of Rs 12,000, but beyond that, we are not dependent on our children.
They live their life, and we live ours happily. Now I am the Raja of my road. I can take my auto out and work when I want."
Not one complaint about life.
Not one regret.
So much to learn from these hidden heroes.
My morning was made.
-- Shared by Nikita Iyer on LinkedIn, Reposted with Permission
PC: Nikita Iyer on Linkedin