12/03/2021
Is sarcasm funny or is there more to it?
The word sarcasm originates from the Greek word sarkasmos, which means "the tearing of flesh." Does this sound good?
Often sarcasm is thought to be a humorous way of communication. But, in reality it is a disguise for judgment, fear, passive aggression, insecurity and hurt. A person using it may not be fully aware of its impact on others. It can feel hurtful and even hostile to those who are at the receiving end of it.
Sarcasm is a learnt behaviour. Some may be exposed to families where using sarcasm is a common phenomenon while growing up. Some for the sake of 'trying to fit in' in social groups where sarcasm is thought to be funny or cool, learn to use it.
If you have the habit of using sarcasm, try to access other’s sensitivity to it by checking out their response to it. You may even ask them how they felt about it. Instead of responding - 'You are overly sensitive. / I was just joking.' , you may try to take into consideration how they feel, accept and be more respectful towards them.
If you happen to know someone who uses sarcasm and may be occasionally hurt by them then you may try to convey what you feel in a constructive way. Despite doing so they are unable to change their communication towards you, it is best to create healthy boundaries in the relation shared with them.
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