26/04/2022
How to convince your wife for swapping?
Please note this is a long-term planning, so don't be in hurry. Have a patience.
Your first step is to start having regular s*x, While having s*x, concentrate on foreplay more. Start talking about fantasies.
Ask your partner about their fantasies.
After having regular s*x for 2-3 months you need to observe whether your partner is constantly enjoying the conversation and not just s*x.
Make sure to add spices to that conversation. Maybe you can watch some soft p**n or light comedy adult movies dedicated to swinging. Few good movies are like Overnight, Swingers etc.
Don't watch movies like Swung at this stage who showing Swinging issues like Jealousy.
At this stage, you will get to know your partner's fantasies. If they are similar to you, good to go to the next step.
Now, identify a good couple in your neighborhood or Social Media with whom your partner would like to hang out and go shopping or Casual Tea Meet. Make a good friendship with them by going to dinner, movie or some event.
Make sure they are coming in the couple not just single.
Observe, your partner is becoming comfortable with the couple.
Then slowly try to fantasize that you are having four-play with this another couple.
If your partner is enjoying this foursome conversation then it's an easy deal for you.(but Ladies will resist few times for opening up to conversation, just keep going in good mood)
Meanwhile, make yourself familiar with social media. First, browse sites which provides you to create your sw***er profile and create your own profile but do not upload any of your photos or do not share your contact details. Choose social names which reflect you as a couple and looking for this lifestyle such as friends_with_benefits, friendly_cpl.
That way you may get many contacts using Facebook and Whatsapp.
However, never ever disclose your identity and contact without getting familiar with them.
Most of them are just single men and fake profile.
Searching good genuine profile may take some time. But rushing in this lifestyle can ruin your life forever.
So take every step very carefully.
If you ever met a good like minded couple, spend 4-5 visits with them. Get to know each other very carefully. Go to their home, meet their family members and then you may invite them to your house.
Once you are familiar with this couple, make sure you know what other couple wants.
Slowly disclose your wish to your partner.
If your partner is a female you may face some rejection at this moment.
Tell her, it's not mandatory but let us enjoy a good friendship. Do not force at any cost.
Then arrange some overnight get-together at the family picnic spot.
Don't rush. Start with a soft swap. Observe, give respect and freedom. And enjoy.
Please take care of few things;
1. Do not use Wife-Swap word. You can address it as lifestyle, swinging or mate-swapping. Nowadays women are also aware of this lifestyle and they are interested in swapping.
2. Swinging is not just s*x, but it is all about respect and freedom. Choose it very carefully. If you have dominating nature or disrespect to any gender, you unlikely to succeed in this lifestyle, and may invite troubles.
3. Please respect your spouse freedom. When your partner says No, respect that.
4. Extremely take care of STDs (Sexually Transmitted Disease). Judge Cpls properly
5. Watch your other relationships. You should not embarrassed your partner in front of your relatives or friends....
