24/05/2021
Tips For Couples To Last Longer In Bed.
Dear Husbandman, it's really wonderful that you just got married. A big Congratulations to you.
There are challenges that may arise early in your marriage, especially borne from s*xual inexperience and from research, I want to offer you some help tips should incase you encounter the one I'm about addressing.
I want to talk about Premature Ejaculation(PE).
Premature ej*******on occurs when a man ej******es sooner during s*xual in*******se than he or his partner would like. Premature ej*******on is a common s*xual complaint. Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men say they experience this problem at some time.
If this is your first time of meeting a woman, it's very common. I need you not to worry because with time and practise you'll be better. If you encounter this, the source of this can be more of psychological than physiological. It's possible you don't have any sickness or disease but due to anxiety and inexperience,you experience PE.
Below are helpful tips I have put together.
1.Lessen your excitement:Excitement here means your stimulation. Lessen it so that you are not close to release before pe*******on.
2.While being stimulated by your wife, distract your mind. Think about something else,maybe football or something uninteresting.
The reason is because the brain is behind "release" and yes it's programmed to release but you have to psych your mind by telling yourself you want to enjoy the process.
3: Your wife should take the top position and make all the movement while you don't make any thrust. She should do it by herself and slowly. You should not think about how sweet it is down there, just think about basket ball, football, volleyball or something else you do not have interest in.
4.If you're gonna thrust from on top, you have to be slow. Doesn't mean you may still not release fast. But with practice, knowing she is your wife and she's not going anywhere, significantly lower your anxiety levels (you and your wife). Her encouraging words to you will also make you last longer. So wives should rather be encouraging. Your words of encouragement can boost your husband's performance.
5. Sometimes after releasing quickly the first time, your wife can quickly stimulate your p***s to get erect again especially if you want to get erect again. And usually, when you go the second time using the techniques I just explained,you will stay longer.
6. Try to pass urine and as you are doing so, suddenly stop to hold it back midway. Holding it back is what's called "kegel's exercise".And that's how you hold back yourself from releasing.
While walking on the road, you can practise this.
Benefits of kegel work out;
1. It assists with premature ejeculation.
2. It helps in the treatment of erectile dysfunction.
3. It leads to better climax.
4. It helps to reverse urinary incontinence.
5. It enhance ej*******on force.
7. Whenever your wife is stimulating you in whatever way, and you discover you're about to release when you don't want to, tell her to stop the stimulus and relax for some seconds, then start again. Doing this will help you.
8. Some school of thought says if a man notices he's about to release, a gentle tug or pull down of the sc***um helps stop the release. Your wife is the one to do this.
9. Relax yourself. She is your wife.Try the above methods.You will get it right with constant practice.
10.You can take kunu Aya a.k. a Tigernut drink (Debino,coconut and tigernut) like 30mins before you start. You both should take it. It's said to be a good booster.
11.Taking Beetroot or the juice: Check YouTube on how to prepare it.It is a good s*x booster as well.
12. If you can get a tea bag containing or capsule containing Ginseng. It's another booster.If you can get the Ginseng itself,great.
You can read up about this.
13. Don't worry! First time couples usually experience this but with time and practise, they get better.
14. Make sure you breath when you're in the process. There is a tendency to hold your breath. But you should breath. Ensure your breathing doesn't pause. Breathe well. You can practise breathing exercises.
15. Reduce stress on yourself. Reduce your anxiety. Being anxious is a risk factor for PE.
Rela###############xx
NB: If you observe, in this write-up,I brought your wife into the picture becausecos she has a key role to play and together ,you both will make it work.
See a doctor after trying all these and none works.
I wish you a blissful unionâ¤ď¸