Safe Space with Stefan

20/01/2026

Let’s Talk About S*x:
This is a safe space for honest adult conversations. S*x is natural, but how we approach it matters. Being s*xually active comes with responsibility to yourself and to others. Safe s*x is not about fear. It is about respect, health, and informed choices.
Always prioritize consent. It should be clear, mutual, and ongoing. If it is not a yes, it is a no. Protect your body by using condoms correctly and consistently. They help prevent s*xually transmitted infections and unplanned pregnancies. If possible, combine condoms with another reliable contraceptive method.
Get tested regularly, especially if you have more than one partner. Knowing your status is an act of care, not shame. Talk openly with your partner about boundaries, protection, and expectations before things get physical.
If you have personal questions or need private guidance, feel free to DM me or WhatsApp me. Your concerns will be handled with respect and confidentiality.
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28/12/2025

Beyond Loyalty and Slogans: My Political Awakening.

How have your political views changed over time? The networks of corruption have become extremely active. We hear warning to the corrupt, but we see none sacked or arraigned in court - Rt. Hon. Raila Odinga. Over time, my political views have shifted from certainty to caution, and from loud belief to quiet questioning. I used to see politics as a clear divide between right and wrong, heroes and villains, hope and failure. I believed strongly in individuals and movements. I believed that if the right people were given power, change would naturally follow....

How have your political views changed over time? The networks of corruption have become extremely active. We hear warning to the corrupt, but we see none sacked or arraigned in court – Rt. Ho…

27/12/2025

Back to December

There is something about December that makes love feel closer and farther at the same time. The air is softer, memories feel louder, and old emotions return without asking for permission. December does not rush. It lingers. It invites you to look back. What memory does December always bring back to you about love? I find myself thinking about love as it once was. The kind that arrived quietly and stayed in the small moments. Late conversations that stretched into silence. Shared laughter over nothing important. The feeling of knowing someone without needing to explain yourself....

There is something about December that makes love feel closer and farther at the same time. The air is softer, memories feel louder, and old emotions return without asking for permission. December …

11/09/2025

13/07/2025

You ever argue with your partner and realize… it wasn’t what they said, but how they said it? 😅💬
Or worse… they didn’t say anything at all?

Yeah. That part.

Real talk — good communication isn’t just about talking. It’s about understanding.
Sometimes, you gotta stop listening to respond — and start listening to understand.

Ask questions.
Check in.
Be honest. Be soft. Be real.

'Cause silence? That can speak volumes.
Make your relationship a space where both of you feel safe to speak up.