23/10/2025
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And the two shall become one π₯π₯π₯
This was a day or 2 after our wedding ππ; we were on our honeymoon. The vows we said went something like this... "I promise to love and to cherish you, to have and to hold....for better for worse, till death do us part" and of course in our minds.. ππππ ππππ
πππππππ ππ ππππ πππππ.
Now, nobody prepares you what the bit of becoming one really entails. The only bit that's hammered is the πππππππππ πππ πππππππ πππ πππππππππ πππ ππππππππ π€£π€£.
My friend, once inside marriage you realize that becoming one means opening yourself up to your spouse - the good, the bad and the ugly π€¦π€¦ and boy we open up because ππ πππ ππ ππππ ππππππππ πππ
ππ ππππ ππππ πππππ'π ππππ.
Now, come close and hear this... Your spouse knows you better than everyone else (presumably). Then boom π₯π₯π₯ one day, either of you begins unleashing their missiles - πππ πππππ πππππ πππ ππππ πππ ππππ ππππππππππ ππππ ππππππ πππππππ ππππ ππππππ ππ π
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ππππππππ ππ ππ πππ ππ ππππππππ π . It feels so good until it's your turn π±
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π ππ πππ - information is power but don't use that power against your spouse. Nothing breaches confidentiality than when it begins from home π’. Trust is broken π and communication becomes superficial...
We pray that you both seek help in order to heal from this betrayal because indeed it is...