Anchor Relationship Network

Anchor Relationship Network A healthy mind creates a joyful life. We are here to support you to live purposefully, love passionately, and thrive unapologetically.

Your trusted source for mental wellness, relationship therapy, and holistic health.

23/02/2026

Some careers pay the bills... ๐™Š๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ก ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š๐™จ.
Counseling psychology is a calling - one that demands empathy, patience, and the courage to walk with people through pain and healing.

Our Lead Psychologist, Martha Kilonzo , discovered her calling through listening, observing, and caring deeply for people long before she ever sat in a therapy room.

Today, with over eight years of experience, she continues to serve with professional excellence and genuine compassion at Anchor Relationship Network.

If youโ€™ve been carrying life alone, this is your invitation:
๐Ÿ“ž Call us to book a session
๐Ÿ”— Click the
๐Ÿข Or walk in and visit us - our doors are open

You, deserve support.

20/02/2026

At Anchor Relationship Network, we meet you exactly where you are - emotionally, mentally, and relationally.

Meet ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฎ, our wellness co-ordinator & Executive Assistant and here's whar she had to say...

๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฎ ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™š ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฏ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎโ€™๐™ง๐™š ๐™จ๐™ช๐™›๐™›๐™š๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™›๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™›๐™š๐™š๐™ก ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™š๐™›.

Thatโ€™s what therapy does.
โ€ข It gives language to emotions.
โ€ข It gives tools to cope.
โ€ข It gives hope for whatโ€™s next.

You donโ€™t need to have it all figured out... ๐™…๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™š ๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š.

๐Ÿ“ž Reach us on 0768 660 337, weโ€™re happy to support you.

18/02/2026

๐Ÿšจ If nothing has changed you in the last few yearsโ€ฆ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ชโ€™๐™ง๐™š ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ, ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ.

Disruption isnโ€™t punishment - itโ€™s pressure revealing what was dormant.

โ€ข Resilience is not accidental.
โ€ข Agility is not inherited.
โ€ข Growth is a decision.

1. Define your ikigai.
2. Demand emotional resilience.
3. Rebuild your balance.
4. Choose relationships that stretch you.
5. Embrace excellence - even when youโ€™re scared.

I didnโ€™t become who I am by staying comfortable - I became her by doing it afraid.

โ€œ๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™›๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š. ๐™„๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š๐™œ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™™๐™š๐™˜๐™ž๐™™๐™š ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ง๐™š๐™ข๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™จ๐™–๐™ข๐™š.โ€ - ๐—๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฒ ๐—ž๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ

If youโ€™re tired of enduring seasons instead of transforming through them, Life Elevate was written for you.

๐Ÿ“• This book is not comfort, ๐™ž๐™ฉโ€™๐™จ ๐™– ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ก๐™ฎ๐™จ๐™ฉ.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Get your copy of Life Elevate today: bit.ly/LifeElevate
๐Ÿ’ฌ Comment ELEVATE if this spoke to you.
๐Ÿ” Share with someone whoโ€™s playing small in a big calling.

16/02/2026

Letโ€™s be honest - ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™—๐™š ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ.

Because excellence demands that you change while things are still working.

Kodak was excellentโ€ฆ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™œ๐™ž๐™ก๐™š.
Nokia was dominantโ€ฆ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ.
BlackBerry was iconicโ€ฆ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก ๐™š๐™œ๐™ค ๐™œ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ช๐™™๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ซ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ.

Psychology tells us this: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐˜๐—ต.

Excellence in a crisis means:

โ€ข Listening beyond your ego
โ€ข Learning faster than the environment is changing
โ€ข Caring for yourself while carrying responsibility
โ€ข Choosing clarity over comfort

This Monday, ask yourself:
๐™’๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™–๐™ข ๐™„ ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ช๐™˜๐™˜๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™–๐™™ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™š๐™ซ๐™ค๐™ก๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ง๐™™ ๐™›๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™ง๐™š ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™š๐™ซ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š?

๐Ÿ“˜ Life Elevate is a guide for moments like this - when life is asking you to rise, stretch, and lead yourself forward.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Get your copy of Life Elevate and choose growth before crisis chooses it for you: bit.ly/LifeElevate

14/02/2026

Valentineโ€™s Day can be beautifulโ€ฆand heavy.

It reminds us of love gained - and love lost.
Of who stayed - and who didnโ€™t.
Of promises kept - and others that broke us.

From a psychological perspective, days like this stir attachment wounds - not because youโ€™re weak, but because youโ€™re human.

If today brings joy, receive it fully.
If today brings tears, honor them gently.

Healing doesnโ€™t mean you failed at love.
It means youโ€™re brave enough to feel it.

May you feel seen today.
May you feel worthy of deep, safe love.
Happy Valentineโ€™s Day โค๏ธ

- ๐ด๐‘›๐‘โ„Ž๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘…๐‘’๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘ค๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘˜

13/02/2026

โš ๏ธ ๐—ฉ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒโ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—ฆ๐—”: โš ๏ธ
Betrayal doesnโ€™t ask for permission. It just arrives.

If youโ€™ve ever said:
โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน โ€œIโ€™ll never love like that again.โ€
โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน โ€œIโ€™ll never trust anyone.โ€
โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน โ€œIโ€™ll never be that vulnerable.โ€

Thatโ€™s not strength , ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘กโ€™๐‘  ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘˜๐‘–๐‘›๐‘”.

Jennie wrote Healing Beyond Betrayal for people who loved with their whole hearts - and had to learn how to love themselves again.

This Valentineโ€™s, donโ€™t numb the pain with a rebound.
๐ป๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘™ ๐‘–๐‘ก ๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘›๐‘”.. and we're hear to hold your hand and walk the journey with you.

๐Ÿ“˜ Grab Healing Beyond Betrayal - real stories (names changed), real healing, real hope: bit.ly/HealingBB

Share this with someone silently struggling.

11/02/2026

February triggers emotions - love, loss, regret, hope.

After 48 years of marriage, Iโ€™ve learned this: ๐‘…๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘ ๐‘ค๐‘’๐‘’๐‘ก, ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘–๐‘ก'๐‘  ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘”โ„Ž.

Love thrives on alignment, values, empathy, and intentional choice.

Marriage is not a walk in the park.
It is a bed of roses - beautiful and fragrant, but sometimes prickly.

Yet even now, I still fall in love every day.

๐Ÿ“˜ Marriage Built to Last carries the lessons of choosing love beyond fantasy and, ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™—๐™š๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™™๐™ž๐™จ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ - get it here: bit.ly/MBTLast

๐Ÿ’ฌ , What do you believe keeps love alive long-term?

09/02/2026

We are living in a results-driven world.

๐—ง๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€. ๐—ž๐—ฃ๐—œ๐˜€. ๐——๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€. ๐—•๐—ผ๐˜๐˜๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€...
๐™๐™๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ง๐™š ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก.

But leadership today is no longer about barking orders from the top. ๐ผ๐‘กโ€™๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘›๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘›. ๐™„๐™ฉโ€™๐™จ ๐™–๐™—๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ.

When people feel valued, productivity rises.
When they feel disposable, effort drops - ๐‘ž๐‘ข๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘™๐‘ฆ.

Empathy doesnโ€™t mean lowering standards.
It means understanding the human cost of the work youโ€™re asking for.

If you lead people and donโ€™t understand emotions - ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ž๐™ง๐™จ - youโ€™re managing output, not leading humans.

Book leadership coaching for yourself or your managers:
๐Ÿ“ž 0707 633433
๐Ÿ“ฉ info@anchor.co.ke

What makes you feel most valued at work โ€” recognition, flexibility, or trust?

06/02/2026

Iโ€™ve watched leaders lose teams not because they were incompetent - ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘™๐‘ฆ, ๐‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘’ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘ฆ ๐‘ค๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘Ž๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’.

โ€ข Unaware of their tone.
โ€ข Unaware of their inner dialogue.
โ€ข Unaware of the emotional climate they created.

There are two kinds of energy we carry every day:

๐—”๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐˜†: builds, strengthens, heals.
๐—–๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐˜†: erodes, exhausts, breaks down.

Hereโ€™s the hard truth:
Catabolic leadership doesnโ€™t shout, it presents as:
โ€ข Sighs.
โ€ข Quiet criticism
โ€ข Rare affirmations

And it always begins with how you speak to yourself.

Leadership isnโ€™t about avoiding crisis.
Itโ€™s about choosing a mindset that doesnโ€™t collapse under pressure.

As we go into the weekend, ask yourself:
๐™’๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™–๐™ข ๐™„ ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ก๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ข๐™ฎ๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™› - ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™š ๐™„ ๐™ก๐™š๐™–๐™™?

If youโ€™re ready to lead with awareness, resilience, and emotional intelligence - letโ€™s talk.

Leadership coaching, team mindset coaching, everyone wins!

โ˜Ž๏ธ: +254 707 633 433
๐Ÿ“ง: info@anchor.co.ke

04/02/2026

In February, there is everything to hope for and nothing to regret. A time for you to reset what you missed in January, a time to focus and move forward positively.

04/02/2026

Let me say this plainly - crisis doesnโ€™t create leaders, ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ง๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ข.

When everything around you is shaking, the question isnโ€™t โ€œWhat do I do?โ€ Itโ€™s โ€œ๐™’๐™๐™ค ๐™–๐™ข ๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™จ ๐™›๐™–๐™ก๐™ก ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ?โ€

Here are 5 anchors every leader needs in a crisis:

๐Ÿ”น Purpose (Ikigai):
If you donโ€™t know why youโ€™re here, pressure will scatter you.

๐Ÿ”น Emotional & mental resilience:
You canโ€™t lead others when youโ€™re emotionally bleeding in silence.

๐Ÿ”น Balance:
Burnout isnโ€™t strength. Itโ€™s your body asking for honesty.

๐Ÿ”น Relationships:
Isolation weakens judgment. Community strengthens clarity.

๐Ÿ”น Excellence:
Standards matter most when it would be easier to lower them.

Your mind will default to fear, self-doubt, and negativity.
Leadership is learning how to override that default.

๐Ÿง  Awareness is the heartbeat of healing.
๐ŸŽฏ Clarity is the foundation of good decisions.

If youโ€™re navigating pressure, transition, or quiet overwhelm - book a clarity session with us to realign your purpose and direction.

โ˜Ž๏ธ: 0707 633433
๐Ÿ“ง : info@anchor.co.ke

You donโ€™t have to figure this out alone.

02/02/2026

Your destiny is not determined by the mistake you made but by the lessons you learned from it. When you go back and check where you failed, you plan for your future with clarity and precision. What a better way to start the year than with putting your vision down. Join me for a virtual class on the 28th and 29th of January on zoom.
Charges are 3000 and the meetings are from 7pm .
Call 0768 660337 to register.

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