25/11/2025
Above all, pursue your peace of mind. Get closure on what matters to you and your family.
This whole DNA story online has exposed something painful — and very real — in this country.
A man wakes up one day and discovers the child he has loved, raised, and sacrificed for… isn’t his.
And society just shrugs.
If Kenya made paternity tests mandatory, a frightening number of results would come back negative.
Too many men are unknowingly raising children that don’t belong to them.
Too many are paying child support for situations built on lies.
Too many are financing betrayal.
And the cruel part?
The mother always knows the truth.
She knows whose child it is.
But because you are present, reliable, soft-hearted… you become the “default father.”
Men are being emotionally, financially, and psychologically drained — silently.
This is why I keep telling men:
Unplug from naïve beliefs.
Stop assuming loyalty where there is none.
Stop thinking “love” will fix dishonesty.
Stop raising red flags like they are children.
It is NOT wrong to walk away from a relationship that doesn’t serve you.
It is NOT wrong to protect your sanity.
And it is definitely NOT wrong to demand certainty about a child you’re investing your life into.
The truth is harsh:
Most paternity tests today are failing.
Not because men are paranoid —
but because we live in a morally confused society where people easily take advantage of good men.
Imagine discovering the truth after 20 or 25 years.
Imagine the emotional damage.
The betrayal.
The years you can never get back.
There’s a book I always recommend — Unplugged by Jacob Aliet
Read it.
Understand the stories of men who trusted blindly and paid the highest price.
Understand why self-awareness is not optional anymore.
To Daktari — pole sana.
What happened to you should never happen to any man.
I hope your story wakes more men up.
Brothers, your peace matters.
Your future matters.
Your dignity matters.
Don’t wait until pain teaches you what wisdom can teach you today.
