29/01/2026
Autism in children is not a disease.
It is a neurodevelopmental difference.
Neurodevelopmental means that the child’s brain develops and processes information differently from an early age. This affects how the child communicates, understands the world, regulates emotions, and responds to sensory input. It is not caused by bad parenting or wrongdoing.
Some autistic children may appear irritable, resistant, or easily overwhelmed. This is often because they struggle to communicate discomfort, fear, pain, or confusion. What looks like “stubbornness” is usually distress.
Bizarre or confusing behaviors such as repetitive movements, screaming, refusing to wear clothes, removing clothes, or avoiding touch are often linked to sensory overload. Sounds, lights, textures, clothing fabrics, or even body sensations can feel physically painful or unbearable to the child. These behaviors are attempts to self regulate, not misbehavior.
When children are punished, restrained, or caged for these behaviors, the distress increases and can lead to trauma. Harmful control based approaches do not teach regulation or understanding.
Support that helps includes structured routines, sensory friendly environments, communication support, and patient guidance. Psychotherapy such as behavioral support therapy, play based therapy, occupational therapy, and parent coaching can help children learn safer ways to communicate and cope.
In some cases, medication prescribed by a qualified medical professional may help manage severe irritability, aggression, anxiety, or sleep difficulties. Medication does not “cure” autism but can reduce overwhelming symptoms so the child can function better.
There is an international day dedicated to autism awareness and acceptance, meant to educate communities and promote dignity, inclusion, and humane care.
With understanding and proper support, autistic children can learn, grow, form relationships, and live fulfilling lives.
Autistic children are not broken.
They deserve safety, dignity, and compassion.
Care should be extended to an adult or the carr giver. They need it too.
Written by Clinical Psychologist Kinya N Gitonga
Kinyanina52@gmail.com