23/04/2026
Ending the week with this beautiful post from lovesecurely that serves as a reminder on the difference between patience and settling.
Sometimes we meet people and think that we can change them or that they will change to be what we would like them to be. We then invest in these relationships hoping that one day they will change, however in reality what we are doing is settling, not settling down.
We have to recognize that people only change if they want to, and sometimes taking a step back or walking away is the best option because life is too short to settle for something you know is not making you happy or fulfilled. Understanding what your values are before you commit is important too, because conflict over values are really difficult to meet in the middle over.
A difficult thing to read, but worth looking into especially if you keep making an effort but the effort is not reciprocated. Starting over is not as hard as being in a place where you cannot grow and feel stuck.
Wishing you a Thoughtful Thursday.
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