Sam Selby

Sam Selby ✨ Intuitive Transformational Coaching, Psychic Medium, Artist and Designer. ✨
Authentic living ✨ Crystal Reiki Master and Therapist.

Sam grew up in the UK and has been living in Malta for many years. Her gifts were discovered at a young age, and she now has over 20 years of experience. She works both online Internationally and face to face in Malta offering Psychic Readings, Mediumship, Transformational Life Coaching. Sam also creates Handmade Crystal Jewellery, Metaphysically created to support your energy.

16/04/2026

Harvey’s first days back at school… and honestly, it feels like watching life slowly breathe again.

After years of hospitals, routines built around chemo, and a world that became very small… suddenly it’s school bags, classrooms, chatter, and that beautiful kind of normal we once took for granted.

And me? I’m feeling everything at once. Pride. Relief. Fear. Gratitude. Letting go, even just for a few hours, still pulls at something deep in my chest. But watching him walk into this next chapter with excitement… that’s the kind of courage you can’t teach. That’s lived.

So yes… we’re celebrating.

In the most unapologetic, joy-filled, slightly chaotic way… with cake. Every single day.

Because after everything his little body has been through, after every needle, every tear, every “just one more treatment”… if he wants cake, he gets cake.

No rules. No guilt. Just moments.

Because this isn’t just about going back to school.
It’s about reclaiming childhood.
It’s about sweetness after survival.
It’s about choosing joy wherever we can find it.

And right now… joy tastes a lot like cake 💛

16/04/2026

There comes a point where you realise you can’t live inside the trauma anymore… you have to step outside of it.

For me, that place has always been the canvas.

I went back to painting not just to create… but to heal. To breathe. To escape the weight of reality for a moment and place it somewhere softer, somewhere I could hold it, shape it, and understand it.

This piece has been evolving slowly over months. Layer by layer. Just like me.

It’s a reflection of moving through different states… different mindsets… the highs, the heaviness, the surrender, the strength. Learning not to fight the current, but to flow with it. Even when it feels uncomfortable. Even when it feels uncertain.

Today, I found myself working on these bubbles…

And it hit me — they need to pop.

But not in my reality.

On the canvas.

Releasing pressure. Letting things rise to the surface, transform, and dissolve… safely, creatively, intentionally.

Because healing doesn’t always look like talking.
Sometimes it looks like colour, texture, movement… and the quiet courage to keep showing up to the canvas, even when your world feels heavy.

And maybe that’s what this is really about…

Not escaping life, but learning how to move through it
with softness, with flow… and with a little more freedom each time ✨

Being a psychic medium isn’t always light, love, and guidance. It’s knowing and feeling things.. that you don’t want to ...
16/04/2026

Being a psychic medium isn’t always light, love, and guidance. It’s knowing and feeling things.. that you don’t want to be true.

The first time I held Harvey, I heard:
“This is going to be your sick child… the one you’re going to lose.”

I pushed it down. Refused to give that second part any life. I still do.

But when the signs started, I knew.
I was eight weeks ahead of all medical diagnostics. Eight weeks of being told it was a virus… and eight weeks of me refusing to accept it. I drove the doctors wild pushing them to keep looking—because something in me already knew.

Then came the diagnosis. T-cell Acute lymphoblastic leukemia with central nervous system involvement. It was everywhere.

And yet…4 years later…he beat cancer. 🤍🎗️

But now I live with the echo of what I heard. The fear of relapse. The quiet “This is the one you will loose” I refuse to claim.

This is the part people don’t see. It’s a gift when I’m helping others… but when it’s your own child, it can feel like a curse, wanting to be wrong. Praying to be wrong.

So now I choose differently.

I choose not to manifest that outcome.
I choose presence over fear.
I choose to give my boys the most beautiful, full lives they could ever dream of.

Because right now… he’s here.
And that is everything.

15/04/2026

After 3 and a half years of chemotherapy while fighting leukaemia, Harvey has finally returned to school. 🏫👦📚

His mum, Sam Selby, shared the emotional milestone, saying his immune system is now strong and that, after years shaped by treatment, fear and resilience, they are finally able to start living again.

She described it as more than just going back. For Harvey and his family, this is a step into a new chapter filled with normality, freedom and the simple things that once felt far away.

“This is what strength looks like. This is what love carried us through. And this is our new beginning,” Sam wrote.

Wishing Harvey strength, happiness and a beautiful fresh start. 💖

Video credits: Sam Selby

15/04/2026

Today feels like a quiet milestone… one that doesn’t need noise, just a deep breath and a full heart.

After 3 and a half years of chemotherapy, hospital corridors, protocols, fear, strength, and more resilience than I ever knew existed… Harvey is finally returning. His immune system is strong. His little body has fought the biggest battle… and now, we get to start living again 🤍

There were days I didn’t know how I would hold it all together. Being a single mum through this journey meant there was no pause button… no tag team… just love, instinct, and showing up every single day no matter how heavy it felt.

And somehow, we made it here.

This moment isn’t just about going back… it’s about stepping forward. Into normality. Into freedom. Into a life that isn’t dictated by hospital visits and blood counts.

It feels surreal. Beautiful. And yes… a little bit scary too.

Because when you’ve lived in survival mode for so long, learning to live again is its own kind of healing.

But we’re ready.

Ready for school runs, laughter, plans, and all the simple things that once felt so far away.

This is what strength looks like.
This is what love carried us through.
And this… is our new beginning ✨

Today is a big day… a huge day.After four years of being home together, wrapped in our own little world of protection, h...
14/04/2026

Today is a big day… a huge day.

After four years of being home together, wrapped in our own little world of protection, healing, and survival… today I let Harvey go back to school.

The day we have fought for.
The day that once felt so far away.
The day we can finally say… we are on the other side of cancer.

And he is SO excited.
Backpack on, ready, smiling, full of life.
Like nothing ever broke him… like everything only made him stronger.

And then… he asked to go on the school bus.

Just like that.
No slow easing in.
No walking him to the gate.
No holding his hand that little bit longer.

I didn’t even get to take him to the gate.

Me? I feel ready… but that doesn’t make it any less scary.

Because behind this “normal” moment, there’s still a reality we carry.
If Harvey picks anything up… if he gets a fever… we go straight back to the Rainbow Ward for IV antibiotics. No hesitation. No waiting. Just protocol.

So this morning… I didn’t just let go at the school gate…
I let go at the bus door.

I watched him go… standing there with a heart full of pride, love, fear… and a thousand silent prayers.

I’m letting go of control.
I’m trusting life again.
I’m breathing through the “what ifs”… and choosing to stand in the “what is.”

And what is…
is a little boy who has already shown more strength than most ever will.
A little boy who deserves laughter, friends, playgrounds, and learning.
A little boy who is not defined by hospital walls… but by the light he carries.

This is healing.
This is courage.
This is the next chapter.

And today… we step into it. ❤️

Monday morning can hit like a wave…that feeling of overwhelm as everything resets for a new week.The to-do lists, the ex...
13/04/2026

Monday morning can hit like a wave…
that feeling of overwhelm as everything resets for a new week.

The to-do lists, the expectations, the pressure to “get on with it.”
All arriving at once.

But here’s the shift…
it’s not about doing everything — it’s about how you hold it.

Break it down.
Make it manageable.
Take it in small, bite-sized chunks.

You were never meant to carry the whole week in one breath.

Pause in between.
Notice the quiet moments — the sip of coffee, the deep breath, the few seconds of stillness.
Those little pockets of calm aren’t accidental… they’re there to steady you.

And then something powerful happens…

Your mindset kicks in.
Not the overwhelmed version — the capable one.

The one that knows you can handle this.
The one that moves through challenges, not around them.
The one that quietly, steadily succeeds.

Because success isn’t built in stress…
it’s built in how you show up, moment by moment.

So this Monday, don’t try to conquer the week.
Just take the next step.

Calm. Clear. Capable.

You’ve got more control than you think 🤍

12/04/2026

Coming back to work after four years away… I don’t even know how to put this into words without feeling emotional.

Four years of being in a completely different world. Of healing, of holding, of surviving, of growing in ways I never expected. And now… stepping back into doing what I love, holding space for you all again—it feels like coming home to a part of myself that never truly left 🤍

But what I didn’t expect… was this.

To return and be fully booked in my very first week back… I am honestly overwhelmed with gratitude. Every single message, every booking, every bit of trust you’ve placed in me—it means more than you will ever know.

Thank you for allowing me back into your lives.
Thank you for choosing me.
Thank you for seeing me.

My heart is full… and this is just the beginning ✨

If you feel called to work with me, I would absolutely love to connect with you.
You can WhatsApp me on +356 79870672 and I’ll get you booked in 💫

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Being a psychic and a medium is one of the most beautiful parts of who I am…but one of the most empowering lessons I’ve ...
11/04/2026

Being a psychic and a medium is one of the most beautiful parts of who I am…
but one of the most empowering lessons I’ve learned is this:

✨ I get to choose when I open ✨

There was a time I thought I had to feel everything, all the time…
that being connected meant always being “on.”

But true alignment taught me something different.

This gift isn’t here to overwhelm me — it’s here to work with me.

I’ve learned to open with intention…
to sit, connect, receive, and trust what comes through.

And just as importantly… I’ve learned to close.
To ground.
To return fully to myself, my body, my life.

Because balance is where the magic lives.

The spirit world is constant, loving, and always there…
but so am I — and my energy deserves peace, clarity, and space to breathe.

Now, instead of feeling flooded…
I feel empowered.
Clear.
In control of my own frequency.

✨ This is the lesson: your sensitivity is a gift, but your boundaries are your power.

You don’t have to carry everything to be connected.
You don’t have to be open to be intuitive.
You simply have to be aligned.

And from that place… everything flows beautifully.

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10/04/2026

There’s something about singing that carried us through the hardest chapters… something medicine can’t prescribe, but the soul just knows.

During chemo, when everything felt heavy and uncertain, we found lightness in the simplest way… we sang.

In the car.
At home.
And yes… sometimes right there in the street, without a care in the world.

Our song became “So Easy” by Olivia Dean — soft, uplifting, and full of a kind of ease we were craving in a time that felt anything but.

And for those few minutes… everything shifted.

The hospital days, the fear, the exhaustion… it all softened.
Our voices became our release.
Our way of moving energy through our bodies instead of holding it in.

Because singing isn’t just sound… it’s vibration.
It moves through every cell, lifting what feels heavy, bringing you back into the moment… back into connection, back into love.

And that’s what we held onto.

Even now, when we hear it… we don’t just remember the hard days.
We remember the strength, the laughter, the dancing in between it all.

Proof that even in the darkest moments…
we found a way to feel light.

And sometimes… healing really can be as simple as a song 💫

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Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do… is pause.Not to quit.Not to escape.But to create space for clarity.Because...
09/04/2026

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do… is pause.

Not to quit.
Not to escape.
But to create space for clarity.

Because when everything is loud, rushed, and overwhelming…
you can’t hear yourself.

And that’s where the pause becomes powerful.

In the stillness, the noise settles.
The pressure softens.
And slowly… your truth begins to rise.

Not the version of you shaped by expectations.
Not the one trying to hold it all together.
But your authentic self — the one who knows what you actually want.

What lights you up.
What drains you.
What no longer fits.

Pausing isn’t falling behind.
It’s realigning.

It’s giving yourself the space to ask:
✨ What do I truly want from this life?
✨ What feels right for me now?
✨ What am I ready to let go of?

You don’t find those answers in the chaos.
You find them when you come back home to yourself.

So if life feels unclear… pause.
Breathe.
Listen.

And if you’re feeling unsure of your direction, I’m here to guide you back to that clarity.
Reach out for a session — sometimes all it takes is the right space, the right questions, and a little support to find your way again ✨

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There are some loves in life that don’t fit into neat, happy endings… they just change shape.Bella came into our lives a...
07/04/2026

There are some loves in life that don’t fit into neat, happy endings… they just change shape.

Bella came into our lives and for eight beautiful weeks she was ours. Still a big, bouncy pup, full of energy, full of love… and then everything changed. Harvey’s diagnosis with acute lymphoblastic leukemia turned our world upside down overnight. Suddenly, he was fragile, immunocompromised… and a 25kg bundle of excitement just wasn’t safe for him.

Letting her go was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.

But in the middle of that heartbreak, something incredible happened. My most amazing friend stepped in and gave Bella the home I couldn’t give her at that time. A kind of love that holds you when you’re breaking.

And Bella… she never really left me.

Now that Harvey has finished treatment, she comes back for sleepovers sometimes. I see her every week when I can — long walks, tight cuddles, that familiar energy that feels like home. Our bond didn’t disappear… it just learned how to exist differently.

Some connections don’t need ownership to be real.
Some love just… is. 🤍

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About Sam Selby Psychic, Empath, Medium and Crystal Healing Jewellery

ABOUT SAM:

Born in the UK, Sam has dedicated over 20 years of nurturing, understanding and spiritual growth. Now reading Internationally, guiding and helping people with their messages from Spirit all around the globe. Sam provides insight on what is directly in front of us, spiritual guidance and techniques to help us move forwards. Sam has a BA (Hons) in Design Management, and also has her own business, creating handmade crystal jewellery, personalised for each individual.

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