Sam Selby

23/03/2026

This is 42… welcome. ✨

How exciting it feels to be stepping into this chapter—older, wiser, and shaped by everything I’ve walked through.

This past season didn’t come quietly. It came with some of the deepest challenges a parent can face… navigating my child’s chemotherapy, while also finding my way through a divorce, and stepping fully into single motherhood. There were moments I didn’t think I’d get through—but here I am.

Stronger. Softer. More grounded than ever before.

42 isn’t just an age—it’s a testament. To resilience. To love. To rising, even when life asks the unimaginable of you.

And now… I’m ready. Ready for new memories, for laughter that comes easy, for adventures and travel, for moments that feel light again. Ready to live, not just survive.

Thank you to every single person who has sent love, support, encouragement, and held me up when I needed it most. I see you, I feel you, and I carry that with me.

This is my year to shine. ✨

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20/03/2026

A heartfelt message shared by Puttinu Cares is reminding Malta of the quiet strength behind every child battling cancer, and the families who walk that journey with them.

17/03/2026

“You’re so strong.”

I hear it all the time.
With admiration. With awe. With kindness.

And every time, the same quiet truth moves through me…
What you can achieve when you don’t have a choice is truly incredible.

Because that’s the thing—
it was never about strength.
It was about survival.

I gave four years of my life to Harvey’s fight with leukemia.
Four years of showing up, no matter what.
Four years of choosing him, choosing hope, choosing to keep going.

As a psychic medium, that journey stretched me in ways I can’t even explain.
I’m someone who naturally looks ahead, who feels into what’s coming…
but during that time, I couldn’t.
I had to stay here.
In the now.
In each breath.
In each day as it came.

And then… when the chemo finished—
everything caught up with me.

The strength people saw?
It cracked open.
And I was left feeling like I didn’t even know how to function anymore.

So now… I’m rebuilding.
Piece by piece.
Moment by moment.

I don’t have all the answers—and I’ve stopped needing them.
The desire to see into the future has gone.
I still guide others toward theirs, but I’ve learned my place is here… fully present.

I choose to do what I love.
I choose to ask myself, gently, every single day:
“What do I need right now to be okay?”

Because real strength…
isn’t just in enduring the storm.

It’s in learning how to hold yourself after it passes. 🤍

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16/03/2026

Pay attention to who shows up for you.

Not just with words, but with presence. With intention. With the quiet consistency of someone who values the energy you bring into their life.

In a world where so many connections are fleeting, the souls who make the effort to see you, to plan with you, to share time with you… they are the ones aligned with your energy.

Stop pouring your light into spaces where it is barely noticed.
Stop offering your presence to those who treat it as optional.

Your energy is sacred. Your time is sacred.

The right people won’t make you question your place in their life. They will meet you with the same openness, the same effort, the same willingness to create moments together.

Because true connection is not forced.
It flows where appreciation, presence, and intention exist.

Protect your energy.
And give your time to the souls who honour it.

✨

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16/03/2026

I couldn’t agree more with this…
In fact, this is what my dissertation was on at years ago. Connection is everything.

12/03/2026

Peace is the love that begins within.

So many of us search the world hoping someone else will fill the quiet spaces inside us… hoping another heart will bring us the calm we cannot yet find alone. But real peace isn’t something another person can give you. It’s something you awaken within yourself.

When you learn to sit with your own soul…
When you soften the storms inside your mind…
When you remember your worth without needing it reflected back at you…

That is where true alignment begins.

Because love from the outside can comfort you, inspire you, even transform you… but if there is no peace within, it will always feel temporary.

Peace within becomes your anchor.
Your home.
Your truth.

And when you carry that peace inside you, love no longer feels like something you need to chase. It becomes something that naturally flows toward you.

Find peace first.
Everything else will meet you there. ✨

09/03/2026

There’s something beautiful about learning to let life flow.
Not forcing, not gripping so tightly to outcomes… but trusting the quiet rhythm that carries you exactly where your soul is meant to be. ✨

This little human beside me is one of my greatest reminders of that.

Harvey has just overcome leukemia. And walking through that journey changes you in ways words can never fully hold. It teaches you that life isn’t about rushing, chasing, or waiting for the “perfect moment.” It’s about being here. Loving harder. Laughing louder. Holding the people who matter a little closer.

When you align yourself with the things that light up your heart — the simple moments, the deep love, the presence of now — life begins to flow differently.

More softly.
More truthfully.
More beautifully.

Today I’m choosing flow.
Choosing gratitude.
Choosing love.

And I’m endlessly proud of the strength, courage, and light this little warrior carries. 💚






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Split by the light.
Caught between who I was and who I’m becoming.

Some situations don’t bend a heart —
they break it into a million pieces.
Will I ever be the same again?

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