Somatic Life Coach:
I support you to heal your inner child, nervous system and stuck patterns.
Somatic Life Coach
Breakup to Breakthrough Online Course: Heal & Thrive after your Divorce/Breakup
1:1 Somatic Life Coaching
23/10/2025
You might understand your patterns, pain, and desires… ✨
But if nothing’s changing, it’s probably because you’re still standing outside your emotions, trying to fix them with logic. 🧠
You can’t think your way into healing.
You have to enter it.
Feel it.
Be it. 💛
That’s where transformation begins — and that’s what somatic coaching helps you do. 🌿
19/10/2025
🌊 The more we cling, the more anxious we become.
As a person with trauma, I think I have been trying to cling my whole life. On some level, I try to control or predict in order to feel safe.
But life isn’t about clinging to the shore, it’s about learning to trust the river. 🌬️
Most of us with trauma try to control the current, to tense, plan, anticipate, grasp. But that only makes us sink. 💧
Alan Watts says:
“To have faith is to trust yourself to the water. When you swim, you don’t grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead you relax and float.”
You may feel grief at first 💔 because some part of you has been fighting for safety your whole life, trying to hold it all together, control what you couldn’t, love in a world that didn’t always feel safe to love in.
Nothing is wrong with you for doing that. Your nervous system has been wise, it kept you alive. 🌱 It did exactly what it was supposed to do.
The grief is the shift from surviving to allowing. 🌗
You’re beginning to feel what it’s like to not hold it all up by force.
You can even say to yourself right now:
🕊️ “This grief is what safety feels like, at first.
I’m allowed to grieve what I had to be to survive.
It’s ok to release my grasp and allow.”
16/10/2025
We’ve all heard that the ‘body keeps the score.’ But what does that actually mean? 🤔
Trauma isn’t just a memory. It’s a state your nervous system learned to live in. 🧠💔
How?
In somatics, trauma is often defined by something that happened that was too much, too fast. Your body activated to protect you ⚡, but without connection and support, that energy stayed stuck.
Chronic activation of threat responses rewires the brain: the amygdala becomes hypervigilant ⚠️, the hippocampus (context and memory) shrinks 🧩, and the prefrontal cortex (regulation and logic) goes offline under stress.
That’s why your gut goes haywire after a visit with your family 🤢. Or your heart races when they don’t text you back 💓. These are signs of trauma and stuck protective patterns.
Somatic work helps re-pattern the nervous system.
By tracking sensations and connecting with parts of self carrying fear or unmet needs (often the inner child still wired for danger 👶), the body updates its story.
This process restores balance in the vagal pathways 🌀, lowers stress hormones ⚖️, and strengthens the brain’s ability to regulate. This builds a bigger capacity for emotions… and for receiving love and abundance 💛.
Safety becomes embodied, not by thinking, but by feeling your way back to trust ✨.
Curious about how somatic coaching can help you feel this safety in your body? Book a free clarity call 💌 (link in comments) and let’s explore it together.
05/10/2025
“They are not judged by some cosmic scoreboard. But we human beings somehow believe that we are the exception. That we alone must justify our existence. That we must earn the right to be. And this is the root of our suffering. The original illusion. The trust is your imperfections are not mistakes. They are textures, details, echos of your particular music. You don’t need to become worthy of life. You are life. Expressing itself in human form. Just like fire flickers. Just like water flows.” -Alan Watts
05/09/2025
44 💫
“But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice,
which you slowly recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do—
determined to save
the only life you could save.”
-Mary Oliver
31/07/2025
You’ve done the work. You see your patterns.
But they keep playing out, especially in your relationships, your sense of self, even in your work.
Why is that?
Because your patterns live in your nervous system, it’s not just about awareness or mindset shifts.
These patterns were formed to protect you, to get love, safety and belonging.
Along the way, you likely had to discard parts of yourself just to survive.
But what once kept you safe is now keeping you stuck.
Those same patterns may be leaving you disconnected, overwhelmed, full of doubt, drowning in grief.
Maybe your body is even sounding the alarm: with chronic stress, pain or exhaustion.
In somatic coaching with me, we work at the level where deep, lasting change happens:
💥 through the body’s stored memory and physiological responses
💥 with the inner parts of self that hold adaptive strategies from earlier life
💥 by exploring the behavioral and emotional patterns that show up in daily life
💥 through the relational dynamics that often mirror early attachment experiences
This process helps you reclaim your true self, your needs, your voice and the safety to live as you… not who you had to be to survive.
✨ Curious if this work could support you?
I offer a free Clarity Call to explore what’s coming up for you and what’s possible.
Link in comments to book. Sessions are online or in person in Mexico City (Roma Norte).
19/06/2025
Are you a rescuer?
The one who holds it all, fixes the mess, absorbs the feelings, softens the impact.💪😩
Why?
🐤Somewhere along the way, you learned that fusing with another was the only way to be loved.
🐤If you disagreed or didn’t get pulled into their stress or narrative, you were abandoning them. You were “bad”.
How you adapted:
🤝You learned to refine your role as the one who can take it all on.
🤝You agree. A different point of view is too threatening.
🤝You value this about yourself because being the rescuer, the one anyone can lean on becomes intertwined with your self worth.
🤝You see yourself as “good” when you abandon yourself for them.
✨Now you are trying to individuate.✨
To honor your own needs, boundaries, space, timing. Individuation can feel unnatural when your nervous system was wired for fusion.
Because somewhere deep down, the fear is:
If I stop tending to them, I’ll be left, I’ll be cast away. Alone. Forgotten.
So you keep abandoning yourself to avoid being the one abandoned.😔
If you grew up in a family or system where:
• love meant fusing with others’ pain
• safety was scarce and had to be shared
• your needs were secondary to others’ chaos
• emotional closeness meant carrying each other’s burdens
…then this current growth into boundaries, self-trust and emotional separation can feel like betrayal.
But it’s not betrayal.
It’s the beginning of repair.
It’s healing the family/societal nervous system, starting with your own.🫂❤️
My somatic coaching can support you to shift this pattern, not just conceptually, but in your body, where it lives.
Reach out or book a free clarity call with me to explore how this deep work can shift things for you. Link in bio.
11/06/2025
Regulate for action instead of reaction.
23/05/2025
Curious about somatic healing?
Somatic work may be the doorway to real change for you if:
* You mentally know you’re safe but almost always feel unsafe or on edge.
* You understand your wounds and patterns, but it feels like nothing is changing.
* You say yes when you mean no.
* You panic when someone pulls away OR you fear conflict.
* You find yourself in relational ambivalence often- should I stay or should I go?
* A recent heartbreak or grief feels impossible to navigate.
* You feel a shift coming but simultaneously feel lost.
* Your body is experiencing different symptoms that won’t go away.
This is where somatic work comes in. 🫀🧠
Because our trauma, patterns and wounds aren’t just stored in the mind—they live in the body, in the nervous system. In how we react to and experience the world. 🙀
When your system has learned to survive through fighting, flying, fawning, freezing, even small triggers can flood you with stress chemicals like cortisol and adrenaline.
You might call it “overreacting” or “being sensitive.” You may try and talk yourself out of what you’re feeling. But that doesn’t work because your system is programmed this way to survive.
Somatic work helps you gently rewire those survival pathways.😌
To notice when you’re abandoning yourself to not lose others.
To build capacity for discomfort without shutting down.
To respond instead of react.
Healing happens when your body learns:
✨I don’t have to abandon any part of myself.✨
If this speaks to something in you, I invite you to book a Free Clarity Call with me. Explore how somatic coaching can support and empower you in the next phase of your journey. Link in comments. 🙌🏽
19/03/2025
Keeping our unwanted emotions company, no matter how uncomfortable, is a vital step in healing the abandonment wound.
When we were young, our emotions may not have been met with care. Maybe they were dismissed, ignored, or even punished. Maybe someone else’s emotions in the family took up all the space. Over time, we internalized this and learned to treat our own feelings the same way—abandoning ourselves just as we were once abandoned.
We do this by:
✅ Trying to change emotions fast – “Why am I feeling this? How do I fix it?” (We scramble for solutions, fearing the discomfort.)
✅ Minimizing our feelings – “It’s not that bad. Other people have it worse.” (We invalidate our own pain.)
✅ Rationalizing them away – “This doesn’t make sense. I shouldn’t feel this way.” (We demand logic from emotions that are asking to be felt, not explained.)
✅ Chiding ourselves for feeling them – “What’s wrong with me? I should be over this.” (We shame ourselves instead of offering compassion.)
These are all ways we reenact the emotional abandonment we experienced as children. When adults couldn’t hold space for our pain, we learned to exile parts of ourselves just to survive.
Healing this wound means doing the opposite: staying.
But how do we stay?
You can begin by noticing which part of you is showing up—is it a younger part that feels scared? A critical voice trying to push emotions away? A protector trying to numb or fix?
Instead of fighting these parts, try:
✨ Turning toward them with curiosity – “I see you. I’m here.”
✨ Asking what they need – “What are you afraid of? How can I support you?”
✨ Reassuring them that they’re not alone – “You don’t have to carry this by yourself anymore.”
✨ Letting them express without rushing to fix – “I’m listening. You get to be here.”
When you do this, you’re showing up in a way no one ever did for you. You’re proving to yourself, over and over again, that you will not be abandoned anymore.
14/03/2025
Spring into Renewal: A Somatic Reset for Your Nervous System 🌿✨
Join me for a 4-week in-person Yoga & Meditation Course in Mexico City—a space to restore, regulate, and replenish your nervous system.
Each Saturday morning, we’ll gather on my beautiful, plant-filled terrace, moving through gentle yoga, meditation, and somatic tools designed to bring deep rest and renewal.
Starting next Saturday, March 22!
This is your invitation to slow down, breathe, and reset. 🌿 Ready to join? Sign up now for ✨Spring Into Renewal✨, link in bio!
06/03/2025
Self-Abandonment & Attachment Trauma: When Love Meant Losing Yourself
If you had to earn love as a child—by being good, easy, or invisible—then self-abandonment isn’t just a habit. It’s a survival strategy.
Attachment trauma may teach you that:
🔹 Your needs are too much
🔹 Your emotions create conflict
🔹 Love is conditional—given when you’re pleasing, withheld when you’re not
🔹 There’s something wrong with or unworthy about you
So, you learn to:
⚠️ Prioritize not disappointing other people over your own truth
⚠️ Say “yes” when every part of you wants to say “no”
⚠️ Swallow your pain to keep the peace
⚠️ Stay small so you don’t risk rejection
⚠️ Scan for a threat of abandonment or proof you’re not enough
But here’s the truth: Love that requires you to self-abandon is not love.
Healing means unlearning the belief that you have to shrink, shape-shift, or suppress yourself to be worthy of connection. It may mean developing a self-soothing method and boundaries to build trust with yourself. It can mean not scanning for every next sign of rejection as a protection mechanism. It may mean finding relationships where you belong too—not just the version of you that makes others comfortable.
Have you noticed where attachment trauma has made you abandon yourself? Drop a ❤️ if this resonates.
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I am passionate about touching and transforming people’s lives. It would be my greatest passion and honor to serve you.
I believe healing exists in not only understanding in the mind, but by deepening your relationship with the body. By asking the body for guidance, we heal old wounds both physically and emotionally. From here, we have the opportunity to identify and replace destructive patterns. This has the power to transform pain into self love, freedom and possibility.
Training and Experience:
I received my RYT-200 certification in Hatha and Kundalini yoga at Karuna Yoga Los Angeles in 2008. I went on to become a certified Yoga Therapist in 2014 from Loyola Marymount University, one of the only universities in the world with a prestigious IAYT- International Association of Yoga Therapists - accredited Yoga Therapy Rx program. This two year program included in-depth training from Western and Eastern doctors alike. My certificate is in Advanced Yoga Therapy Rx with a focus on the body and mind’s role in releasing trauma, anxiety, and depression. My passion for the emotional and spiritual connection in yoga therapy led me to work with clients through one-on-one holistic coaching.
I am a certified Life Coach with KEW Training Academy, accredited by CTAA: Complimentary Therapists Accredited Association. I have trained through the Rich Litvin Intensive, the world acclaimed coach. My coaching has been deepened through multiple training programs with renowned spiritual teachers. Including immersions with Pema Chodron: Living Beautifully with Uncertainty and Change; Matt Kahn’s weekend immersions: Rewire Your Reality, The End of Anger, Entering Eternal Bliss, Transcending Your Patterns, True Divine Nature Immersion; and Teal Swan’s Synchronization Workshop Los Angeles.
For over 10 years I have worked with private clients to transform their lives through soulful alignment of their individual paths, relationships and careers. My practice has included clients healing from trauma, sexual abuse, grief, divorce, anxiety, depression, those with cancer, multiple sclerosis, developmental disabilities and autism. In addition to working privately with individuals, I have taught and led a successful corporate yoga business at non-profits, architecture firms, financial institutions, fashion companies, museums, hotels, and schools.