Wings Of Love

Wings Of Love Trauma-informed therapy-Evidence Based & Holistic. I'm Jolene Choy, a Trauma-Informed Therapist and Holistic Healing Practitioner.
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Supporting women, children & teens seeking emotional wellbeing and authentic growth. 🪷EMDR · Sand Tray · FC · Compassion Inquiry · Past Life Regression
In-person (Klang) & Online
đź“©+014 313 8265 I support women, children and teens to release old wounds, gain clarity, restore emotional wellbeing, discover their life purpose and rebuild self-confidence. I integrate evidence-based and holistic approac

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🌱 EMDR & Somatic-Based Therapy
🎨 Sand Tray Therapy & Art Therapy
đź‘Ş Family Constellation
🌸 Compassion Inquiry Approach
✨ Reiki & Past Life Regression
🎼 Sound Healing

I also teach courses and workshops to empower others in their healing journey, including:

Reiki (Levels 1, 2, Master & Teacher), World Peace Holy Fire®️111 Karuna Reiki®️
Sound Healing & Emotional Wellness workshops
Nagomi Art Therapy

I belief every individual has the innate capacity to heal and return to their authentic self. What they often need is awareness, understanding and self-compassion to reconnect with their inner strength and begin their journey of healing.

đź“© WhatsApp 014-3138265 to enquire or book a session or register for courses. Wings & Love Holistic Wellness Services
SSM Number : 202403272469 (PG0562017-H)

You just stopped tolerating what hurts you.There was a version of you who:– stayed quiet– adjusted yourself– endured dis...
28/04/2026

You just stopped tolerating what hurts you.

There was a version of you who:
– stayed quiet
– adjusted yourself
– endured discomfort just to keep the peace

You thought you were weak previously,
But because you were conditioned to survive.

And now something has shifted.

You notice more.
You feel more.
You can’t ignore what doesn’t feel right anymore.

So everything starts to feel different.

People.
Conversations.

You are no longer abandoning yourself
to maintain connection.

And this is where many people feel confused.

Because healing doesn’t only bring peace.
It also changes what you can tolerate.

So if things feel different right now,

👉 You’re not “too much”
👉 You’re becoming more honest with yourself

The real work is not to go back to who you were.

It is to learn:

How to stay connected without losing yourself.

You were taught to give.To be kind.To be understanding.And over time,it became who you are.But what many don’t realise,W...
21/04/2026

You were taught to give.
To be kind.
To be understanding.

And over time,
it became who you are.

But what many don’t realise,

When you are always the one giving,
your system slowly adapts to not receiving.

Receiving may feel:
– uncomfortable
– unfamiliar
– even undeserved

Not because you are incapable,
but because you were never supported to experience it safely.

So you continue to give.
Even when you are tired.

This is not your personality.

This is a pattern your nervous system learned.

Healing is not about becoming less giving.

It is about learning that you are allowed to receive, too without feeling guilty and losing yourself.

17/04/2026

Many women feel confused after leaving a painful relationship.

They ask themselves:
“Why do I still miss him, even after everything he did to you?”

This question often comes with shame.

But the truth is not about weakness.

When someone experiences love that is mixed with inconsistency, hurt, and emotional instability,
the nervous system begins to associate pain with connection.

Over time, this becomes familiar.

So even when the relationship ends,
the body continues to reach for what it has been conditioned to know.

This is why:
– you still think about them
– you still feel pulled back
– you still question yourself

Not because it was healthy,
but because it was familiar.

Healing is not about forcing yourself to forget.

It is about slowly recognising what your system has learned, and gently allowing something different.

If you are in this space,
be patient with yourself.

Awareness is already a step forward.

One of the most painful patterns I see in my therapy room is this:The one who was hurt is the one seeking help.The one w...
13/04/2026

One of the most painful patterns I see in my therapy room is this:

The one who was hurt is the one seeking help.

The one who caused the pain often does nothing.

And this creates deep confusion inside a woman.

“Was it my fault?”
“Did I do something wrong?”
“Why am I the only one trying to fix this?”

This is a trauma pattern.

When you grow up in an environments where love is conditional, inconsistent, or painful, your nervous system learns that:

– love must be earned
– connection must be maintained at all cost
– abandonment must be avoided, even if it hurts

So you become the one who:
keeps giving
keeps trying
keeps holding everything together

Even when the relationship is breaking you.

And when it ends, you don’t just lose the person.

You lose the identity of being “needed”, “chosen”, and “enough”.

That is why the pain feels so intense.
That is why the body cannot let go easily.

Healing is not about blaming yourself.
Healing is about understanding what your body has been trained to believe.

And slowly, learning a new way to feel safe.

If you resonate with this,
you are not alone and you are not broken.

You are responding exactly how trauma was wired.

🌿 Trauma-informed therapy for women
đź’› Safe space to heal at the root
đź“© DM or WhatsApp at +014 3138265 for appointment

Some relationships don’t just hurt you,they slowly make you question who you are.You start overthinking, adjusting to fi...
08/04/2026

Some relationships don’t just hurt you,
they slowly make you question who you are.

You start overthinking, adjusting to fit in and
silencing yourself just to keep the connection.

Deep inside,
you may already know the answer but you can’t control and stop yourself,

It’s not love that’s keeping you there.
It’s the fear of being left.

This fear didn’t start here.
It was learned. Felt. Carried.

And until it is healed,
Otherwise it keep repeating in different relationships with the same fear.

Healing is not about forcing yourself to leave.
It’s about learning to feel safe within yourself again.

So you no longer stay
where you feel drained, confused, or unseen.

🤍 You deserve a relationship that feels safe and love again.

If you’re ready to break this pattern
and create a more peaceful, harmonious relationship.

I’m here to guide you.

đź“Ť Bandar Botanic, Klang
🌿 Private & safe space
đź’» Online & in-person sessions available

DM “HEAL” to begin your journey 🤍
Or WhatsApp at 014 3138265 to book your session.

You tell yourself…“Maybe I’m overthinking, and you should try harder. Then things will change.”Deep inside, you already...
01/04/2026

You tell yourself…
“Maybe I’m overthinking, and you should try harder. Then things will change.”

Deep inside, you already know the truth and you can feel the disconnection from your partner but you didn’t know how to work it out.

You’re staying because you’re afraid to be alone, and abandoned.

Your fear is real.
It didn’t come from nowhere.

It was learned, felt and carried for a long time.

However, healing doesn’t come from holding on tighter.
It comes from finally feeling safe within yourself.

So you no longer have to stay
where you are not loved properly.

If you’re ready to understand your patterns
and gently come back to yourself…

DM and Book your appointment for therapy at
+014 3138265

27/03/2026

You gave your time,
your patience,
your understanding,
and still, you feel unappreciated.

Sometimes he is warm.
Sometimes he becomes distant.
And you are left questioning yourself
You wondering what went wrong.

So you try harder.
You explain.
You wait.
You hope he will understand.

But when you bring it up,
you are told that you are “too sensitive.”

Over time, you feel tired,
helpless,
and disconnected.

This is not just a relationship issue.

Often, it is a pattern that started much earlier in your childhood where love felt inconsistent…
where you had to adjust, stay quiet, or be understanding
just to keep the connection with your parents.

Your body learned that love is something you must work for to prove your value.

Healing starts when you gently go back to that part of you who never felt safe to feel, and allow her to express, reconnect with her body, and regulate her nervous system.

Healing is not about trying harder in love.
It is about returning to yourself.

If you are ready to understand and break this pattern,
you don’t have to do it alone. 🌿

We are here to support you.

Have you ever felt like no matter how much you give,it is still not enough to please your partner?You try harder.You giv...
24/03/2026

Have you ever felt like no matter how much you give,
it is still not enough to please your partner?

You try harder.
You give more.
You keep showing up.

But deep inside, you feel tired…
unseen…
and slowly losing yourself.

This is not because you are “too much.”
This is a pattern.

A pattern where your nervous system learned:
“I need to give more to be loved.”

So you overgive.
You stay.
You endure.

Hoping one day, they will finally see your worth.

But real love doesn’t require you to abandon yourself.

When this pattern is not healed,
it keeps repeating in different people, and experience the same pain.

Healing is not about trying harder.
It’s about understanding the root
and gently shifting it.

✨ At Wings of Love, we help you:
• break the overgiving pattern
• rebuild your sense of self
• feel safe, valued and balanced in relationships

You don’t have to carry this alone anymore.

đź“Ť Private sessions (Bandar Botanic, Klang)
đź’» Online & In-person available
đź“© DM or WhatsApp to begin your journey

🌙 Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri 🌙Maaf Zahir & BatinMay this beautiful season of forgiveness and renewal bring you peace, ...
21/03/2026

🌙 Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri 🌙
Maaf Zahir & Batin

May this beautiful season of forgiveness and renewal bring you peace, lightness, and healing.

As you return to your loved ones, may your heart feel safe, your soul feel seen, and your presence feel enough , just as you are.

For those who are still carrying unspoken pain, silent responsibilities, or emotional wounds…
may this Raya also be a gentle reminder:

You deserve rest.
You deserve peace.
You deserve to be held, not just to hold others.

Wishing you and your family a meaningful Hari Raya filled with love, compassion, and inner calm ✨

You are always the strong one.The one who takes responsibility for everyone.The one who keeps things together when every...
18/03/2026

You are always the strong one.

The one who takes responsibility for everyone.
The one who keeps things together when everything feels like it’s falling apart.

Your family and other people see you as capable, dependable, and strong.

So when something goes wrong,
they expect you to fix it.

But what they don’t see is :

You are carrying pressure quietly.
You rarely speak about your own struggles.
You feel like you must stay strong for everyone.

And over time…
you become exhausted, and emotionally alone.

Sometimes you felt unappreciated.

This pattern often begins very early in life,
when you had to be the strong one for survival, stability, or emotional safety.

But now, this pattern is draining you.

Healing is not about becoming weaker.
It is about learning how to feel safe without carrying everything alone.

If you are ready to break this pattern,
I am here to support you.

🌿 Trauma-Informed Therapy for Women
đź“Ť Bandar Botanic, Klang
đź’» Online & In-Person sessions available

đź“© WhatsApp +014 313 8265
or DM to book your session

You don’t have to do this alone anymore.


Many women earn good money, but still never feel financially secure.Your income may be stable, but inside there is still...
13/03/2026

Many women earn good money,
but still never feel financially secure.

Your income may be stable, but inside there is still a constant pressure:
• always solving problems
• supporting family
• carrying responsibilities
• fixing things for everyone

And somehow, it is very little left for yourself.

This is not simply a financial issue.

For many women, money patterns are connected to deeper survival roles developed growing up.

You may have been:
• the responsible one in the family
• the one who had to fix everything
• the one who felt guilty having more than others
• the one who had to grow up too early

Over time, your nervous system learns a pattern:
“My role is to carry and solve.”

That pattern quietly shapes how you relate to money, responsibility and security.

Many women have already tried:
counselling, coaching, healing, or talking about the issue.

It may help temporarily,
but after a while the same cycle returns.

Because the pattern is not only in the mind.

It lives deeper in the nervous system and family survival roles.

At Wings Of Love, we work holistically to help women:

• release unconscious survival roles
• regulate the nervous system
• restore emotional safety
• rebuild a healthier relationship with money

So that financial stability does not just exist on paper, but also feels real inside your body.

If this resonates with you, you are welcome to reach out.

Private sessions available
Online & In-Person

DM “SAVE” or WhatsApp
+014 3138265

You may be confident in your career.You may be respected for your skills, your intelligence, and your professionalism.Bu...
06/03/2026

You may be confident in your career.

You may be respected for your skills, your intelligence, and your professionalism.

But when money and lifestyle are discussed in a group setting, something shifts inside you.

You go quieter.
You compare.
You feel smaller.

Not because you are incapable.
Not because you are not successful.

But because your nervous system remembers something.

If you grew up with:
– financial instability
– being compared
– money conflicts at home
– feeling like a burden

Your body may unconsciously link money with worth, hierarchy, and belonging.

So when others talk about business class flights, luxury bags, investments, or fine dining , your system may register it as status comparison.

This is not about income.

It is about safety and dignity.

And when money keeps going to emergencies, family responsibilities, repairs , instead of enjoyment , it can quietly reinforce the belief:

“I have work hard, but I don’t get to enjoy.”

This is a nervous system pattern.

And patterns can be healed.

Financial stability starts with emotional safety.

If this resonates, you are not alone.









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