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BirthInk HypnoBirthing Malaysia, No 16-1 Kedai Kelumpuk Merpati A Jalan 4/5Keramat, Wilayah Persekutuan Kuala Lumpur6 AU3 WP, Kuala Lumpur (2026)

11/03/2026

To let labour unfold, to trust in the timing. To embrace it's presence and not know exactly when is the divine timing.
To allow the body to soak in all that baby bump is brewing
To dream of the lion, to be uncertain but sure.

Alhamdulillah, another smooth labour, another trusting parents.

To be present in this journey even in the smallest way, that's the blessing.

06/03/2026

Di bulan mulia ini, they did it (again? Better? Chill as bat****)

Being super thrilled for them, again, but birth version 2.0 came with the updates that was perfect.

You know sometimes I wish I could be recording the conversation that I have with my clients, in those private reflections and gossips there's so many truths and experiences coming out.

And I appreciate that they are so much aware about their body, their rights, their duty (especially gorilla), their ability, what kind of care they deserve - and not succumb to petty fear mongering tactics.

I mean when Drs talk to you in a degrading tone, "you could bleed to death, your baby could have complications", "you're the head of the family, you should protect your wife"... Like yeah, we get it, emergency is a potential, but just like driving a car, you can minimize emergencies by sheer using your adult brains, and these risk factors are blown out of proportion (that's what we call fear mongering)

The worst part? Your practices are outdated, yeah meaning they cause more emergencies and harm to mom and baby otherwise. So when parents come to you requesting for better care and treatment, you patronize them. Dey, Macha,....

Anyways, this time was perfect, this time she instructed herself to do things that she needed to prioritize instead of being overly excited. You gotta eat cause you're gonna pantang, and you gotta sleep cause you don't know how long this ride will be. But how nice for everything to fall in place, and be much faster...

P.s wherever you choose to birth, you deserve the support and respect. It won't always go as planned, but the point is about understanding the whole flow and options.

09/02/2026

Always feels weird getting compliments...
But yeah, why did you hire your doula?

27/01/2026

I saw a post recently on what a doula is, can't trace it back unfortunately but, although a Doula is someone who handles the moms emotions, "emotional support" they say and it might sound petty, but in truth emotional support also means a lot of physical output, spiritual connection, and mental clarity for her.
She basically mothers the mother, she looks for subtle signs that may be the missing piece to the puzzle, she puts the pillow where moms needs it without asking, she brings over the tumbler to dad because she knows I'm two seconds mom will ask for it, she's making sure the moms legs are dry so mom doesn't slip, she even knows how to push hair away from moms face without annoying her during labour - all of this while knowing and leaning into what counter pressure mom wants, the look of assurance dad needs, holding mom just the way she needs etc. All these tiny details amount to a huge impact.

I used to think my job was non-essential, until i supported moms and more moms, and I realized, they wanted to feel comfortable in womanly presence, who they could lean on. They wanted a space of safety and trust.

When you learn what safety and trust does to a labour, to baby and to mom.... You will appreciate having that person. Even if all she does is smile and stands in the corner, that's her doing her job analysing what needs and not needs to be done.

She, or they, are essential

19/01/2026

pain is not an inherent part of childbirth and many people don't realize what's actually causing the pain has very little to do with it being having to get a baby out of the womb.

We can choose to let our body suffer the pain of our belief, or we can choose to empower ourselves with the knowledge that our body is far more capable that these limiting stories we've heard over decades.

12/01/2026

Lets get this clear, a planned homebirth is always better than ignorance and blind belief. This isn't about me promoting homebirths either, this is about the reality that so many women get trapped into believing that the many limitations posed on their body by their care provider is placed for them to have a "safe" birth, when the truth is that, your induction, being told to lie down and push on your back, getting that episiotomy to "help" your baby out, tugging on your placenta immediately post birth, were probably all the things that are more likely to have caused more catastrophic issues than actual trusting your body to birth.

Don't get me wrong, blind faith in anything isn't good either path you choose. But most moms I know who plan for a home birth go down the rabbit hole, they didn't just wake up at 40w randomly deciding to give birth at home without acknowledging the pros and CONS, of the situation.

This isn't a debate about home vs hospital, this is a wake up and do your research, go down that rabbit hole.

30/12/2025

Birth Education is not just about breathing techniques, it goes deeper than that and it's about a self discovery of your abilities. Birth education helps you keep you healthy as well.

Birth Education gives you the opportunity to be enlightened, removed from your fear of not knowing, or knowing the limited perspective, and deciding how you want to experience your birth.

When you know all the views on birth, you get to embrace birth without fear.

So want to know how you can un-trauma yourself? Want to embrace birth in a way that makes sense for your body? Get in touch, waiting for later is losing time on planning it for your way.

End the year in a way that sets next year we'll especially when you are expecting on the first quarter.

27/12/2025

A way to end my 2025, last birth of the year ❤️
And the longest 3rd stage experience so far.
Despite the easy birth she had, her placenta was another process to surrender to. We even managed to sleep and wake up still to a placenta happily attached.

That's why I refuse to put time into labours, time is not the best indicator of health or wellbeing. Mothers take time to allow their body to labour and open for babies, babies take time to wriggle their way into the earth, and placentas also take time.

But knowing what to do during that wait, knowing how to be respectful of that moment, knowing how to encourage the unfolding is another thing. Not fear mongering, or coercion, not making a statement without rational explanation.

Next year, is going to be a different year for me, I feel it already. This year I had an assistant most of the time.. next year mommies, I'm looking forward to it already. Already have clients to look forward to❤️

Bless you 2025 thank you for a humbling year, it's been hard, carrying my pregnant belly around with lots of heavy emotions, but even harder carrying my assistant with me and trusting that the universe has it all planned out. From Penang to Raub and all over Klang Valley, to Shah Alam and Puncak Alam, I had the pleasure of even supporting hospital births (purely for the moms sake - no real interest in all that controlled rigid SOP driven scenario) but yeah, I'm blessed to have supported them 🥰

By the way guess how many hours this placenta took to come out after birth of baby?

15/12/2025

A reflection of yesterday
"If you had to guess you think it’ll come tonight?"
It's hard to tell, but when I come I can see if the labour is ready to kick start.
And so many things had to be processed to get to this point of success, from early pregnancy to the last bit of twist on the cesarean topic being brought up. The challenges of wanting a natural birth but not being able to do it, the fears and anxiety of the past experience and treading with trepidation that one might get the same lack of support, while hallucinating while on the gas.

But processing it is an important part of moving on, and making decisions as they come after informing oneself. The fear of both going into early and having to "get things started" and going in late and not making it in time. What do we do about the older child as well?

The whole day was just spaced out bouts of surges that went, until I came along to see how, the presence of someone who brings in the energy of calmness to allow the unfolding of labour.thats when things started to pick up, 5mins apart - do you want to go in now? "I don't know". But alas when we saw clearly that the sac was bulging it was time to make our difficultly short journey to the hospital. Her waters released as we were near the guard house walking over to the hospital. Wheelchair? Nope, just a cloth to hold her under there in case. At some point, her soft spoken gorilla bore her weight to lift her across that 50ft stretch. In we go to the A&E where there was chaos and up to the labour room. In less than 20mins baby was out, and the beautiful part was that she made it, into the rub to birth her baby just as she hoped.

I'm so happy and proud of her cosy team who kept her strong. Me and Gorilla were a good quiet supportive team. Encouraging her, holding her when her body was strong and deep in surges.

Thank you to the guard(s) who helped and thank you to the universe who aligned. Everything went so smooth.

26/11/2025

Atas bawah luka
Failed labour, complicated cesarean, damage extended to the fallopian tubes

Label - poor maternal effort
It was traumatic, Hemorrhaged, PPD.

No one believed that she can vbac, nor allowed her the opportunity to TOLAC. They all said, it was dangerous to VBAC. Mandatory repeat cesarean they said. She so desperately wanted to avoid that trauma, she so wanted someone to believe in her.

But today, she proved that she is capable of giving birth. Today was victory for her, when she pushed aside the fear mongering and took a leap of faith in getting herself educated about birth, not the way she learnt it during med school, not with machines and cervical checks, not with pushing just because you are 10cm. But the way nature intended for things, the way her body works for the outcome, and how to support her body instead of going against that flow. She isn't broken. Her VBAC was a healthy experience, was safer than her cesarean.

But the indoctrinated system we live in is broken
It will only change when women start taking charge of their body, and open their hearts to the intuitive knowledge that their body is made for birth.

P.S, I guess November births wasn't done 😛

23/11/2025

Alhamdulillah, the last of November babies this year (or maybe not)

A birth so smooth, a mom so prepared, she actually dreamt she had a freebirth. I guess that was God's way of telling her to be ready for it.

This is the 3rd birth I didn't make on time since 2018, so smooth, no time for the intended water birth.

I was a bit concerned given the scoliosis+ anxiety+ftm that birth might be on the longer side. But there's a lot of preparation she did during birth. Classes, internal preparation, external prep, and letting go of control and set expectations, letting go of social media craze news. Towards the last month of her pregnancy, I could sense that she was way much calmer than when she began. No more freaking out text, just needed reassurance text.

Lo and behold, a whole new world just came super fast with a nice membrane release, everything smooth but speedy that she was out to get breakfast just 15mins prior to baby's entrance.

I'm so proud of her! And of gorilla too!
They did wonderfully

22/11/2025

Often sharing about work, however this is a part that is rarely seen, my life.

Aside from teaching HypnoBirthing and Doula-ing,as my full time career. I am also a full-time mom and homeschooling . Some days are wild and busy, some days are more chilled.

So life gets busy, yes it gets very busy. Don't ask me "how do you do it?" I don't know. But I'm happy to share about my personal journey, just ask.

As for my professional journey, if you cannot value me, I don't have the time for you (see above for why) The reality is that, I love my work, probably everyone who has worked with me can attest to that. And I also need this to be sustainable as well, to care for 4 kids and myself. So I've learnt to prioritize those who matter, those who come to me with clear intention and appreciate and know my worth.

Thank you

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